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backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:07 PM Dec 2020

Merry Christmas Loners

It's a cold and windy night here. I'm snuggled up with my animals and having a cup of hot chocolate with rum.

My thoughts are with all my loner friends tonight. Some of us prefer the cozy solitude. Some of us would enjoy a friend or two for the Holidays. Some of us would like to moon the neighbors while screaming "Santa ain't real!" (Er, ok, that may just be me)

Whatever your circumstances this year, I wish you all peace and good health.

The Loner's Lounge will be open all night tonight and all day tomorrow. Drinks are free and I "borrowed" MIRT's hot tub for the day...

The password is "Go Away".

Cheers my friends!

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Merry Christmas Loners (Original Post) backtoblue Dec 2020 OP
... flying rabbit Dec 2020 #1
... backtoblue Dec 2020 #7
I had a lovely lunch with some friends today. dhol82 Dec 2020 #2
Sounds like a good weekend backtoblue Dec 2020 #9
Damn that autocorrect. dhol82 Dec 2020 #17
Sure, ya freaky little thang backtoblue Dec 2020 #19
And a mighty "Amen" to that. TreasonousBastard Dec 2020 #3
I wonder... backtoblue Dec 2020 #10
An interesting conjecture dhol82 Dec 2020 #18
Most definitely-- warm, moist gas meeting freezing air means clouds of gas. But... TreasonousBastard Dec 2020 #20
Merry Christmas, backtoblue! littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #4
You too my fellow country gal backtoblue Dec 2020 #11
So far, so good. No fireworks so far. littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 #22
Turkey breast is finishing up dweller Dec 2020 #5
Dude backtoblue Dec 2020 #13
Darkness washed over the Dude dweller Dec 2020 #28
Let It Roll!!! I was described as a loner at a caucus meeting in January!! IADEMO2004 Dec 2020 #6
You have joined a most excellent club backtoblue Dec 2020 #14
I have hot chocolate! I have rum! More_Cowbell Dec 2020 #8
Add a bit of cinnamon to it backtoblue Dec 2020 #15
That was excellent! More_Cowbell Dec 2020 #52
Thank you and a Merry Christmas to yourself! It sounds cozy. yonder Dec 2020 #12
Bah! backtoblue Dec 2020 #16
I planned a special Christmas project jmbar2 Dec 2020 #21
What a lovely day! backtoblue Dec 2020 #23
Merry Chrustmaa, Backtoblue & All SheltieLover Dec 2020 #24
Hope your's is a good one! backtoblue Dec 2020 #26
.... CousinIT Dec 2020 #25
Ya know, backtoblue Dec 2020 #27
We want a quiet day just to ourselves!!! Happy holidays and keep safe! Karadeniz Dec 2020 #29
May you get your wish! backtoblue Dec 2020 #30
Backatcha. LudwigPastorius Dec 2020 #31
Thank you! backtoblue Dec 2020 #43
Dog and I are curled up in bed watching a Good Bones marathon. TruckFump Dec 2020 #32
I tried to make a breakfast quiche last week backtoblue Dec 2020 #44
Bisquick Easy Quiche -- never fails! TruckFump Dec 2020 #47
Bah Humbug dupagelib Dec 2020 #33
Hear, hear. sandensea Dec 2020 #41
Just my wife and myself here. Mr.Bill Dec 2020 #34
Man do I need to get on an exercise routine backtoblue Dec 2020 #45
Chilly and sprinkles catchnrelease Dec 2020 #35
Im gonna do a rain dance for you! backtoblue Dec 2020 #46
Got my hot chocolate too. grantcart Dec 2020 #36
I am such a dud peacebuzzard Dec 2020 #37
Eggnog sounds good. backtoblue Dec 2020 #48
This message was self-deleted by its author RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2020 #38
Feliz navidad y prospero ano nuevo! RestoreAmerica2020 Dec 2020 #39
: ) backtoblue Dec 2020 #49
Getting ready for Christmas by charging up my Kindle Reader. Midnight Writer Dec 2020 #40
Mmmmm pizza sounds good too backtoblue Dec 2020 #50
12 dogs, 2 cats, 1 husband, and me. yankeepants Dec 2020 #42
Wishing Mr Frank and Mr Beans a loving new home! backtoblue Dec 2020 #51

dhol82

(9,449 posts)
2. I had a lovely lunch with some friends today.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:10 PM
Dec 2020

Now I’m home alone, plugged in to watching Bones, and totally content.
I will be home alone tomorrow happily reading a book for my blood club meeting on Sunday.
I treasure my solitude.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
20. Most definitely-- warm, moist gas meeting freezing air means clouds of gas. But...
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:42 PM
Dec 2020

you would have to be outside and freezing other body parts.

(Unless those body parts are no longer essential.)

littlemissmartypants

(25,599 posts)
22. So far, so good. No fireworks so far.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:44 PM
Dec 2020

I am sad missing my Dad though. Lots of tears shed the last few days.

dweller

(25,107 posts)
28. Darkness washed over the Dude
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 09:33 PM
Dec 2020

Darker than a black steers tookis on a moonless prairie night ...
there was no bottom ...

✌🏻

IADEMO2004

(5,894 posts)
6. Let It Roll!!! I was described as a loner at a caucus meeting in January!!
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:13 PM
Dec 2020

I never knew. Fine with it. Let it be.

More_Cowbell

(2,204 posts)
8. I have hot chocolate! I have rum!
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:17 PM
Dec 2020

I'm feeling blue about being jobless and about the pardons, but not about being alone. That was by choice.

I hope everyone is feeling safe and at peace.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
15. Add a bit of cinnamon to it
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:27 PM
Dec 2020

I'll surely regret it about 2am when heartburn launches its attack.

But for now, cheers my dear!

jmbar2

(6,138 posts)
21. I planned a special Christmas project
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 08:43 PM
Dec 2020

I rent a condo with a crappy looking small front yard.

Even though it's not mine, I'm putting in the structures for a small garden that I'll plant with tons of bulbs, a terraced veggie bed, and stepping stone path. To make it more challenging, I'm trying to scavenge most of the building materials from empty lots and rocky fields.

I was absolutely in bliss today playing in the dirt.

I'm sick of Christmas music, ads, TV specials, shopping specials, etc. Nobody is giving me a new Lexus. Or diamonds from Kay jewelers.

Enjoy your evening and Christmas day, fellow loners! After tomorrow, it will only be about 290 days until it starts all over again.

CousinIT

(10,263 posts)
25. ....
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 09:18 PM
Dec 2020

....cozy solitude (with exception of my two furballs) is how I roll.

Zooming w/ family tomorrow but that's the extent of it.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
27. Ya know,
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 09:28 PM
Dec 2020

Five years ago "Zoomin with the family" would be a day riding go carts. My how our lives have changed.

TruckFump

(5,815 posts)
32. Dog and I are curled up in bed watching a Good Bones marathon.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 10:34 PM
Dec 2020

Gentleman friend is coming over tomorrow morning and I am making quiche. Then movies. We each get to pick a movie. One rule: No westerns or chick flix.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
44. I tried to make a breakfast quiche last week
Fri Dec 25, 2020, 05:18 AM
Dec 2020

It ended up more like a frittata. Next time I might remember the pie crust lol.

Happy cuddling!

TruckFump

(5,815 posts)
47. Bisquick Easy Quiche -- never fails!
Fri Dec 25, 2020, 06:38 AM
Dec 2020

Except yesterday I made THREE trips to the store to finally get the cream cheese I use in the recipe. Has never failed to be great!

Have a great holiday!

sandensea

(22,850 posts)
41. Hear, hear.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 11:18 PM
Dec 2020

Who knows when, exactly, Christ was really born.

As you know, the date is simply a holdover from the Pagan Winter Solstice festivities.

Jesus' purported life story (his greatness as an activist and philosopher notwithstanding), a retelling of the Osiris myth.

Biblical scholars themselves agree that December would've been a most unlikely date given the presence of shepherds at the time (suggesting Spring) or the "Star of Bethlehem" - almost certainly a Jupiter/Saturn conjunction whose closest occurrence, astronomers tell us, would have been in October, 7 BC.

In short, no one knows - not clergy, and certainly not televangelists.

So, yes: A Very Happy Festivus to you and yours too, dupagelib.

And a Happy New Year.

Mr.Bill

(24,813 posts)
34. Just my wife and myself here.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 10:50 PM
Dec 2020

The food prep has me fearing I will gain back the ten pounds I lost this year in one day.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
45. Man do I need to get on an exercise routine
Fri Dec 25, 2020, 05:21 AM
Dec 2020

I lost 15 last fall. Quit smoking and found those 15 over the past year. Oh well, guess it's just a redo lol.

Wishing you and your wife a day of laughter and peace.

catchnrelease

(2,014 posts)
35. Chilly and sprinkles
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 10:55 PM
Dec 2020

even here in SoCalif! Nice for a change and I think we might even get real rain next week. That would be a great Christmas gift!

Happy Christmas to all of the loners, introverts, shy people, hermits etc! Enjoy a nice quiet evening and day tomorrow!

peacebuzzard

(5,282 posts)
37. I am such a dud
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 10:59 PM
Dec 2020

that my morning started by picking up a case of bankers boxes to pack up piles of books and notes.
it snowed.
I made a nice dinner for one.
glad I did that before the power went out. I slept until it came back on.
Now I finally had my once a year eggnog with rum.
and fed cats.
Merry Christmas, blue. Here's to you and your post.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
48. Eggnog sounds good.
Fri Dec 25, 2020, 10:11 AM
Dec 2020

Haven't had that in years.

I woke up, fed the animals, and thinkin about a nap lol

Response to backtoblue (Original post)

Midnight Writer

(23,017 posts)
40. Getting ready for Christmas by charging up my Kindle Reader.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 11:12 PM
Dec 2020

Bought a pizza from a local Italian place, wrapped it up and put it in the refrigerator. I'll heat it in a skillet tomorrow for Christmas dinner.

yankeepants

(1,979 posts)
42. 12 dogs, 2 cats, 1 husband, and me.
Thu Dec 24, 2020, 11:39 PM
Dec 2020

No tree, no guests. a quiet day tomorrow (as if we ever have quiet) with a foot of snow expected. We bought a 12 lbs turkey and spent time watching a chef's tutorial on how to debone a turkey in order to lay it flat, add a stuffing layer and roll it into a roast complete with twine. Mission accomplished. We are also delivering 2 ten week old Dachshunds to a family in the morning. I have to bathe them both -Mr. Frank and Mr. Beans- early and get them ready for their new home with kids! They have been living here for nearly 3 weeks awaiting their big Christmas debut. Beyond that, one more dog coming in -a veteran visitor- we are going to eat, drink, binge watch, and be merry.

Cheers DU folk. I honestly DO NOT know what I would do without your compassion, wisdom, smarts, and humor in these trying times. Let's get through this.

backtoblue

(11,684 posts)
51. Wishing Mr Frank and Mr Beans a loving new home!
Fri Dec 25, 2020, 10:18 AM
Dec 2020

Frank and Beans are awesome names

You have such a big heart to be foster parents. I wish for more caring humans like this. Happy Holidays to you and all your furry friends!

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