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Good effing grief! WAs she supposed to undergo surgery before the prom, or what?
http://www.takepart.com/article/2015/05/04/see-gown-plus-size-teen-booted-from-prom?cmpid=tpdaily-eml-2015-05-04
Its supposed to be the most special evening of a students high school experience. But thanks to a controversy over her dress, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, teenager Alexus Miller-Wigfalls prom night turned into a nightmare. Her floor-length red gown was deemed inappropriate by school officials, who chose to boot her from the event and subsequently gave her a one-day suspension from school.
According to Miller-Wigfall, who is a senior at the SciTech division of Harrisburg High School, although the gown fully covered her body, the schools assistant principal said the size of her breasts was an issue. Miller-Wigfall said she received compliments from other educatorsincluding district superintendent Knight Burneybut she was asked to leave the dance. Three days later, she was notified that she would be suspended for one day because her gown did not meet the proms dress code requirements.
[The assistant principal] said, You have more boobs than other girls. The other girls have less to show, the teen told Penn Live.
After pushback from Miller-Wigfalls mom, Alisha Sneed, and backlash from the community and on social media, district officials decided that Miller-Wigfall would not have to serve her suspension on Friday. The Harrisburg School District believes that proms are celebratory and memorable events in the lives of its students. Our administration, school board, faculty, and advisors strive to ensure that students enjoy themselves immensely while abiding by attire guidelines and expectations that support and promote the elegance of the prom season, the district said in a statement. Neither school representatives nor school district officials were available for comment.
Sneed said her daughter was targeted because she is plus-size and not flat-chested.
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merrily
(45,251 posts)SUE!
Skittles
(160,724 posts)and she rocks it; yes INDEED
eridani
(51,907 posts)Skittles
(160,724 posts)yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)And I tend to prefer a more modest look on females and she fits the bill completely. The school is so wrong here.
Arkansas Granny
(31,891 posts)IMO, the dress is not too revealing at all.
Novara
(6,115 posts)It is not a woman's job to make sure you are not uncomfortable with her body. Once again, a school shames a young woman because they are making her responsible for others' reactions to her when it's the others who need to take responsibility for their feelings. So some girls have large breasts. Get over it and grow up. Man, this shit makes me angry.
If her body makes you uncomfortable, that's your problem. Not hers. Stop shaming girls because you can't handle your feelings.
brer cat
(26,618 posts)Shaming that young woman because they were uncomfortable with the size of her breasts...what complete a#%holes.
Novara
(6,115 posts)....it's always the same thing. Dress codes in schools for girls are all about the poor boys and men (and sometimes women) who can't handle looking at a girl's body and the problem lies with their feelings rather than what the girls are wearing. And the way these things are enforced always seems to have a high amount of shaming involved.
Our society teaches young girls that they are responsible for how others react to them, and they should be ashamed if they "tempt" others. Fuck that shit. We need to be teaching boys not to leer at girls, that girls and women are not objects for their perusal.
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)It doesn't sound like the gown was the problem for the folks who spoke up, but her body. Seeing the pics before reading the text, I assumed the problem was going to be that the semi-see-through top was backed with a fabric nearly matching her skin tone, making it look like she was wearing something 'peek-a-boo'.
newfie11
(8,159 posts)There's nothing wrong with that dress and this was her PROM!!!
For Petes sake when did the Puritans take over!
mercuryblues
(15,336 posts)I need a gown like that. Just got a weeks notice that I will be attending a formal event, which does not leave me time to get alterations or ordering online. But that is a style I need. Not going to be fun. I wear a size 12 pant and 16 shirt to cover my endowments. Which is why I hardly ever wear a dress. If I buy one that covers my top 1/2 the bottom looks like it is 4 sizes to big. If I find one that fits my bottom 1/2 the top falls out. Sleeves for me is a joke. My favorite saying is, why do designers think that because you are well endowed your knuckles drag on the ground.
This young lady looks entirely appropriate for the event. Right now I envy her and her Mom's skill at sewing.
mountain grammy
(27,437 posts)This rates as the dumbest move of the week.. I'm almost sorry I read it, makes me want to punch someone.
The young lady is lovely. WTF is wrong with people?