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thinkingagain

(991 posts)
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 10:47 PM Oct 2018

I could use some support

I don’t post a lot
But could use some support prayers and whatever I don’t know I’m stressing trying not to cry but I’m sitting in the ER my 29 yr old son is under going testing they think he is having a mild stroke so far Theve done a lot of test Skyped with harberview specialist in Seattle that’s what he thinks it is so they gave him this shot I will call it super heparin
Anyhow anyone one could share thoughts ideas prayers I don’t know I’m kinda in shock. Ambulance rides with your child in the back is not fun
(Please forgive spelling and grammar errors)

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I could use some support (Original Post) thinkingagain Oct 2018 OP
healing vibes for your son KT2000 Oct 2018 #1
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #42
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Oct 2018 #2
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #43
I'm deeply sorry. My prayers are with your son. AJT Oct 2018 #3
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #44
My thoughts are with you. Lunabell Oct 2018 #4
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #45
Lost power for a week Lunabell Oct 2018 #54
Thoughts and prayers sent lunamagica Oct 2018 #5
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #46
I suffered a stroke in my early 50s Dr Vegas Oct 2018 #6
glad you recovered Demovictory9 Oct 2018 #24
Good to hear you recovered thinkingagain Oct 2018 #36
We are all sending our wishes that your son is in good hands and will recover. Marie Marie Oct 2018 #7
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #47
In good hands- they are taking care of him now consulting specialists. . Think lunasun Oct 2018 #8
Thanks for the comments thinkingagain Oct 2018 #9
thank you for the update orleans Oct 2018 #18
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #48
Dear friend, you are not alone tonight, peacebuzzard Oct 2018 #10
Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #49
Sending prayers Olafjoy Oct 2018 #11
Yes our family is very close thinkingagain Oct 2018 #14
I'm glad you have family there. My doctor strongly recommends that a family member pnwmom Oct 2018 #34
They are very good here thinkingagain Oct 2018 #37
Good! I'm glad to hear that. It sounds like your family makes a good team. pnwmom Oct 2018 #38
Everyone here says the right words just by being here thinkingagain Oct 2018 #39
Support and prayers for you and your son! pazzyanne Oct 2018 #12
Healing thoughts for your boy! SunSeeker Oct 2018 #13
I'm so sorry that your son is in the hospital vlyons Oct 2018 #15
Best of luck to your son and you. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2018 #16
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (eom) StevieM Oct 2018 #17
🕯 sprinkleeninow Oct 2018 #19
Best wishes JDC Oct 2018 #20
Sent up a prayer for your son. May the Lord be with him. iluvtennis Oct 2018 #21
This is why I love DU thinkingagain Oct 2018 #22
We are here whenever you need to connect. grantcart Oct 2018 #23
I'm with you over here in Redmond -- I send you and your family and son peace and an easy recovery. fierywoman Oct 2018 #25
Im by Lakewood WA. MFM008 Oct 2018 #26
Actually in wenatchee hospital they skyped thinkingagain Oct 2018 #33
The younger you are, the more "plastic" your brain is, so it should heal better and faster, pnwmom Oct 2018 #40
May your son recover and be well; prayers sent for him, for you and your family. No Vested Interest Oct 2018 #27
I'm not a doctor but my family has had some experience with heparin. pnwmom Oct 2018 #28
Yes I think that's where the are going thinkingagain Oct 2018 #35
So sorry- dawg day Oct 2018 #29
Sending love and hope for the very best outcome for your son. montana_hazeleyes Oct 2018 #30
I am thinking of you violetpastille Oct 2018 #31
Sending heartfelt hope and healing thoughts to your son thinkingagain. skylucy Oct 2018 #32
Best of luck to you and your family :) mr_lebowski Oct 2018 #41
I was trying to thank everyone individually thinkingagain Oct 2018 #50
I hope you get good news soon. Nt spooky3 Oct 2018 #51
Wishing your son, you & family all the best Lefta Dissenter Oct 2018 #52
Please keep us updated. I hope things have improved by morning. badhair77 Oct 2018 #53
Sending love to you and your son duforsure Oct 2018 #55
Sending love and support to you and your son. Freedomofspeech Oct 2018 #56
Been there. My best to you. sellitman Oct 2018 #57
New news thinkingagain Oct 2018 #58
glad to hear this. hopefully orleans Oct 2018 #59
That's great news. Of course you are still worried, but I'm so glad pnwmom Oct 2018 #62
Oh and the sun is shining and I can see blue skies thinkingagain Oct 2018 #60
The morning lifts everything up! peacebuzzard Oct 2018 #61
So a bit of humor for this situation thinkingagain Oct 2018 #63
Prayers for both of you and your family discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2018 #64
He's filled out his ballot thinkingagain Oct 2018 #65
+ 1,000,000 discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2018 #66
I find this site helpful for figuring out the nonpartisan races and the initiatives. pnwmom Oct 2018 #67
Yes thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #68

KT2000

(20,818 posts)
1. healing vibes for your son
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 10:52 PM
Oct 2018

and peace to you. Harborview is excellent and he will get up to the minute care there.

Dr Vegas

(456 posts)
6. I suffered a stroke in my early 50s
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 11:17 PM
Oct 2018

I was a heavy smoker and overweight. It was suggested that I had suffered TIAs (mini-strokes) in the past and not be aware of it.
I was in a nursing home for 6 months until my body recover enough to start physical therapy. I joke about that time as me being at the airport in the long term parking lot.

My 85 year old Dad visited every week, and grab/squeezed my hand and told me that I would walk again. The support I got from my Dad/Family is the reason I am walking today.

Your son WILL recover and your SUPPORT will help him on the path of recovery

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
36. Good to hear you recovered
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:11 AM
Oct 2018

Like I said in another response post
I do believe love and support helps a lot
I’m glad your dad was there for you

Marie Marie

(10,001 posts)
7. We are all sending our wishes that your son is in good hands and will recover.
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 11:23 PM
Oct 2018

Until then, please know how much love and support the DU community is sending your way. We care.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
8. In good hands- they are taking care of him now consulting specialists. . Think
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 11:28 PM
Oct 2018

of relief that he is going to be OK because the quick timing he got a drug to stop any clot and get blood flowing again saved him and younger stroke patients are more likely to benefit from this early treatment

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
9. Thanks for the comments
Fri Oct 26, 2018, 11:30 PM
Oct 2018

We are in Wenatchee hospital genes the Skype to harbeeview (yes harberview is good ) but the problem they are having is his age and he doesn’t smoke do drugs rarely drinks no real reason for this to come on but I did ask about the possibility of previous unknown strokes and the nurse said about the mini strokes
The only risk factor is I have a dual hereditary blood clot factor that means he carries 1 but they are still trying to figure out. If it’s s strike the whys so far he hasn’t responded differently to the medication
I so appreciate the posts

orleans

(34,892 posts)
18. thank you for the update
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:16 AM
Oct 2018

i am not familiar with strokes and am unable to provide anything noteworthy on them.
sorry.
i will tell you that i am glad you are with your son and i know he is comforted that you are there.
ask questions when you don't understand--ask questions even if you understand.

i just saw your latest update and i'm glad you are not waiting by yourself.

i wish only the best for you and your son. you are both in my thoughts. i know it is very stressful; try to rest, try to eat something.



peacebuzzard

(5,264 posts)
10. Dear friend, you are not alone tonight,
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 12:07 AM
Oct 2018

I am on the other coast sending my get well prayers for your son. Decades ago My mother took me to an ER, We both thought for a few hours I was dying. It was terrifying. I am so sorry. I am glad he is getting the best care possible..

Olafjoy

(937 posts)
11. Sending prayers
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 12:45 AM
Oct 2018

I am sending good vibes and energy and praying very hard for you and your precious son tonight.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Do you have anyone you can call to come and be with you? Keep us updated on how he is doing❤️❤️

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
14. Yes our family is very close
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 12:58 AM
Oct 2018

His dad and his two sisters are here brother at home taking care of our dog and my large family all sending prayers
I am trying to be strong so they don’t see how worried I am plus more circle of love helps and any ideas I just can’t wrap my head around a 29 year old having a stroke I know even younger people do but it’s crazy
He’s incredibly smart (computer tech systems tech at his work )
He is resting although they have to wake him every little bit to test him again can you feel this can you say this etc
They are doing there job
Sorry about the ramble
It’s 11 pm and hubby and I been up since like 4

pnwmom

(109,532 posts)
34. I'm glad you have family there. My doctor strongly recommends that a family member
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:04 AM
Oct 2018

remain with hospitalized patients, even overnight. I had to be very pushy about this a few years ago, when my daughter was hospitalized. They were telling me there wasn't room enough for me, because of the roommate, but I knew the hospital's own "Bill of Rights" says that a family member is allowed to stay in the room with a patient. So I sat in a folding chair half in and half out of the room all night. The next day they discovered that there was a single room available after all, big enough for me to stay with her from then on.

You and your hubby must be utterly exhausted though. I hope one of you can go home and get some sleep.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
37. They are very good here
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:16 AM
Oct 2018

The nurse made me a bed on the pull out couch
& Helped me get more coffee
Hubby and sisters went home for some rest I will go later in the am and do that and one or more will come back here

pnwmom

(109,532 posts)
38. Good! I'm glad to hear that. It sounds like your family makes a good team.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:22 AM
Oct 2018

I wish I knew the right words to make a scared mother feel better -- I don't. All I can say is that I care, too.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
39. Everyone here says the right words just by being here
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:29 AM
Oct 2018

At the moment it’s quiet and texting on my phone to as many posts as I can is helping
I know that many Du members are up all night it seems
I will be fielding multiple texts and calls from concerned family members in the morning ( my daughter was doing most that while he was in the ER)

pazzyanne

(6,599 posts)
12. Support and prayers for you and your son!
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 12:47 AM
Oct 2018

Stay strong, take care of yourself, and know that there are many people who care. Prayers and healing thoughts are on their way to your son and to you.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
15. I'm so sorry that your son is in the hospital
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 12:59 AM
Oct 2018

Stay calm for your son, and may his recovery be swift and complete.

FuzzyRabbit

(2,081 posts)
16. Best of luck to your son and you.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:00 AM
Oct 2018

He has youth on his side, and probably good health. He will probably come through just fine. My sister had a mild stroke a couple years ago at age 67 and she is just fine now. Modern medicine does miraculous things these days.

Please keep us posted on how he does.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
22. This is why I love DU
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:38 AM
Oct 2018

You guys are great you don’t know me and here you are like family with love and support
I’ll probably use you guys to fill the in between awake and short naps on the couch I won’t sleep much any how with them checking him every few mins
Plus I don’t sleep good anyhow because a bad hip scheduled for surgery in Dec
Dad and sisters went home for rest we will trade out tomorrow
So far no real change although nurse Dad and I all thought that there was a slight improvement in the hand eye cordination at the last check

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
33. Actually in wenatchee hospital they skyped
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:03 AM
Oct 2018

With a specialist in harberview ( once they got it to work) that was something never saw that done before even with my large family but having had my dad at Harberview I know they have good docs there and they will consult with the ones here
The specialist was even a bit puzzzled I understood the docs and nurses here saying he was the youngest Theve ever had as a stroke possibility but the harberview guy say it’s rare that’s something but the younger age I guess gives them hope

pnwmom

(109,532 posts)
40. The younger you are, the more "plastic" your brain is, so it should heal better and faster,
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:41 AM
Oct 2018

if he's had a stroke.

pnwmom

(109,532 posts)
28. I'm not a doctor but my family has had some experience with heparin.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:53 AM
Oct 2018

It sounds like they think he had a mild stroke caused by a blood clot, so they're giving him a blood thinner to get that taken care of, and they're doing tests to see what else, if anything, might be the matter.

If this was a stroke, the good thing is that you caught this while it was still mild and got him to the hospital. The doctors and nurses will know how to take it from there. But as a mother of young adults, I know how hard it is to just sit there helplessly and have to wait. There's nothing worse than having to go through something like this with our children.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
35. Yes I think that's where the are going
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 02:08 AM
Oct 2018

I am familiar with heparin also. I had a P E years ago due to a blood clot and my youngest sister also found out we carry a genetic factor for it (rare double one) so my son would carry the single gene
But they also thought he had some narrowing of blood vessels in his neck
They did say they did not see any bleeding on his brain

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
29. So sorry-
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:54 AM
Oct 2018

No wisdom here. But the best thing is that they've identified the problem. Now you can deal with it, along with medical science! The worst thing would be not knowing he has this condition.

Hugs to you! He will be better in the morning, and they will probably send him home with medicine and instructions!

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
30. Sending love and hope for the very best outcome for your son.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 01:55 AM
Oct 2018

DU is a family and you are a member of our family and we are all here for you, your son and your family.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
50. I was trying to thank everyone individually
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 03:23 AM
Oct 2018

But I think my phone is as tired as I am ( although I am also half trying to stay awak and half trying to go to sleep)
Anyhow in the middle of one of my thank yous my phone just stalled for the longest time so hence why I think tired
So I just want to say a big thank you to all especially any I missed. Just for being here

Lefta Dissenter

(6,656 posts)
52. Wishing your son, you & family all the best
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 04:21 AM
Oct 2018

As hard as it is, please be sure to take good care of yourself through this difficult time.

My son was diagnosed with cancer a week after he graduated high school. There were many months of stress through surgery, treatment and testing, and years of worrying about recurrence. He is now 37 years old and I just got back from visiting him and his wife and daughter in Japan where they work for the US State Department.

There is a healthy, happy future ahead for your son, thanks to great medical care and the loving support of family. Be sure to celebrate even the tiniest bit of good news or spark of recovery, because those moments will add up, layer upon layer. One day you will look back on this time as a frightening episode in the past and recognize that, as a family, you all survived and thrived.

All the best to you

badhair77

(4,590 posts)
53. Please keep us updated. I hope things have improved by morning.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 05:08 AM
Oct 2018

Also, remember self-care. You need to take care of yourself so you can help your son. Sending good vibes to you and your son.

sellitman

(11,663 posts)
57. Been there. My best to you.
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 08:43 AM
Oct 2018

I know the feeling unfortunately.

My son made it through 2 brain tumor operations.

He is 100% now. Hope yours will be too.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
58. New news
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 10:19 AM
Oct 2018

They just “food & drink” tested him he did fine do no restriction from the speech therapist.
So that is a positive.

He’s been wanting to eat since he arrived last night😊

Plus the nurse said his niece & nefews could come for short visits 😊that’s good because they are pretty close to their uncle.

Also the dr this am said we did pretty good on time line on getting him to ER as every minute helps. ( I posted some stuff this am in general discussion regarding this situation )
At moment I’m feeling a bit more positive but not enough to leave and go home and sleep.

pnwmom

(109,532 posts)
62. That's great news. Of course you are still worried, but I'm so glad
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 06:00 PM
Oct 2018

you got here there as quickly as you did.

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
60. Oh and the sun is shining and I can see blue skies
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 10:31 AM
Oct 2018

A positive ( yesterday and the day before was dark & dreary)

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
63. So a bit of humor for this situation
Sat Oct 27, 2018, 06:19 PM
Oct 2018

I wasn’t there I had gone home to change and get an hours rest but my daughter share this with me conversation between neurologist and my son

Dr said she needed to ask him some Questions.
Dr.: Who is our current president?
J: I don't know, some idiot.
Dr (laughs): can you tell me his name?
J ( short pause): do I have to say his name?
Dr: yes. I'm actually going to ask you the names of the last 3
J (sigh): Trump
Dr: and before that?
J: Obama
Dr:and do you remember who was before that
J: yeah, Bush

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
65. He's filled out his ballot
Sun Oct 28, 2018, 12:13 PM
Oct 2018

And just needs to mail or drop it off.

Lucky here in Wa we have mail ballots.
( doing better then me I still have to finish mine figure out the judges etc should be done by tonight or Monday )

thinkingagain

(991 posts)
68. Yes thank you
Sun Oct 28, 2018, 04:29 PM
Oct 2018

I had looked at that before but it doesn’t have a couple of my local races at least as far as I can tell I was going to check one more time. What’s really frustrating is the local paper doesn’t have it either so far I’ve tracked down some of the more local stuff.
Just a bit more to go.

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