Loners
Related: About this forumHappy New Year Loners
Sometimes the holidays are hard for Loners. Sometimes we're glad for the solitude.
Whichever situation you find yourself in this year, know that you're not really alone. I fall (mostly) into the leave me alone category.
Loner love from afar.
BTW and P.S. : Special love to all of us with animals who find fireworks overwhelming. This includes my dog, cat, and bunny. New Year and the 4th are hard nights at my house...
Chainfire
(17,757 posts)I am about to turn in, like I have done for the last 30 or 40 years, and when I wake up in the morning, the new year will have come without bringing me cotton mouth and a headache. Perhaps I will get up about 5:00 AM and set me off some fireworks.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)That's what I should do too!
Susan Calvin
(2,024 posts)I wish I had some. Maybe next year.
Skittles
(158,153 posts)yup!
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)I hope you're night goes smoothly and that you're able to get some rest tomorrow.
sinkingfeeling
(52,941 posts)berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,739 posts)My wife is out of town with relatives, but I have my two dogs here. I'm in our new house and the solitude is welcome. It's been a very hectic few weeks. My older dog used to have a problem with fireworks, but she's deaf now and sleeps through it. I'm in a sparsely populated part of Northern California's Gold Country. I have been told to expect a lot of gun fire tonight. Nothing yet, so far.
I've spent many holidays alone and it's never bothered me.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)I enjoy pj's, a bottle of champagne, and my recliner.
I'm quite content as well
slightlv
(4,225 posts)but no fireworks tonight! Of course, it's only 9:30pm... still some time til Midnight. But I haven't even heard a firecracker go off. Usually this place is all smoke by 11pm, even on New Years. Maybe they shot the whole wad last 4th of July. I do live with a bunch of trumpers who were probably "celebrating" their ascendency!
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)Been hearing the guns go off in the last few minutes.
I really hope I don't have spent shells all in my yard tomorrow...
BidenRocks
(922 posts)The condo canyon effect.
Freaked my late dog out
These are not firecrackers. They seem much bigger.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)Pretty sure my neighbor has been shooting their cannon...
I need rescued
58Sunliner
(4,937 posts)berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)LudwigPastorius
(10,635 posts)I'm just hanging out tending the black eyed peas on the stove and listening to jazz. I wouldn't go out tonight if you paid me.
During my drinking days I very much considered New Years Eve "amateur night".
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)My blackeyed peas are soaking overnight. Gonna make cornbread tomorrow and take it to my grandparents. I don't really like the peas, but if I put enough Louisiana hot sauce on them they're not too bad
BidenRocks
(922 posts)I am in before 7, alone.
Together, we are not alone.
Have a Happy New year!
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)We're always alone together.
Happy New Year
PlutosHeart
(1,445 posts)No fireworks for some odd reason. Glad about that though.
As a disclaimer, I am not exactly alone. My husband has frontal lobe dementia, altered reality and LBD and is basically a zombie. He sits in a chair pretty much all day. And then there is me, my two dogs and three cats. They are good company and keep me sane along with people like you and others on the internet.
yardwork
(63,814 posts)May the new year bring better times.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)There's peace in the world if we can listen to it. I wish you well my friend.
PlutosHeart
(1,445 posts)Surprisingly I can relate in a big way with environmental and animal work I have done my whole life. How did you know that was my dapple gray in my mind? lol!!!!!!
This could not have been more perfect.
Hand over ❤️
Or in the words of my Indiginous husband, Miigwitch.
70sEraVet
(4,112 posts)Thanks.
niyad
(119,309 posts)alone, you have a whole family here on DU.
PlutosHeart
(1,445 posts)I did not even notice!🤣
yardwork
(63,814 posts)I hope that you and your animal friends have a peaceful night.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)Gave the dog a sedative so he should sleep through the majority of the booms. Haven't seen the cat in a whole, she's probably under my bed.
yardwork
(63,814 posts)I hope things settle down in yours!
Ocelot II
(120,110 posts)Home alone, as usual; just me and the cat. And we like it that way. The cat is asleep; I'm watching Netflix and eating pretzels. It's quiet and comfortable, no party, no noise. My idea of a nice New Years Eve.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)The fireworks didn't wale me or the dog. First good night's sleep of the year. I'll take it!
BComplex
(8,986 posts)I have two dogs hiding under the dining room table from all the fireworks!
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)usonian
(13,470 posts)I celebrate every day as if it was Thanksgiving, Christmas (or your version of it), New Years, my birthday and so on.
Why?
Freakin WHY NOT?
ITS THE ONLY DAY WEVE GOT!
For reasons unrelated to new years, I had a nice bonfire with summer and falls cuttings. Its legal here in the winter.
berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)I like to pretend I'm in wonderland most days.
A nice little bon fire sounds nice. Cheers!
usonian
(13,470 posts)I have been listening to the Opera Channel on WQXR over the internet these days. Escape from the incessant Jingle Bells and such.
Starting off the new year with some gorgeous arias.
Filling the year, as always, with music!
Wuddles440
(1,362 posts)berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(153,851 posts)berniesandersmittens
(11,661 posts)I love them all.
mopinko
(71,597 posts)decided it was time to catch up w folks i havent talked to in too long.
had a lovely chat w my fave person, over and hour and a half. messaged a couple folks. still have a couple calls to make.
its good. its a thing u can get away w during the holidays.
i got the idea from my buddy beau.