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Related: About this forumFraternity Loses Its Charter After Displaying ‘No Means Yes’ Banner At A Party
The Texas Tech chapter of the international fraternity Phi Delta Theta is being stripped of its charter following controversy over a party last month that included a banner reading No Means Yes, Yes Means Anal.
In September, images of the banner were posted on the sites BroBible and Total Frat Move. Those photos of the party also showed a sprinkler in the shape of female genitalia that sprayed guests with water. The incident prompted Texas Tech University to launch an investigation, and Phi Delta Theta suspended the chapter while reviewing the case.
Indeed, these type of pro-rape messages aren't entirely uncommon. In 2008, frat brothers at Yale University chanted the exact same message No Means Yes! Yes Means Anal! sparking a federal investigation and eventually getting the chapter suspended. More recently, a fraternity at Georgia Tech was suspended after leaked emails exposed the brothers discussing how to lure your rapebait.
The idea that no can somehow mean yes during a sexual encounter isnt limited to college students. One 2009 study found that some Americans, particularly people who subscribe to traditional gender norms and dont place as much value on gender equality, believe that acquaintance rape doesn't count as an assault even if a woman says no. Recently, conservative radio host Rush Limbaugh sparked outrage for suggesting that men know that no means yes if you know how to spot it.
http://thinkprogress.org/health/2014/10/08/3577243/texas-tech-fraternity-banner/
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ismnotwasm
(42,531 posts)I understandstand social pressures but that party took planing and thought. IF a rape had occurred. The word "premeditated" comes to mind. The young women at the party probably thought it was funny-- the ones who stayed, or the ones who laughed, again; social pressure, combined with utter self centeredness, entitlement and ignorance.
I'm glad they lost their charter. Very good news.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)The historical refusal to hold men and boys accountable for what they do (to women, especially) is changing.
JimDandy
(7,318 posts)Indydem
(2,642 posts)The first national fraternity to do so.
BrotherIvan
(9,126 posts)When are parents going to speak up for their daughters? There are plenty of campuses that ban the greek system. Again, this is about $$ for the organization, nothing more.