I remember this age. nothing but sexual harrassment, constantly. and when I needed help, there was none to be found, the subtext being that I was a feminazi bitch with an axe to grind.

...was that if you weren't a predator, you were a sexless wimp. Sadly, a lot of men and women seemed to buy into this idea.

no one listens to women, esp FEMINISTS.
I can talk til I'm blue in the face and nothing will change.

boys that did not rape us.

I was able to find lots of like-minded folk to hang with. It's just that when I was young and naive, I thought that predators would be pariahs, shunned by everyone. I was shocked to find that that wasn't so. Still am, really.

I entered college in mid '60s...it was the same then. It kills my soul that it is still considered the girl's/woman's fault for putting herself into a position to be harassed/abused/raped. When will responsibility be required of the male side of this equation?

but then he backed out just in time.
the trouble is that other men aren't holding them accountable.
bros b4 hos and all that crap.

Yet unsurprising. If you want proof that colleges do not care about rape, look no farther than the fraternity/sorority system. It insulates and reinforces traditional gender roles and bigotry. It provides reasons and situations for men to be shown that rape is acceptable. It is the highest mainstream expression of rape culture and white/male/hetero/elite privilege in our culture. Very little has been done to change this.

Very good point

bad the situation is.

One of the reasons I post about MRAs is because a number of young men with indoctrinated sexism/misogyny are finding them on the internet and think they've been validated. They don't need help from those goofs, they need gender education