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Related: About this forumMy daughter washed and dried a jacket that had a pen and a pack of Newports in the pocket
Her, her husband and her two teenage daughters have been living with us for about a year and a half. I love them but they can be pretty thoughtless and lazy. My son, her brother, washed his clothes, (which now smell like ciggs) but the real surprise is the smears of black ink, two bic pens (sort of melted but not onto drier that he could see), cigarette smell and debris. He looked into the washer and, sure enough, black ink smears and cigarette debris. Does anyone know how to guide or advise?
PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,607 posts)Among the reasons I despise cigarette smokers is stuff like this. They are utterly oblivious to anything their smoking or cigarettes cause.
Hugh_Lebowski
(33,643 posts)Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)She does his laundry but she's careless...kind of thoughtless, can do passive aggressive shit to annoy me. I don't think she did this on purpose but I'm so tired of cleaning up after her, them. My husband is gonna be really pissed...the list of times she has cost us money, him having to fix things...ugh
blm
(113,786 posts)worked for me.
Bev54
(11,910 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,515 posts)When it happened to me in a dryer, I used Mister Clean Eraser thingys and that worked well, too.
Hugh_Lebowski
(33,643 posts)I would google how to remove ink from a washer. People do this ALL THE TIME, someone knows what to do. Carbona stain removers are specific to certain stains. Rubbing alcohol may work on the streaks in the washer tub. Those are the most urgent here.
If the ink had been dried in the dryer, it's dried. I don't think it'll do anything more than get baked on as you use it.
Bev54
(11,910 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,607 posts)goes into my washer. Although this sounds like they did their own laundry without checking. I will repeat, they owe you a new washer. Maybe they should be required to go to a laundromat for their own washing. Or finally move into their own place.
Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)her girls needed stability and to get back to the school system here in my township. I've overlooked a lot to get them straightened out but yes, it's time for them to go.
Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)And the ink is indeed dried on the drier drum so, aside from looking bad it'll be okay. I guess it's the cigg smell in the drier problem I need to solve
Deuxcents
(19,510 posts)Waded up in the bathroom..drives me nuts. I clean pretty much everything with it. A splash every night in the sink after dishes and wipe down the counters. Smell lasts about 15 seconds and no bugs or smells.
Laffy Kat
(16,515 posts)It's especially good for berries. They last so much longer. Supposedly, it helps to kill the bacteria that can rot the fruit.
Deuxcents
(19,510 posts)When I get blueberries, I gotta eat all pretty quick..kills me to toss them out.
Laffy Kat
(16,515 posts)Can make them go bad faster. I have no idea if that is true, but the water-vinegar solution really seems to slow that down.
Deuxcents
(19,510 posts)Tetrachloride
(8,442 posts)Deuxcents
(19,510 posts)Very generous with their kids and are being taken advantage of..imo..but Ive told my sister that shes enabling them when she calls to tell me whats going on. Her kids are in their 40s 😤
Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)The girls were floundering, in a really rough school that they weren't used to then covid happened. I saw we had a window, opportunity to get them into adulthood as mentally healthy as we could, give them stability. We've overlooked some stuff for the girls, but I don't know how much longer we can do it
Deuxcents
(19,510 posts)Some respect is in order, kind Lady.
Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)Sugarcoated
(8,089 posts)But seriously, my husband is going to be livid. He does his and my laundry. If she doesn't clean them to his satisfaction she's gonna have to replace them.
2naSalit
(92,322 posts)Make them clean it up.
While that is going on maybe remind them of all the other shit they did to cost you while you are trying to help them, not just that they trashed your stuff but that you were also helping them which is kind of a dual cost and they are not seeing any consequence. Then help them see that continuing in your home will require some respect and consideration or more consequences. Just be calm so they know you're serious.
nilram
(2,965 posts)acetone (fingernail polish remover), applied with a paper towel. Either can work on clothes, too, but might also ruin them. Test on an unnoticed edge.
I once left some vitamins in a shirt pocket that I was going to take with my lunch. They went through the washsome very yellow vitamin B, and some fish oil capsules. Got a yellow blotch or two, and the fish oil melted in the dryer and made my clothes smell intensely. Most of it came out after a wash or two, but I had to toss one or two items.
taxi
(1,914 posts)ratchiweenie
(7,893 posts)acetone and if not, it's probably permanent ink in which case, it will stain the dryer drum but not come off on the clothes because it is already "heat set". So sorry you are going through this. Bring them in and ask them to clean them up using the vinegar and acetone and make it clear they have to check pockets from here on out. What else you gonna do. You are doing a very good thing and I know it can be hard (I raised my two grandsons) and the youngest is headed off to college this fall. It is worth it in the long run.
p.s. If all else fails, run a load of strong bleach and dawn dish soap through the washer. Spray the dryer drum with bleach and then wash it out with a wet cloth and dawn. Good luck.
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