At this point you know how difficult this is but your being there for him and for your ex-mother in law will help them so much. I wish there was more, but I am sending healing thoughts your way.

Best wishes to you in what you are dealing with and have dealt with. Losing my mother and then my father in a short period of time is by far the two most difficult events in my life so far. In both events Hospice was there to help both them and me. There is not enough money or accolades I could give or say about Hospice. I do not know how I would have made it thru those difficult times with out them. There guidance and understanding was invaluable to me. I hope your experience is the same. They are a world class organization IMO.

Best wishes to you.
Sincerely.
Fellow DU’er.

Hospice creates a bridge between loss and grief that is as much for the bereaved as for the patient. I hope your ex-FIL passes gently, Gothmog. ❤

My ex father in law has not eaten or been able to drink since Tuesday. Tonight his blood pressure was 78 over 42 which is slightly higher than last night. To me it seemed like he was having a slightly harder time breathing tonight compared to last night. I am so glad that he at the Hospice

My middle child complained to both her grandmother and me that we need to bring healthier food. My ex mother in law asked for Whataburger breakfast sandwiches and I got her what she wanted

The nurse again told us that my ex father in law could pass at any time

I am exhausted