Take his name out and contact the Administrators. I'm afraid you're going to get into trouble.

It's awful he wrote that, completely horrible. I wouldn't want to see the issue get distorted because you used his name here.

Here? what I just said? I don't want it to be hid away.. but I don't want to get in trouble either. If I had my way that shit would be on GD pronto name and all.

Say someone sent me this PM and let his words speak for themselves. Don't describe what you think he is. I totally agree it's horrible what he did and the admins need to take action. Don't let them make you the issue, please.

go to your Inbox and alert on his PM. The box is in the lower left hand corner. It goes directly to Skinner or EarlG.

jftr - You can post PMs on DU. There is no rule against it and there are no secrets and frankly this one needs to see the light of day.

I am sorry this has happened to you.

She'd get shit for using his name.

There is no problem with posting that sort of attack PM, particularly in a protected group.

As I said, I was worried about naming him. You never know how stuff about rape is going to go around here, or at least I don't know.

I hope it at least gets banned and it's IP tracked or whatever is done to keep banned people out.

He was wrong to contact you with this!

I feel sure that Skinner will handel it!

I was so freaked I just went into attack mode.

Did you alert on the email?

I posted it without name in GD.

in the lower left hand corner. I would also suggest you send a PM directly to Skinner and EarlG. See "Contact" below.

Good luck.

Not sure if GD is a very supportive environment.
Go to your mailbox. Open the PM. At the bottom (left I think) you'll see an alert thing. Click on that and explain the situation that the person sent it to you knowing that you are rape survivor, that it frightens you, and however else you feel (without insulting the guy). The administrators will see it.

My heart is with you. Please take care of yourself.

ETA: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=profile&uid=301673&sub=trans

I'm not going to lock it. It may be slightly Meta, but it's not outside our SOP.

Remember, the sickness lies only with him. What a pathetic thing to try and do. Do not allow the fucker to rent any space in your head. That space is too valuable and precious.

I agree with the people here who are suggesting you talk with someone in person. It helps to be able to look someone in the eyes sometimes.

I am sorry that you were the one who had to take out the garbage.

I wish there were some magic words that could lessen your pain but there aren't any.

I also wish that more people understood about triggers and the pain caused when they are pulled. Please just know that there are many of us here for you. (((hug)))