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irisblue

(34,249 posts)
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 11:01 AM Dec 2019

Relatable tweet

🆃🆁🆄🅳🆈 (@thetrudz) Tweeted:
Shoutout to people who sit real still and hope people go away when you receive an unexpected knock at the door.

I refuse to engage unplanned knocks. Even unexpected calls are less worse than this.


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Relatable tweet (Original Post) irisblue Dec 2019 OP
I'm one of them. CatMor Dec 2019 #1
Me too.nt backtoblue Dec 2019 #10
That's me. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #2
Ha heh...I had to laugh when I read your post. Crawling in your own home to avoid the ... SWBTATTReg Dec 2019 #6
This was ages ago; the Mormons haven't bothered me in years. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #9
Good for you! Can't stand people who feel like they have the right to bother others by walking... SWBTATTReg Dec 2019 #11
Yes! rownesheck Dec 2019 #8
oooo! a real struggle Kali Dec 2019 #3
If you are not invited, I have no obligation to acknowledge you. Midnight Writer Dec 2019 #4
It burns me when people come to solicit and I have a NO SOLICITATION sign in the window. mitch96 Dec 2019 #5
Who can it be now? RainCaster Dec 2019 #7
LOL Joinfortmill Feb 2020 #12

The Velveteen Ocelot

(120,813 posts)
2. That's me.
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 11:07 AM
Dec 2019

Any knock on my door is likely to be somebody who's trying to sell something or get me to sign a petition anyhow, so I don't answer. My friends know to call me first; there are only a very few people I wouldn't mind dropping in on me. I remember crawling on my hands and knees so the Mormons at the front door wouldn't be able to look in the window and see that I was home. No way was I going to open the door for those nutballs.

SWBTATTReg

(24,085 posts)
6. Ha heh...I had to laugh when I read your post. Crawling in your own home to avoid the ...
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 01:52 PM
Dec 2019

Mormons. I have to admit, a long time ago when I was younger, I did this sometimes, but now I don't even consider doing this. Usually I ignore the door.

As to crawling on the floor to avoid them seeing you in your own home...don't do this. This is you, in your own home. Walk proudly in your own home, open the door, and say NO, I'm not interested and close the door. Simple. You don't have to apologize, nothing.

I've done this and I'm proud of myself for standing up these people who feel like they have the right to bother you w/ their nonsense. Interrupting your life for their reasons only, not yours.

You are valuable.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(120,813 posts)
9. This was ages ago; the Mormons haven't bothered me in years.
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 03:10 PM
Dec 2019

I read somewhere that they don't knock on your door if you are old or single because they are only interested in recruiting families. When I hid from the Mormons I was young and married, at that time a prime target. Husband and I considered our hiding from them on the floor to be kind of a joke and we were laughing (quietly) the whole time. They had been pestering us regularly and we were just tired of telling them to go away because obviously they weren't taking the hint. We never felt apologetic or unable to walk proudly in our home; we were just sick of them and didn't want to talk to them at all.

SWBTATTReg

(24,085 posts)
11. Good for you! Can't stand people who feel like they have the right to bother others by walking...
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 06:52 PM
Dec 2019

to each house etc. and knocking on the door. Most people come to my house invited, like you do. Smart.

Take care!

rownesheck

(2,343 posts)
8. Yes!
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 02:09 PM
Dec 2019

I crawl around and stay hidden as well. My wife is a former mormon although her family is still practicing. Apparently, your name is kept on a list even if you quit attending church. The mormons will come knock at your door trying to get you to attend again. Even after we moved 90 miles away, the mormons found us! It wasn't until my wife made a sign which read "No Soliciting. Seriously, don't make this weird.", that they stopped coming by. Sheesh!

Kali

(55,735 posts)
3. oooo! a real struggle
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 11:28 AM
Dec 2019

living on the ranch...you are supposed to be hospitable, anybody who drops by gets to come in and have coffee.

I manage part of this by not demanding the two utility companies fix or maintain the old original road in here, but some try anyway and others find their way from the other direction. There is a LOT of tension in me between the tradition and my need for privacy.

mitch96

(14,651 posts)
5. It burns me when people come to solicit and I have a NO SOLICITATION sign in the window.
Sat Dec 28, 2019, 01:08 PM
Dec 2019

The second strike is they can't read...
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