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First Christmas without Grandpa. (Original Post) 47of74 Dec 2013 OP
Birds of a feather, we lost my dad last February liberal N proud Dec 2013 #1
If I may ask, how old? 47of74 Dec 2013 #2
Dad was 2 months shy of 90 liberal N proud Dec 2013 #3
Those firsts are so darned hard. auntAgonist Dec 2013 #4
This is my third time. 47of74 Dec 2013 #6
You will miss him always but take comfort in this thought. Paper Roses Dec 2013 #5

liberal N proud

(60,944 posts)
1. Birds of a feather, we lost my dad last February
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 05:37 PM
Dec 2013

The last time I saw him was Christmas last year.

My heart goes out to you.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
2. If I may ask, how old?
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 06:31 PM
Dec 2013

Like I said Grandpa was just over two weeks from his 90th when he passed. He served in WWII on the Pacific front and occupation forces in Japan. Came home, got married in 47, then farmed up to late 2010. Didn't give working up willingly but had to when he got too weak to continue farming and move into assisted living.

liberal N proud

(60,944 posts)
3. Dad was 2 months shy of 90
Sat Dec 21, 2013, 08:38 PM
Dec 2013

WWII Vet served in the Japanese invasion force. That will make think about Trumans decision.

He and my mother were married 62 years before mom passed 3 years ago, she was also just a few months shy of 90.

Dad had a massive heart attack and went quickly.

He worked 30 years and had nearly 30 years retirement.

auntAgonist

(17,257 posts)
4. Those firsts are so darned hard.
Sun Dec 22, 2013, 02:20 AM
Dec 2013

You have my thoughts and best wishes for a joyful and memory filled Christmas.

Share stories.

It's VERY painful at first and there will be tears. But you're making new memories filled with love for the old.

I'm sorry you've had to join us in the same boat.


Please have a good Christmas.

kesha.

 

47of74

(18,470 posts)
6. This is my third time.
Sun Dec 22, 2013, 06:16 PM
Dec 2013

My maternal Grandpa passed just before my 5th birthday and I don't really remember Christmas when he was alive. My maternal Grandma passed in 2003 and we're still trying to figure out Christmas without her being around. My paternal Grandpa died summer so we'll be having Christmas at the assisted living place where Grandma lives now. It will be different without him around. Grandma's doing reasonably well right now but she's approaching 90 herself so we all know shel will leave us someday, hopefully not for a number of years yet. I hope she gets to at least 100.

Paper Roses

(7,505 posts)
5. You will miss him always but take comfort in this thought.
Sun Dec 22, 2013, 05:00 AM
Dec 2013

You had almost 90 wonderful years with him. I wish this same long and happy relationship to all.
Many of us have lost loved ones at a much earlier age. The loss just does not go away.

Holidays don't seen to get better either.

My sincere condolences.

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