She says who she voted for is one of my business and she talked about how hard woman worked to earn the right to vote. I brought to her attention many trumpers would love to see the 19th Amendment repealed, and she said there were good and bad people on both sides in politics.

She doesn't seem like a good fit for someone with the screen name EnergizedLib.

Good luck!

This rarely happens for me.

She’s been my first official girlfriend in seven years, only my second one ever, first one lasted four months. I’m currently on three months with this one.

after the election. Maybe you’ll meet someone with shared interests. Even us loners have to push ourselves when the potential reward is great!

I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times

It has some guidance I've found helpful on having meaningful conversations across various types of divisions that are aimed at connecting rather than changing minds -- and paradoxically, when you gain deeper understanding, with less focus on conclusions and more focus on personal experience that shaped those conclusions, while holding firm to your own values, there are often moments of insight and a loosening of opposing positions.

I'm sorry, the red flags here are numerous.

You chose a screen name on a Democratic board that reflects your life principles and values.
She does not seem to share them; she may be fun & exciting, but at depth, she does seem to be compatible with you

To politics, but didn’t like trump. Seeing more of him because of me she, now, thinks he’s an idiot.

It would be like having a nice fluffy pillow - getting ready for a nice relaxing and comfortable nights sleep. But a pillowcase made of 60 grit sandpaper was placed over your new pillow. You go to sleep and the grit is cutting up your face. You wake up in the morning with a pillow saturated in blood and little chunks of flesh. That does not seem like a relaxing or comfortable way to get a good night's sleep.

That relationship with Ms. Micro-MAGA might prove to be setting yourself up for failure too. She seems to be not too flexible or tolerant of the other.

Good luck.

Better to end it and be alone than to wait and be miserable.