Bereavement

imavoter

(657 posts) Fri Aug 2, 2024, 12:43 AM Aug 2

3 years August 12th

Don't miss my husband any less, but sometimes it's easier to manage now.

Just curious, some days I can be productive...other days, even though I'm productive at work.
When I get home can barely function or like today my day off today was a bust.

Insight please. I'm just in a place where I have lots tondo and need to buck up.
I'm starting to.get tired of feeling sorry for myself. Missing him is bad enough without extra bull shit.

What works.for you. Yes therapist and I had to join a 12 step program, NOT AA.
But now ai have a double wammy.

However I have 6 months at the job I wanted. So there's that.

Sorry for the typos. Posting from my phone and hard to see.

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3 years August 12th (Original Post) imavoter Aug 2 OP

No sage words of advice but FemDemERA Aug 2 #1

I admire you for doing as well as you are. Dark n Stormy Knight Aug 3 #2

FemDemERA

(352 posts)

1. No sage words of advice but

Reply to imavoter (Original post)

Fri Aug 2, 2024, 01:53 PM

Aug 2

I wanted to just acknowledge what you are going through. Grief is so rough and has no time limits. I do hope you have some local family or friends as support. Take care.

Dark n Stormy Knight

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2. I admire you for doing as well as you are.

Reply to imavoter (Original post)

Sat Aug 3, 2024, 11:38 AM

Aug 3

I know if my husband dies before me, I will not recover. I hope you can find strength in giving yourself credit for not giving up.

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