Elder-caregivers
Related: About this forumI had a post today that was posted just to blow off some steam...
And Im reading the replies...and Im tearing up man! You are all absofuckinglutely amazing. I can literally feel the love and concern you are all putting forth...and Im blessed to be part of this community. I just dont have the time to respond to each of you, but know how deeply Im affected by your words. I thank all of you for the concern, the suggestions, the advice, and the looking out for Mrs. Glam. Im crying over hear, man. And thank you all for the love that has flowed through your posts. Im forever grateful.
Sincerely,
Glam
niyad
(119,487 posts)endurance, continue your way. Huggggggs.
SWBTATTReg
(24,011 posts)Atticus
(15,124 posts)close to home. No one's experience is the same as anyone else's, but I have sorta been there done that.
This may not at all apply to your situation, but in mine, encouraging, i.e., scheduling, hydration---water consumption---helped ease the disorientation and "hallucinations" somewhat. Also, research the side effects of any med or supplement Mom is taking. In our case eliminating one gave us another year of lucidity.
Again, this may not apply to your situation but, in ours there was a period or two of attempted violence towards us. This is not that uncommon. There are actually cases of serious injuries or even death caused by a belligerent hallucinating parent.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. They---the real "they", before dementia---would want you to.
I hope something above proves helpful.
Atticus.
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littlemissmartypants
(25,114 posts)You never know when what you are experiencing is an example that strengthens others. Ain't love grand?
❤
BobTheSubgenius
(11,769 posts)In any case, I'm happy for you and Mrs. Glam.
ShazzieB
(18,510 posts)I did not see the earlier post, but I also offer my sympathy and positive vibes. I'll throw in a prayer or two as well. Also this...
BobTheSubgenius
(11,769 posts)There are layers to those cartoon stories.