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hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:39 PM Jul 2013

I was just so upset when I saw some of the responses to this thread, where other believers upset?

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023224611

I could care less about the fact people don't like that people pray aloud at meals. That is there right and at times when people get loud about it I get annoyed. What upset me was being called an attention whore, ill, stupid, ignorant, and that I hate science.

The Op does not bother me really. Most of the responses I expected and accept as an honest opinion but a few were just plain disgusting.

I posted in interfaith so that I don't have to hear a thousand oh get over it.

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I was just so upset when I saw some of the responses to this thread, where other believers upset? (Original Post) hrmjustin Jul 2013 OP
I am actually sorry I posted in the thread - not in the best mood this AM and my fingers NRaleighLiberal Jul 2013 #1
Some of the responses I got were very insulting and patronizing. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #5
Oh, c'mon... It's just another outrage-a-thon. RevStPatrick Jul 2013 #2
Yes your right . I see these posts inGD all the time and I know what I am going to get. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #3
This message was self-deleted by its author okasha Jul 2013 #13
This is why threads about religion are generally not allowed in GD. cbayer Jul 2013 #4
If you are I posted something in GD about religion it would be locked in a few moments. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #6
I'm not so sure. The GD hosts seem to be a fickle bunch at times. cbayer Jul 2013 #7
Yes your right. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #8
Turn both cheeks, honey. okasha Jul 2013 #14
Yes I guess I should just let it go. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #15
Braveheart is in places a very bigoted movie. okasha Jul 2013 #18
Oh yes that scene. Oh now I see why you said cheeks,lol. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #19
That's why I used to avoid the old Religion/Theology forum wryter2000 Jul 2013 #9
Well we still have a few more. I have posted less there as a result of a few insults. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #10
But you can ignore individuals. cbayer Jul 2013 #11
Oh I won't stop but I have to admit that lately I have been holding back because I just don't hrmjustin Jul 2013 #12
Holding back is fine. cbayer Jul 2013 #16
That is a great point! Thanks cbayer! hrmjustin Jul 2013 #17
Except that there are no "evangelical atheists" Fortinbras Armstrong Jul 2013 #27
As I said, wryter2000 Jul 2013 #28
They are trying to get you upset. If you are upset they win. grantcart Jul 2013 #20
I will have to try that sometime. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #21
Good points :) kentauros Jul 2013 #22
No, it's flamebait. rug Jul 2013 #23
Lol I got called an idiot as did all other believers. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #24
I hope they spelled it right. rug Jul 2013 #25
Yeah he/she did. hrmjustin Jul 2013 #26

NRaleighLiberal

(60,504 posts)
1. I am actually sorry I posted in the thread - not in the best mood this AM and my fingers
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:52 PM
Jul 2013

worked faster than my brain (not uncommon with me)....my wife counsels me on these sorts of things "if you haven't got anything good/positive to say, just shut up" (wise woman, my wife!)

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
5. Some of the responses I got were very insulting and patronizing.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:58 PM
Jul 2013

It just made me very upset. And why was it allowed to stay. If I posted something about religion I guarantee you it would have been hidden.

 

RevStPatrick

(2,208 posts)
2. Oh, c'mon... It's just another outrage-a-thon.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:53 PM
Jul 2013

This place is Outrage Underground.
People come here for their daily Two Minutes Hate™.
(myself included)
I thought that OP and most of those responses were just silly.

Don't get upset over what strangers on the internet do.
It will lead to you being upset every minute of every day for the rest of your life!

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
3. Yes your right . I see these posts inGD all the time and I know what I am going to get.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:56 PM
Jul 2013

What bothers me also is the fact that it was allowed to stay in GD. If I were to post something pro-religion in GD it would be locked in a few minutes.

Response to hrmjustin (Reply #3)

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
4. This is why threads about religion are generally not allowed in GD.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 01:56 PM
Jul 2013

They inevitably turn into religion bashing threads, giving some members the opportunity to say whatever ugly things they want about believers, generally without any consequences.

My opinion is that they are the ones that come off looking badly, not you.

I don't blame you for being upset and I personally think the thread should be locked as inappropriate for GD. It was intended as flame bait and it got exactly the response it was aiming for.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
6. If you are I posted something in GD about religion it would be locked in a few moments.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:00 PM
Jul 2013

I am used to these GD religion posts that become insulting but this one just bit me the wrong way. And people I like saying nasty things was upsetting.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
7. I'm not so sure. The GD hosts seem to be a fickle bunch at times.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:06 PM
Jul 2013

It's hurtful, I know, but you are better than that silly thread.

Turn the other cheek, justin.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
18. Braveheart is in places a very bigoted movie.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:48 PM
Jul 2013

But I was referring to the mooning scene just before the first big battle.

wryter2000

(47,474 posts)
9. That's why I used to avoid the old Religion/Theology forum
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:14 PM
Jul 2013

For people who claim to be rational, they sure have overly emotional reactions to everything religious.

I call them evangelical atheists. They can't stand the fact that someone might believe in a deity or deities, and they're on a crusade to make sure everyone agrees with them, to the point that they'll say things that are demonstrably untrue.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
10. Well we still have a few more. I have posted less there as a result of a few insults.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jul 2013

But I can't ignore the room because I am a host in it.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
11. But you can ignore individuals.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:18 PM
Jul 2013

You are a true asset to that room and I hope you will not stop posting there.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
12. Oh I won't stop but I have to admit that lately I have been holding back because I just don't
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:20 PM
Jul 2013

want the hassle of a thousand responses ready to explore every angle of what I have just said.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
16. Holding back is fine.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 02:40 PM
Jul 2013

One of the best pieces of advice I ever got on this site was to not let them know they could get to you. That came from a wise DU administrator.

People come here to interact and some people interact by starting a fight.

Another good piece of advice I got early on was to reward good behavior and ignore bad. This was particularly helpful when my kids started having temper tantrums. Responding at all just reinforced the behavior, lol.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
27. Except that there are no "evangelical atheists"
Mon Jul 15, 2013, 06:55 AM
Jul 2013

When I tried to point out that people such as Stalin and Hoxha pushed atheism by force in exactly the same way that Ferdinand and Isabella of Spain pushed Catholicism by force, I was told that No True <strike>Scotsman</strike> Atheist would do such a thing.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
20. They are trying to get you upset. If you are upset they win.
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 03:17 PM
Jul 2013


A better solution would be to thank them for their comment and tell them that you would keep them in your prayers, or something benign with humor.


Now if you can get them to laugh you win.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
22. Good points :)
Thu Jul 11, 2013, 05:49 PM
Jul 2013

When I saw the OP, I figured pretty quickly it wasn't going to be worth my time to read, that the poster types it would attract are not the ones I want to read to begin with.

I did think that the OP is someone that doesn't yet comprehend the concept of headphones

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