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berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:10 PM Dec 2023

Happy New Year Loners

Sometimes the holidays are hard for Loners. Sometimes we're glad for the solitude.

Whichever situation you find yourself in this year, know that you're not really alone. I fall (mostly) into the leave me alone category.

Loner love from afar.

BTW and P.S. : Special love to all of us with animals who find fireworks overwhelming. This includes my dog, cat, and bunny. New Year and the 4th are hard nights at my house...



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Happy New Year Loners (Original Post) berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 OP
I live in the country, and it sounds like a war zone outside, in all directions. My Lab doesen't care, thank goodness. Chainfire Dec 2023 #1
Perfect! berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #2
That is a damn fine idea. Susan Calvin Jan 2024 #29
alone AND working when the year changes Skittles Dec 2023 #3
If im snoozing by midnight... berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #4
Happy New Year. sinkingfeeling Dec 2023 #5
Hope next year brings you happiness and health berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #6
I'm not quite alone. Mr.Bill Dec 2023 #7
This is my 5th New Years alone berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #9
I don't know what's happened around here... slightlv Dec 2023 #8
Maybe you'll be spared the night's mortars berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #11
You live in Sylmar too? BidenRocks Dec 2023 #17
The deep Arkansas Ozark mountains berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #18
Happy New Year to you! 58Sunliner Dec 2023 #10
Cheers! berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #12
Happy New Year to you, BSM! LudwigPastorius Dec 2023 #13
I hear ya! berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #15
How can you be a loner? BidenRocks Dec 2023 #14
The magic of the loner lounge... berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #16
Happy New Year PlutosHeart Dec 2023 #19
Blessings on you and all caregivers. yardwork Dec 2023 #21
Heres a beautiful video to start this new year berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #22
Oh thank you! PlutosHeart Jan 2024 #25
WOW! Powerful, inspiring music, and MESMERIZING video! 70sEraVet Jan 2024 #34
Congratulations on your 1, 000th post milestone. You are definitely not niyad Jan 2024 #39
Oh! Thank you for pointing that out. PlutosHeart Jan 2024 #40
Thank you for this kind and thoughtful post. yardwork Dec 2023 #20
Cheers to the new year my friend berniesandersmittens Dec 2023 #23
It's quieter than usual in my neighborhood. yardwork Dec 2023 #24
Happy New Year to you, too. Ocelot II Jan 2024 #26
I fell asleep before midnight lol berniesandersmittens Jan 2024 #30
Happy 2024 to all the DUers on the Eastern Time! We're now into 2024! BComplex Jan 2024 #27
Hope you have a nice quiet morning for the 1st berniesandersmittens Jan 2024 #31
Peaceful, so far. usonian Jan 2024 #28
Then wishing you a very merry unbirthday! berniesandersmittens Jan 2024 #32
Birthday is coming soon. usonian Jan 2024 #35
Wishing you a happy and healthy 2024! Wuddles440 Jan 2024 #33
Diddo! berniesandersmittens Jan 2024 #37
Happy New Year LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2024 #36
Class and sincerity berniesandersmittens Jan 2024 #38
i did something i plan to continue- mopinko Jan 2024 #41
 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
1. I live in the country, and it sounds like a war zone outside, in all directions. My Lab doesen't care, thank goodness.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:16 PM
Dec 2023

I am about to turn in, like I have done for the last 30 or 40 years, and when I wake up in the morning, the new year will have come without bringing me cotton mouth and a headache. Perhaps I will get up about 5:00 AM and set me off some fireworks.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
4. If im snoozing by midnight...
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:28 PM
Dec 2023

I hope you're night goes smoothly and that you're able to get some rest tomorrow.

Mr.Bill

(24,739 posts)
7. I'm not quite alone.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:29 PM
Dec 2023

My wife is out of town with relatives, but I have my two dogs here. I'm in our new house and the solitude is welcome. It's been a very hectic few weeks. My older dog used to have a problem with fireworks, but she's deaf now and sleeps through it. I'm in a sparsely populated part of Northern California's Gold Country. I have been told to expect a lot of gun fire tonight. Nothing yet, so far.

I've spent many holidays alone and it's never bothered me.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
9. This is my 5th New Years alone
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:47 PM
Dec 2023

I enjoy pj's, a bottle of champagne, and my recliner.
I'm quite content as well

slightlv

(4,225 posts)
8. I don't know what's happened around here...
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:44 PM
Dec 2023

but no fireworks tonight! Of course, it's only 9:30pm... still some time til Midnight. But I haven't even heard a firecracker go off. Usually this place is all smoke by 11pm, even on New Years. Maybe they shot the whole wad last 4th of July. I do live with a bunch of trumpers who were probably "celebrating" their ascendency!

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
11. Maybe you'll be spared the night's mortars
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:49 PM
Dec 2023

Been hearing the guns go off in the last few minutes.

I really hope I don't have spent shells all in my yard tomorrow...

BidenRocks

(922 posts)
17. You live in Sylmar too?
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:04 PM
Dec 2023

The condo canyon effect.
Freaked my late dog out

These are not firecrackers. They seem much bigger.

LudwigPastorius

(10,635 posts)
13. Happy New Year to you, BSM!
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:53 PM
Dec 2023

I'm just hanging out tending the black eyed peas on the stove and listening to jazz. I wouldn't go out tonight if you paid me.

During my drinking days I very much considered New Years Eve "amateur night".

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
15. I hear ya!
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:01 PM
Dec 2023

My blackeyed peas are soaking overnight. Gonna make cornbread tomorrow and take it to my grandparents. I don't really like the peas, but if I put enough Louisiana hot sauce on them they're not too bad

PlutosHeart

(1,445 posts)
19. Happy New Year
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:33 PM
Dec 2023

No fireworks for some odd reason. Glad about that though.
As a disclaimer, I am not exactly alone. My husband has frontal lobe dementia, altered reality and LBD and is basically a zombie. He sits in a chair pretty much all day. And then there is me, my two dogs and three cats. They are good company and keep me sane along with people like you and others on the internet.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
22. Heres a beautiful video to start this new year
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:46 PM
Dec 2023

There's peace in the world if we can listen to it. I wish you well my friend.

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PlutosHeart

(1,445 posts)
25. Oh thank you!
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 12:08 AM
Jan 2024

Surprisingly I can relate in a big way with environmental and animal work I have done my whole life. How did you know that was my dapple gray in my mind? lol!!!!!!
This could not have been more perfect.
Hand over ❤️
Or in the words of my Indiginous husband, Miigwitch.

niyad

(119,309 posts)
39. Congratulations on your 1, 000th post milestone. You are definitely not
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 01:15 PM
Jan 2024

alone, you have a whole family here on DU.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
23. Cheers to the new year my friend
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:48 PM
Dec 2023

Gave the dog a sedative so he should sleep through the majority of the booms. Haven't seen the cat in a whole, she's probably under my bed.

Ocelot II

(120,110 posts)
26. Happy New Year to you, too.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 12:13 AM
Jan 2024

Home alone, as usual; just me and the cat. And we like it that way. The cat is asleep; I'm watching Netflix and eating pretzels. It's quiet and comfortable, no party, no noise. My idea of a nice New Years Eve.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
30. I fell asleep before midnight lol
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 07:51 AM
Jan 2024

The fireworks didn't wale me or the dog. First good night's sleep of the year. I'll take it!

BComplex

(8,986 posts)
27. Happy 2024 to all the DUers on the Eastern Time! We're now into 2024!
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 12:13 AM
Jan 2024

I have two dogs hiding under the dining room table from all the fireworks!

usonian

(13,470 posts)
28. Peaceful, so far.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 12:30 AM
Jan 2024

I celebrate every day as if it was Thanksgiving, Christmas (or your version of it), New Years, my birthday and so on.

Why?

Freakin WHY NOT?

IT’S THE ONLY DAY WE’VE GOT!

For reasons unrelated to new year’s, I had a nice bonfire with summer and fall’s cuttings. It’s legal here in the winter.

berniesandersmittens

(11,661 posts)
32. Then wishing you a very merry unbirthday!
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 07:58 AM
Jan 2024

I like to pretend I'm in wonderland most days.

A nice little bon fire sounds nice. Cheers!



usonian

(13,470 posts)
35. Birthday is coming soon.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 10:58 AM
Jan 2024

I have been listening to the Opera Channel on WQXR over the internet these days. Escape from the incessant Jingle Bells and such.

Starting off the new year with some gorgeous arias.

Filling the year, as always, with music!

mopinko

(71,597 posts)
41. i did something i plan to continue-
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 08:41 PM
Jan 2024

decided it was time to catch up w folks i havent talked to in too long.
had a lovely chat w my fave person, over and hour and a half. messaged a couple folks. still have a couple calls to make.
it’s good. it’s a thing u can get away w during the holidays.

i got the idea from my buddy beau.

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