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bmichaelh

(599 posts)
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 09:57 PM Jan 2023

Loneliness fighting COVID

Recently, I experienced loneliness acutely.

I was admitted to the hospital recently due to COVID.

From a very early age, I felt like an outsider inside my only family.
I was bullied in high school and no teacher and no family member provided encouragement.
I have different values from the rest of my family.
My family could never understand why I admired MLK and RFK.

I was in the hospital for about 5 days with COVID.
A lot of my family are MAGA Republicans and anti-vaxxers.

The hospital gave me a drug called Remdesivir.
Family members texted me to refuse the drug because it can cause liver damage.
Then showed their arrogance when they told me: ‘See vaccinations do not work’
I have lymphoma so that is why my immunity is complicated.

Anyway, my family did nothing to pick me up from the hospital when I was discharged.


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Loneliness fighting COVID (Original Post) bmichaelh Jan 2023 OP
I'm sorry you're going through it. At least you are out of the hospital. That is great. onecaliberal Jan 2023 #1
((b)) blm Jan 2023 #2
I am sending you hugs and what jerks you have for family. You deserve to be cared for with MLAA Jan 2023 #3
I am sending you hugs and what jerks you have for family. You deserve to be cared for with MLAA Jan 2023 #4
I'm so sorry. I'm glad you took the drug, got vaccinated and are out of the Scrivener7 Jan 2023 #5
You are here. cilla4progress Jan 2023 #6
Glad you are on the mend. Your family sounds as if spooky3 Jan 2023 #7
We are here, bmichaelh. sheshe2 Jan 2023 #8
I am so sorry you have been going through Dr. Shepper Jan 2023 #9
DU is your family now, tosh Jan 2023 #10
Holding you in light and love. Your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as niyad Jan 2023 #11
You are part of THIS family. Reaching out is good. We're here. TygrBright Jan 2023 #12
Hi, bmichaelh thank you so much for visiting Loners. Reaching out is a valuable act. littlemissmartypants Jan 2023 #13
Well, tons of hugs from your DU family. Lefta Dissenter Jan 2023 #14
It's good you reached out here. DU is such a... 3catwoman3 Jan 2023 #15
We are all here for you VicNEO Jan 2023 #16
I am so sorry camartinwv Jan 2023 #17
welcome to du. dembotoz Jan 2023 #18
sometimes the lessons we learn about our families are hard. dembotoz Jan 2023 #19
so glad you are ok. peacebuzzard Jan 2023 #20
... Aristus Jan 2023 #21
👇👇👇 ;-{) Goonch Jan 2023 #22
I hope being here helps you. FoxNewsSucks Jan 2023 #23

MLAA

(18,598 posts)
3. I am sending you hugs and what jerks you have for family. You deserve to be cared for with
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 10:15 PM
Jan 2023

Kindness. Glad you are home from the hospital and wishing you all the best!

MLAA

(18,598 posts)
4. I am sending you hugs and what jerks you have for family. You deserve to be cared for with
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 10:16 PM
Jan 2023

Kindness. Glad you are home from the hospital and wishing you all the best!

Scrivener7

(52,724 posts)
5. I'm so sorry. I'm glad you took the drug, got vaccinated and are out of the
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 10:20 PM
Jan 2023

hospital. Feel better. You did everything right.

spooky3

(36,193 posts)
7. Glad you are on the mend. Your family sounds as if
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 10:58 PM
Jan 2023

They want to control you when they should be working to help you.

We’re here for you.

Dr. Shepper

(3,069 posts)
9. I am so sorry you have been going through
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 11:08 PM
Jan 2023

This alone. Please use your DU family to lift you. Sending you all my positive energy (from my own COVID bed).

TygrBright

(20,987 posts)
12. You are part of THIS family. Reaching out is good. We're here.
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 11:30 PM
Jan 2023

Some of us are luckier than others, where family are concerned. But there are plenty of us on DU who do know the kind of pain you're feeling. You're not alone, even in Loners.

The one who can be kindest to you, though, is you. That includes asking for help when you need it. If you have a care team for your lymphoma, they might be able to hook you up with a support group of other folks with that condition.

Take it easy, one day at a time. You are worth fighting for, so stay strong.

hopefully,
Bright

littlemissmartypants

(25,483 posts)
13. Hi, bmichaelh thank you so much for visiting Loners. Reaching out is a valuable act.
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 11:34 PM
Jan 2023


I promise you will find an abundance of love and support here. Please DU Mail me if you want a private chat.

Leave the past behind and join us as we grow stronger together. You've found your people now.



❤️pants

Lefta Dissenter

(6,656 posts)
14. Well, tons of hugs from your DU family.
Wed Jan 18, 2023, 11:44 PM
Jan 2023

I’m so sorry you’ve been going through such challenges without family support. We are here for you, though.

When my adult son got covid, I asked my husband not to tell his MAGA family members for just that reason - the arrogance about the vaccinations. I wonder how sick he (or you) would have been without those shots. My friend who got covid last year was told by her doctor that as sick as she was, she likely would not have survived covid if she hadn’t been fully vaccinated.

Lots of love and hugs and positive energy to you, dear bmichaelh. I’m glad you shared here, and I hope that our support helps you.

3catwoman3

(25,430 posts)
15. It's good you reached out here. DU is such a...
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 12:38 AM
Jan 2023

…supportive community. I’m glad you have different values from the rest of your family.

Here’s a late night cyber-hug - (((((:hug )))

VicNEO

(35 posts)
16. We are all here for you
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 12:48 AM
Jan 2023

I think the majority of us here on DU (I’m more of a lurker) know that chosen family is greater than birth family.
Know you are loved. Know we are all pulling for you.
Know that this discussion board is more than that.

Much love, much healing to you.

camartinwv

(81 posts)
17. I am so sorry
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 12:56 AM
Jan 2023

You are alone when you were quite ill. I am very alone also just trying not to contract covid. My family have either passed away are estranged. Get well soon.

 

dembotoz

(16,922 posts)
19. sometimes the lessons we learn about our families are hard.
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 10:01 AM
Jan 2023

a compromised immune system is tricky.
I was married to a woman who developed leukemia.
Our list of infection precautions was long and at times hard to understand.

stay safe and do what you can.

peacebuzzard

(5,266 posts)
20. so glad you are ok.
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 10:29 AM
Jan 2023

terrible ordeal you have going on; families can be exhausting and depleting.
it's best to not engage too much with families like that, I use the ignore outlook on life quite often. sometimes when I do, I get bashed even more but I just clam up until the storm is over. take care, friend.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,787 posts)
23. I hope being here helps you.
Thu Jan 19, 2023, 09:43 PM
Jan 2023

Your third paragraph pretty much mirrors my own childhood. You're definitely not alone here.

Do what is best for yourself, ignore the maga and anti-science crap.

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