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steve2470

(37,468 posts)
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 04:21 PM Sep 2014

vignette

You will wonder what the hell this has to do with "Loners group", but I think you'll see.

I play an online MMORPG game, by myself. I'm not going to name it, so I don't get harassed by the idiots of the world. Long story short, someone called me a "douche" in the game. I don't think I deserved being called that name. I cried real tears in real life. No one has ever called me that nasty name in my entire life. Yes, I'm overly sensitive. Yes, I need to grow a rhinoceros hide.

Yes, I know in the grand scheme of things, being called a douche is nothing. Absolutely nothing. However, can't we all be kinder to each other ? That includes me too. Today just reminded me, once again, to be KIND, as much as humanly possible.

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vignette (Original Post) steve2470 Sep 2014 OP
As you say... silverweb Sep 2014 #1
76th Rule of Ferengi Acquisition antiquie Sep 2014 #2
Love it! silverweb Sep 2014 #4
Thank you steve2470 Sep 2014 #11
You're a good and kind person. antiquie Sep 2014 #3
thanks steve2470 Sep 2014 #5
This makes me sad for you. You are such a nice guy! littlemissmartypants Sep 2014 #6
thanks, my friend ! steve2470 Sep 2014 #7
perhaps you can take solace marym625 Sep 2014 #8
yes I understand steve2470 Sep 2014 #9
Sorry marym625 Sep 2014 #10

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
1. As you say...
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 04:59 PM
Sep 2014

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]"...can't we all be kinder to each other?"

Agree completely. So many stingy, nasty, and just plain mean people in the world today. What ever happened to the Golden Rule?

My mother used to say, "Be kind to your enemies; it confuses the hell out of them." Not sure if it's a quote from someone else or she made it up, but I always liked it.

Better yet, sometimes kindness even changes nasty people for the better somewhere down the road. I've seen it happen, not all at once, but over time.

Hang in there.

 

antiquie

(4,299 posts)
2. 76th Rule of Ferengi Acquisition
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 06:38 PM
Sep 2014
Every once in a while, declare peace. It confuses the hell out of your enemies.

 

antiquie

(4,299 posts)
3. You're a good and kind person.
Mon Sep 1, 2014, 06:42 PM
Sep 2014

It's those kinds of jerks who have the hide (and soul) of a rhinoceros.

(I have often let a stranger's words drive me to tears.)

littlemissmartypants

(25,483 posts)
6. This makes me sad for you. You are such a nice guy!
Tue Sep 2, 2014, 12:49 AM
Sep 2014

They just don't know what they are missing by not having you as a friend.
I know it's hard to do but you have to let it roll like water off a duck's back.





Love,
littlemissmartypants

marym625

(17,997 posts)
8. perhaps you can take solace
Tue Sep 2, 2014, 05:47 AM
Sep 2014

In the fact, people will say things online they would never say face to face. It's not much. Mean is mean.

It's also possible, though I don't know the situation, it wasn't said with the malice that came across. Maybe it was said with a laugh and a smile like someone caught by a friend. (Hard to try to explain what I mean hear without being able to put a voice to it.)

Regardless, I am sorry you were so hurt. Kindness costs nothing. It would be a much better world if we all strived to be kinder.

(Aside- spell check for both my phone and DU said strived isn't a word. Wth?)

steve2470

(37,468 posts)
9. yes I understand
Tue Sep 2, 2014, 06:23 AM
Sep 2014

I do think the word was meant to wound, instead of to tease. This person did not know me, at all. One day words like that won't affect me so much, a work in progress.

Thanks.

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