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backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:54 PM Nov 2018

I got in a head on collision today.

I'm ok. No broken bones. A young driver was turning right onto the road I was driving and came all the way into my lane...head on. Hes ok too, but shaken up.

Ive got whiplash and back, neck, and ankle strains. I've never been in a wreck before.

My car is totalled. I'm really relieved that no one was seriously hurt.

Need some DU magic dust....

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I got in a head on collision today. (Original Post) backtoblue Nov 2018 OP
Ow! Sounds like your DU handle should temporarily change to "black&blue" True Dough Nov 2018 #1
Ha! backtoblue Nov 2018 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author littlemissmartypants Nov 2018 #2
Best wishes to you... PoliticAverse Nov 2018 #3
Thanks! backtoblue Nov 2018 #70
It is wonderful news that you are ok pandr32 Nov 2018 #5
My teenage son is being awesome helping out backtoblue Nov 2018 #71
Yes--our kids can be our heros pandr32 Nov 2018 #99
So sorry. I rolled a VW Beetle in the Adirondacks snow when I was young and fierywoman Nov 2018 #6
Going to get my stuff out of the car today backtoblue Nov 2018 #73
With whiplash and back strains you'll be in bad shape tomorrow morning blm Nov 2018 #7
You are psychic my friend... backtoblue Nov 2018 #74
Not psychic. I went through it myself. It hoits big time! blm Nov 2018 #80
ooh, I'm sorry to hear this! gristy Nov 2018 #8
Hiya gristy backtoblue Nov 2018 #86
DU dust comin' at ya! Cracklin Charlie Nov 2018 #9
Thanks Charlie! backtoblue Nov 2018 #87
Thank goodness you're ok! Lefta Dissenter Nov 2018 #10
Thanks Lefta backtoblue Nov 2018 #88
I'm sorry to hear this. Hope you're feeling better by tomorrow. badhair77 Nov 2018 #11
Thank you badhair backtoblue Nov 2018 #89
So did both car's air bags deploy? jimlup Nov 2018 #12
Mine did not backtoblue Nov 2018 #41
That's surprising jimlup Nov 2018 #57
Glad everyone is OK liberal N proud Nov 2018 #13
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #90
That was a good car vlyons Nov 2018 #14
It did its job protecting me backtoblue Nov 2018 #91
Glad both of you guys made it out ok. drray23 Nov 2018 #15
Thanks ray backtoblue Nov 2018 #92
You did get hurt. Don't forget that. Coddle yourself. Warm bath with Epsom salts. Shrike47 Nov 2018 #16
And by all means, Haggis for Breakfast Nov 2018 #23
That's scary! backtoblue Nov 2018 #43
So glad you are okay (both of you). You must remember to cry when you applegrove Nov 2018 #17
Thanks applegrove backtoblue Nov 2018 #93
Good to hear you are ok. tiredtoo Nov 2018 #18
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #94
Oh dear! snacker Nov 2018 #19
Thanks for the vibes backtoblue Nov 2018 #95
Wait, you were canvassing? hurl Nov 2018 #97
Russian agent! I should've known! backtoblue Nov 2018 #98
Glad you are OK. I got t-boned once and it totaled my car. wasupaloopa Nov 2018 #20
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #102
new cars are fun wasupaloopa Nov 2018 #146
Oh no! More_Cowbell Nov 2018 #21
I had payment protection plan backtoblue Nov 2018 #103
You and the other guy need to buy lottery tickets! Glad Laura PourMeADrink Nov 2018 #22
Thanks! backtoblue Nov 2018 #104
Glad you are OK, but you will be SORE tomorrow. GETPLANING Nov 2018 #24
Hi backtoblue Nov 2018 #105
You are probably still in a stage of shock. Let body adjust and calm down. Here is a big bag of The Wielding Truth Nov 2018 #25
Magic dust worked! backtoblue Nov 2018 #106
So glad the both of you are okay... PoiBoy Nov 2018 #26
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #107
Glad no serious harm... take care, you need to be well enough to vote Tuesday! MLAA Nov 2018 #27
Thanks MLAA backtoblue Nov 2018 #108
Damn...scary hibbing Nov 2018 #28
Hi hibbing backtoblue Nov 2018 #109
Glad to hear you've survived Newton's First law of motion! Let's hope that after FailureToCommunicate Nov 2018 #29
Thanks! backtoblue Nov 2018 #110
Glad you're okay. The afternoon before the 1980 NYC Marathon I was hit head-on .... George II Nov 2018 #30
You're one tough cookie George! backtoblue Nov 2018 #111
Do you have a good chiropractor? A good one can be invaluable to healing. Amaryllis Nov 2018 #31
Better yet, a medical doctor. Nt USALiberal Nov 2018 #35
One is not a replacment for the other. A good chiroprator can do things an MD can't and vice versa. Amaryllis Nov 2018 #36
I agree. C Moon Nov 2018 #48
Sorry about the accident but in all seriousness, see the doctor! LoisB Nov 2018 #32
Went back to dr the following Tues backtoblue Nov 2018 #112
Be very careful and do not ignore any symptoms. colorado_ufo Nov 2018 #33
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #113
Wishing you a very speedy recovery! colorado_ufo Nov 2018 #145
I'm so glad you're not Cha Nov 2018 #34
Thanks Cha backtoblue Nov 2018 #114
Oh, no! Rhiannon12866 Nov 2018 #37
Hey friend! backtoblue Nov 2018 #115
Some good vibes coming to you Maraya1969 Nov 2018 #38
Good vibes received! backtoblue Nov 2018 #116
That sucks... like you said, at least no one was seriously injured. xor Nov 2018 #39
Im nervous driving to be honest backtoblue Nov 2018 #117
Wishing you a speedy recovery. alwaysinasnit Nov 2018 #40
Some advice from someone who's been in several accidents: Liberty Belle Nov 2018 #42
Thanks for the advice Liberty Belle backtoblue Nov 2018 #118
Glad to hear you're doing better! Liberty Belle Nov 2018 #147
Oh my goodness DesertRat Nov 2018 #44
Thanks! backtoblue Nov 2018 #121
I'm glad to hear it! DesertRat Nov 2018 #143
glad there were no serious injuries elmac Nov 2018 #45
Hi backtoblue Nov 2018 #122
Glad to hear you're hurting some, but otherwise ok. Archae Nov 2018 #46
Ouch! backtoblue Nov 2018 #123
Oh shit...that sucks! BigmanPigman Nov 2018 #47
Hey sister! backtoblue Nov 2018 #124
Been there before .... Corktown Nov 2018 #49
Welcome to DU, Corktown! calimary Nov 2018 #52
Thanks Corktown Nov 2018 #96
Magic dust everywhere! irisblue Nov 2018 #50
So long as cars are totaled and not drivers and passengers. Cars can be replaced, you can't. marble falls Nov 2018 #51
Hiya marble backtoblue Nov 2018 #119
I had an early nineties Sentra - good car with few problems. Very simple, very dependable. marble falls Nov 2018 #144
So glad that you are both OK sdfernando Nov 2018 #53
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #120
Whew - so glad you're still with us! calimary Nov 2018 #54
Hoodoo received! backtoblue Nov 2018 #125
You Rock! calimary Nov 2018 #142
Hope you're doing ok vercetti2021 Nov 2018 #55
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #126
Thank Goodness everyone is ok duforsure Nov 2018 #56
Thanks duforsure! backtoblue Nov 2018 #127
Glad you are okay. Sending you digital hugs. KPN Nov 2018 #58
Digital hugs received! backtoblue Nov 2018 #128
Have some good vibes: malthaussen Nov 2018 #59
Those were great vibes! backtoblue Nov 2018 #129
A dusting of healing wishes from Ohio! Ninga Nov 2018 #60
Wishes received in Arkansas! backtoblue Nov 2018 #130
Wow, you totaled your car but are okay. Amazing! CrispyQ Nov 2018 #61
Good vibes and energy received! backtoblue Nov 2018 #132
Day 2 update with picture link backtoblue Nov 2018 #62
You're still here and vertical! democrank Nov 2018 #63
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #67
See a lawyer. I was in a bad accident 7 years ago. Lochloosa Nov 2018 #65
I'm gonna talk to one this week backtoblue Nov 2018 #68
Not sure of your state laws, but in Florida you have 14 days. Don't delay. Lochloosa Nov 2018 #72
Yikes! :( (n/t) Lefta Dissenter Nov 2018 #77
As soon as you can: Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (liquid or spray) or Boiron Arnica pellets -- in2herbs Nov 2018 #64
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #133
Happens fast, and there's nothing quite like the sound of an automobile crunching and the Crutchez_CuiBono Nov 2018 #66
I had like a half second to pound the brake backtoblue Nov 2018 #69
Oh My!!! healthnut7 Nov 2018 #75
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #131
Magic dust on its way. Hotler Nov 2018 #76
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #134
glad you aren't seriously hurt. I hope insurance puts on you on the road again Demovictory9 Nov 2018 #78
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #135
be sure to go see a doctor anyway, even if you feel "just a little bruised" lapfog_1 Nov 2018 #79
Seen dr last tues backtoblue Nov 2018 #136
Ouch! mnhtnbb Nov 2018 #81
Thank you backtoblue Nov 2018 #137
Whether you think you need it or not, try physical therapy, will prevent problems later. rwsanders Nov 2018 #82
Thanks for the tip backtoblue Nov 2018 #138
Rest and take something to relax the muscles today and tomorrow (like advil, if Squinch Nov 2018 #83
Thanks Squinch backtoblue Nov 2018 #139
Glad you're (mostly) ok! 🙏🏾 BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2018 #84
Thank you Blanche backtoblue Nov 2018 #140
Glad you're ok imavoter Nov 2018 #85
Thanks backtoblue Nov 2018 #141
Update, how ya doing today? irisblue Nov 2018 #100
Hey irisblue! backtoblue Nov 2018 #101

True Dough

(20,063 posts)
1. Ow! Sounds like your DU handle should temporarily change to "black&blue"
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:56 PM
Nov 2018

Hope you're on the mend real soon, BtB. The car can be replaced, you cannot be!

Response to backtoblue (Original post)

pandr32

(12,139 posts)
5. It is wonderful news that you are ok
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:59 PM
Nov 2018

Hopefully you have someone close by to give you some TLC.
We're here!

fierywoman

(8,092 posts)
6. So sorry. I rolled a VW Beetle in the Adirondacks snow when I was young and
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 09:59 PM
Nov 2018

what I came out of it with was: OK, so why am I still alive, when I could have so easily died? Is there a reason I'm on this earth? (That part of post-serious accident is rather freaky.) Enjoy counting your blessings (as we will) that you are still among us!

blm

(113,786 posts)
7. With whiplash and back strains you'll be in bad shape tomorrow morning
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:02 PM
Nov 2018

and expect it to get worse. The pain can be unbearable at times.

blm

(113,786 posts)
80. Not psychic. I went through it myself. It hoits big time!
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:53 PM
Nov 2018

And the pain can be very intense at times. Don’t spend too much time on your feet. Give your back the rest it needs WHEN it needs it.

gristy

(10,719 posts)
8. ooh, I'm sorry to hear this!
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:05 PM
Nov 2018

Totaling your car and banging yourself up is indeed a very stressful thing to have happen!
You're going to feel like hell for a bit, physically and mentally. Hang in there. Things will get better!

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
86. Hiya gristy
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 08:44 AM
Nov 2018

Todays day 3 and im very very sore. I'm trying to count my blessings, but every so often my brain goes and I panic thinking of how bad it could have been.

Lefta Dissenter

(6,656 posts)
10. Thank goodness you're ok!
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:07 PM
Nov 2018

It’s scary as hell! Be sure to take good care of yourself and don’t let lingering symptoms go unchecked. I’m sorry you went through that, but SO glad you and the other driver will be ok.

badhair77

(4,575 posts)
11. I'm sorry to hear this. Hope you're feeling better by tomorrow.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:09 PM
Nov 2018

I hope also that all the insurance issues go smoothly and you get on the road soon. Best wishes blacktoblue.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
89. Thank you badhair
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 08:48 AM
Nov 2018

Very sore today. I early voted, so at least I don't have to venture the poll lines tomorrow.

jimlup

(8,002 posts)
12. So did both car's air bags deploy?
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:10 PM
Nov 2018

they may have saved your lives.

We're very glad you and the other driver are ok... but one small point. Air bags were a government mandated solution. Just say'n. The auto companies tried to block it but couldn't because the government forced the issue.

"Live free or die" i guess they choose the latter and the first is just about freedom of corporations to exploit you and me not about true human freedom, it's about thier "freedom" not ours. The Republicans confuse the two. Just noticing...

jimlup

(8,002 posts)
57. That's surprising
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:40 AM
Nov 2018

I would have expected that would have triggered it!

Glad you are OK. Take a few days to just feel better. You'll likely have PTSD about it for awhile. I had an accident (in which everyone was OK too but both cars were totalled.) and I did.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
90. Thanks
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 08:51 AM
Nov 2018

Very scary, but very lucky too! I'm really sore today.
But I'm in this weird "happy" and content mood.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
14. That was a good car
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:12 PM
Nov 2018

all the safety features worked. You are still alive with only minor injuries. Although the whiplash should be taken seriously. I hope you see a Dr soon to treat it.

drray23

(7,918 posts)
15. Glad both of you guys made it out ok.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:13 PM
Nov 2018

I would suggest you go get checked anyway even if you think you are just bruised. Sometimes, you can end up with llong term lingering injuries like back problems and the like if it's not taken care of.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
92. Thanks ray
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 08:55 AM
Nov 2018

Getting ahold of my neurologist today for follow-up. Sore but still kickin!

I've always made a joke that I have the best "worst" luck. Always end up in bad situations, but always with the best possible outcomes.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
16. You did get hurt. Don't forget that. Coddle yourself. Warm bath with Epsom salts.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:14 PM
Nov 2018

One of the effects of a collision is the huge adrenaline release, and the shock. Sending you some warmth and caring.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
23. And by all means,
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:25 PM
Nov 2018

follow up with your MD. Sometimes bruises can go deep and not be detected at skin level, but injure internal organs. If you suddenly develop an insatiable thirst, get to the ER. It means you've got an internal bleed. Anti-inflammatories work wonders, as do heating pads. But be aware of anything abnormal.

Rest and be well. We need you.

applegrove

(122,919 posts)
17. So glad you are okay (both of you). You must remember to cry when you
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:14 PM
Nov 2018

need to and shake it out or pound out all that trauma (maybe go online and find out how to reduce the psychological trauma). Belly breath. Take care.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
93. Thanks applegrove
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:00 AM
Nov 2018

The irony of this is that I was actually mentally and physically prepared....

I was diagnosed with PTSD two years ago and have spent alot of time with a great counselor.

I also have premature degenerate disc disease and have been through many rounds of physical therapy for my back and neck.

I'm going through so many emotions and physical pains, but I have this odd déjà vu feeling. Everything seems surreal. (Could be the Tylenol 3 lol)

snacker

(3,625 posts)
19. Oh dear!
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:17 PM
Nov 2018

Take care of yourself. Please keep a careful and watchful eye on your injuries. Sending healing DU vibes your way, backtoblue.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
95. Thanks for the vibes
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 09:44 AM
Nov 2018

I'm in good spirits. I was canvassing locally that day and I'm bummed that im gonna be out of commission election day. I'm just happy I walked away with minimal injuries.

hurl

(974 posts)
97. Wait, you were canvassing?
Mon Nov 5, 2018, 05:00 PM
Nov 2018

Are you sure the Russians didn't send that kid to "impact the election"? Glad you're not hurt worse.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
20. Glad you are OK. I got t-boned once and it totaled my car.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:18 PM
Nov 2018

The other driver’s insurance replaced my car with a new one.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
102. Thanks
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:07 AM
Nov 2018

I'm doing better. I didn't move off my couch for the first couple days after. Still sore.

Still talking to the insurance company. They've put me in a rental car. It's too smart for me...

Seriously, I've never driven a new age car with all the screens and electronic stuff. And it's weird not to have an actual key to start it.

Hope you have a great day!

More_Cowbell

(2,204 posts)
21. Oh no!
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:18 PM
Nov 2018

I'm glad you're not badly hurt, but I'm sure you'll be sore.

Sorry about the totaled car. My car is a 2002 Hyundai with only about an $800-$1100 blue book value. I should be saving for a new one, but I have more pressing bills; I'd be devastated if it got totaled.

Lots of people don't walk away from a head-on crash. I'm glad you were one of them.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
103. I had payment protection plan
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:15 AM
Nov 2018

I didnt have any credit and had to buy my car at a used car lot that overprices, but they approved me for a loan I could afford.

I've got a rental for right now.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
104. Thanks!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:17 AM
Nov 2018

The boy is ok and was able to play in his basketball tournament this weekend.

My son is almost 15 and will be driving next year. It scares the hell out of me!

The Wielding Truth

(11,421 posts)
25. You are probably still in a stage of shock. Let body adjust and calm down. Here is a big bag of
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:31 PM
Nov 2018

magic dust. Use it all up. Oh yea, and see a doctor again in a few days.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
106. Magic dust worked!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:21 AM
Nov 2018

Today I woke up to big snowflakes falling! I'm feeling better, thanks to muscle relaxers and nauseating pain meds.

Thanks for the magic dust!

George II

(67,782 posts)
30. Glad you're okay. The afternoon before the 1980 NYC Marathon I was hit head-on ....
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:39 PM
Nov 2018

....by a guy driving a customer's car (he just did some bodywork on the car and was using it to drive home)

I wound up running the race the next morning anyway!

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
111. You're one tough cookie George!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:28 AM
Nov 2018

After the shock and adrenaline wore off, I felt like I was hit by a truck...

Getting better every day though!

Amaryllis

(9,793 posts)
36. One is not a replacment for the other. A good chiroprator can do things an MD can't and vice versa.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:59 PM
Nov 2018

I know from having whiplashes several different times.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
112. Went back to dr the following Tues
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:30 AM
Nov 2018

Had a concussion and a headache that is lingering.

Taking it as easy as I can and I'm just glad I (or the boy) didn't get seriously hurt.

colorado_ufo

(5,914 posts)
33. Be very careful and do not ignore any symptoms.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 10:46 PM
Nov 2018

The soreness will not really set in until at least the third day. You could even have a concussion from the whiplash. Be very careful about nausea, dizziness, or any other possible signs of a concussion. If you need to get an MRI of your back, please do so! I hope the young driver had insurance. I am very glad it wasn't worse. I am so sorry about your car!

Prayers for a speedy recovery for the both of you!

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
113. Thank you
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:33 AM
Nov 2018

Whiplash, concussion, neck and back strain.

Still sore and still have a headache, but I'm counting my blessings right now.

I see my neurologist Friday for follow-up.

colorado_ufo

(5,914 posts)
145. Wishing you a very speedy recovery!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 05:35 PM
Nov 2018

Don't rush your recovery, and be sure to follow the doctor's orders regarding a neck brace or any other help that you may need.

Rhiannon12866

(221,041 posts)
37. Oh, no!
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:04 PM
Nov 2018

I am so sorry, my friend! Early in my driving career I was hit by a guy in a hurry who ran a red light - and though my passenger and I were okay, I had whiplash, too. Be sure and see a doctor to deal with your symptoms - and to make sure nothing's overlooked. Thanks for checking in and be good to yourself...


backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
115. Hey friend!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:36 AM
Nov 2018

Doing better this week.

I miss my MIRT friends and my little red folder. You guys did an excellent job during midterms!

How have you been doing?

xor

(1,204 posts)
39. That sucks... like you said, at least no one was seriously injured.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:31 PM
Nov 2018

Does the other driver have insurance and stuff? Have you driven since the accident? How does that feel for you?

I was in a moderately bad accident back in 2012 (no one was injured, but it totaled both vehicles) For a few months I would tense up whenever I came up on a situation similar to the one that caused the accident (someone making left turn in front of me)

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
117. Im nervous driving to be honest
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:42 AM
Nov 2018

I'm in a rental right now and getting back behind the wheel was hard.

And I've never driven one of these new cars that don't have a key. It took me 20 minutes to figure out the radio and I had to ask a gas station clerk to figure out how to open the gas door (embarrassing)

Even riding with someone, I tense when cars pull out.

Overall, I'm on the mend though!

Liberty Belle

(9,608 posts)
42. Some advice from someone who's been in several accidents:
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:33 PM
Nov 2018

You will probably feel worse tomorrow and the next day.
Be sure to get x-rays to make sure nothing broke, and if it's still bad in a couple of weeks get them again; hairline fractures don't always show until they calcify.
Assuming no fracture, I recommend seeing a chiropractor right away to loosen up the whiplash. My first couple of accidents I waited a while on this. Next one I went same day - huge difference.
Massage therapy also helps tremendously to stop muscle spasms; if insurance won't cover then ask for physical therapy.
Something like Deep Blue for muscle rubs can help.

Feel better but I'm glad it wasn't a lot worse!

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
118. Thanks for the advice Liberty Belle
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:45 AM
Nov 2018

You were so right about the following few days of hell. I stayed on the couch and was REALLY sore. Muscle relaxers help.

I'm doing better this week. Going back to the neurologist on Friday for a follow-up.

Liberty Belle

(9,608 posts)
147. Glad to hear you're doing better!
Thu Nov 15, 2018, 02:24 AM
Nov 2018

Muscle relaxers do help. I couldn't really take them as they'd knock me out for 12-14 hours, so couldn't work. Nowadays when I have flareups of muscle spasms that I still get now and then, I just have a glass of wine, a natural muscle relaxant, to get to sleep.

Try a massage if you haven't already.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
44. Oh my goodness
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:38 PM
Nov 2018

So happy to hear that you are ok. Hope you can rest up and the whiplash and strains heal quickly.

 

elmac

(4,642 posts)
45. glad there were no serious injuries
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:41 PM
Nov 2018

one good thing about cars now days, they are pretty safe, much improved. I have only been in one accident as an adult, not my fault, got torpedoed by a little old lady

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
122. Hi
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:53 AM
Nov 2018

Torpedoed! Lmao

Glad you survived the elderly ambush!

I survived a kid torpedo. I'm on the mend!

Archae

(46,757 posts)
46. Glad to hear you're hurting some, but otherwise ok.
Sat Nov 3, 2018, 11:47 PM
Nov 2018

Back in 1980 I was driving a Gremlin, and was hit head on by a Buick.

I had my seat belt on, but no shoulder belt, and my head flew forward and smashed the steering wheel.

Concussion, lost some teeth, broken jaw, smashed nose and I ended up needing a trach tube.

It's 38 years later, and I still suffer some effects, like chronic headaches.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
124. Hey sister!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:59 AM
Nov 2018

I'm doing better this week. Sore, but healing.

Dealing with insurance is a pain in the ass though.



Corktown

(25 posts)
49. Been there before ....
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:56 AM
Nov 2018

I'm glad that you weren't more seriously hurt. I'd keep a supply of ibuprofen, Tiger Balm, or substitutes at close hand, you're going to need them. Day three might have an unexpected "hello" for you, body pain-wise.

Most importantly, listen to your body, as it definitely will attempt to "talk" to you. Hear what it is trying to tell you; it's the truth! Don't assume that things will work themselves out on their own (but do be positive and believe that they will). Get the additional medical attention you need, whether that's x-rays, MRI's, massage / physical therapy, you name it. Ask about a good chiropractor or someone in a similar discipline. And reach out to friends, like you've done here, early and often. You never know how much some folks know about some things and you never realized it.

Lastly, don't worry (well, at least too much) about that totaled car. I know, easy for me to say. The way I would look at it, is "Thank you good 'ole car, for saving my life. You did your job!".

Be well ....

calimary

(84,117 posts)
52. Welcome to DU, Corktown!
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:16 AM
Nov 2018

Some good advice for our own backtoblue here. Thanks for posting these ideas. And YES, reach out to friends, like you've done here. It's good medicine.

These things ARE survivable, fortunately enough.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
119. Hiya marble
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:47 AM
Nov 2018

I will miss little Sentra. She did her job of protecting me.

May she be crushed and turned into a Lexus...

sdfernando

(5,363 posts)
53. So glad that you are both OK
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:37 AM
Nov 2018

Take some time to heal. You could be hit with a delayed emotional reaction. Happed to me once.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
120. Thanks
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 11:49 AM
Nov 2018

It's still surreal. The boy was able to play in his basketball game that night. I was more worried about him than myself. Hope he learned to pay attention.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
126. Thanks
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:02 PM
Nov 2018

I'm getting better. Taking it easy and cuddling with my dog and kitty has worked wonders! Add all the magic dust and I'll be good as new soon...

duforsure

(11,885 posts)
56. Thank Goodness everyone is ok
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:56 AM
Nov 2018

Years ago a 18 wheeler turned in front of me at night with no lights on , and it totaled my new car , and it took about 6 months to recover from the wreck but was ok. Brings back memories of it now. Good to hear no one was badly hurt.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
127. Thanks duforsure!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:05 PM
Nov 2018

I'm so glad you recovered from your wreck!

I'm pretty uncomfortable being in a car now. I tense up when other cars pull out.

KPN

(16,065 posts)
58. Glad you are okay. Sending you digital hugs.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 10:02 AM
Nov 2018

I was in a T-bone accident at an intersection a couple years ago. It was a frightening, earth-shaking experience I would never wish on anyone (except Trump and a bunch of his goons).

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
130. Wishes received in Arkansas!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:08 PM
Nov 2018

I woke up this morning and it was snowing!
Big, beautiful flakes. It's not cold enough to stick, but it was a nice surprise.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
62. Day 2 update with picture link
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:10 PM
Nov 2018
https://ibb.co/kZhda0

(A before pic of my car is in the photography group when I posted my garden)



He hit my car on the driver side fender and pushed me into a sign and tree on the side of the road.

Still doing ok. VERY sore neck and back. Taking my meds and resting today. Going back to dr on Tuesday for a follow up.

The funny thing is I was actually on my way to canvass for some local issues/races. Been helping out the past couple of weeks and I'm pissed that I'm benched! Lol

Thanks everyone for your magic dust!!!! Love you all and will keep you updated.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
67. Thank you
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:28 PM
Nov 2018


I'm vertical-ish lol. Luckily my teenage son is helping around the house and taking care of the animals. My big clumsy lab hasn't left my room.

Lochloosa

(16,393 posts)
65. See a lawyer. I was in a bad accident 7 years ago.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:26 PM
Nov 2018

And thought I wasn't hurt. 3 days latter I was having MRI's done on my lower back for the tear that no one knew was there.

I'm still dealing with it and most likely will be for the rest of my life.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
68. I'm gonna talk to one this week
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:31 PM
Nov 2018

I was still paying on my car. I already have degenerate disc disease and I'm making an appt to see my neurologist this week. No break in bones, but the torn muscles really make my already painful back pretty darn exacerbated.

in2herbs

(3,063 posts)
64. As soon as you can: Bach Flower Rescue Remedy (liquid or spray) or Boiron Arnica pellets --
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:24 PM
Nov 2018

treat them like candy treats you can't overdose.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
133. Thanks
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:22 PM
Nov 2018

I wasn't able to get it, but thanks for the recommendation. Chamomile and lavender tea has been cozy and helping with my nerves.

Crutchez_CuiBono

(7,725 posts)
66. Happens fast, and there's nothing quite like the sound of an automobile crunching and the
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:28 PM
Nov 2018

impact. It's terrifying.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
69. I had like a half second to pound the brake
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 12:35 PM
Nov 2018

I think if I hadnt, he would've hit me in my driver's door and that could have been WAY worse.

I remember seeing the truck, hitting brake, sliding, then nothing until a guy was prying my door open.

There's a pic in my update.

Hotler

(12,030 posts)
76. Magic dust on its way.
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 01:35 PM
Nov 2018

Please see a doctor, records notes, Please do not sign any insurance papers or agree to anything without consulting council first. I hope you feel better soon. Get some rest.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
134. Thank you
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:24 PM
Nov 2018

Magic dust received!

I'm feeling a bit better this week. The first few days were awful. Turns out I had a concussion even though I (don't think) I hit my head.

lapfog_1

(30,056 posts)
79. be sure to go see a doctor anyway, even if you feel "just a little bruised"
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 02:31 PM
Nov 2018

whiplash can cause debilitating injury which is masked by the immediate pain caused by the crash.

Weeks later you could be turning your head with your arm raised or something and feel " a twinge "... happened to me and now it hurts every time I put on a T-shirt or sweatshirt or anything pull over.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
136. Seen dr last tues
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:28 PM
Nov 2018

Follow-ups this week and after Thanksgiving.

Still sore and battling a persistent headache, but im doing better .

mnhtnbb

(31,996 posts)
81. Ouch!
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 03:12 PM
Nov 2018

Be careful with that whiplash. I got one from the first time I was rear-ended in Los Angeles years ago. And then I was rear ended twice again in the following 3 years. Every time I got stressed for years it would spasm and I'd be back on muscle relaxants. I eventually saw a chiropractor who treated professional athletes in L.A. and he told me the best thing to keep it loose was walking. I've been walking for exercise ever since and after I started doing that it rarely went into spasm again on me.

So sorry about your car. Hope you don't have insurance hassles getting it replaced. Take care of yourself!

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
137. Thank you
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:31 PM
Nov 2018

On the mend. Still taking it easy and the muscle relaxers help alot.

Walking is really hard on my lower back. I'm much too young to feel this old lol

Squinch

(52,474 posts)
83. Rest and take something to relax the muscles today and tomorrow (like advil, if
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 05:58 PM
Nov 2018

you can take them.) Your muscle soreness will probably get worse over tomorrow and the next day and then get better.

Ice anything that spasms.

If it doesn't start to get better after 4 or 5 days, go get help.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
139. Thanks Squinch
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:35 PM
Nov 2018

I was really sore for a few days. Used ice and heating pads.

I bought some icy hot patches and they actually help a little bit (when they stick in place lol,)

imavoter

(657 posts)
85. Glad you're ok
Sun Nov 4, 2018, 07:21 PM
Nov 2018

Just be careful to watch out for concussion symptoms.
You can get a concussion without hitting your head.
I hope you get some rest.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
141. Thanks
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 12:38 PM
Nov 2018

You were right about the concussion. I still have a headache.

Getting good rest and taking it easy.

backtoblue

(11,676 posts)
101. Hey irisblue!
Wed Nov 14, 2018, 10:59 AM
Nov 2018

Thanks for checking on me.

I've still got a headache and some back spasms, but the meds help.

I woke up this morning to a beautiful display of snow flakes falling. I don't think it's gonna be cold enough to stick, but it's the first dusting here in Arkansas.

You guys REALLY sent me magic DU dust!




How have you been my dear?

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