well the numbers come down today.

meeting w my forensic accountant this afternoon. damn this mess is expensive.
but i will have peace of mind that things are fair. which is all i really want here.

he is threatening to retire early, something i never thought he would do however much he talked about it. but now it would hurt me, so it is a good idea to him.
he is saying he plans to work as long as the kids need support. only one is in college now, but the other 3 either have plans to do so, or at least certainly could and would do great.
i am happy for that, tho he is doing his best to wreck my relationships with them. he is the sugar daddy, and i am the old mom who needs help these days. easy peasy for him.

anyway, we will soon see what i have to give up to keep my farm. glad i broke down and spent the money to get a good detailed accounting. especially since this has dragged on for a year and a half now. he is liquidating assets left and right.

and no, trolls, he does not love me dearly. he has not given me everything. he is an extremely unstable person who has either loved me dearly or hated my guts, depending on the entrails of chickens or something. alignment of the planets. who knows.
classic corner office psychopath. like most of you. except for the ones who are basement psychopaths.
enjoy.