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Jarqui

(10,876 posts)
26. I'm largely on side but I have mixed feelings
Tue Feb 14, 2023, 11:13 PM
Feb 2023

The first school shooting that really got to me was Univ of Texas 1966, 18 dead, 31 wounded.
I think that is the 3rd highest death total (behind Virginia Tech and Newtown) and second highest total for dead and wounded in school shootings. It was at a time when we were still pretty rattled about JFK's assassination and other issues.

That shooting scarred me. It has stuck with me. It was the first time I couldn't fathom how someone could do such a thing. It made no sense.

That was nearly 57 years ago. Think about that. 57 years ago. Michigan shootings yesterday ...

It hasn't got any easier. This is a lovely 18 year Virginia Tech victim that really got to me

A dancer - a human butterfly - blown away. Her family is still in agony 15 years later.

Those beautiful little kids in Newtown. Takes your breath away. Speechless.

I'm results oriented. You can make all the effort in the world. But if you fail, you fail. The continued carnage of students in such shootings is a blatant, ugly reminder of failure: of falling short. Tonight, I am sick with anguish for the parents, family and friends of those poor Michigan students killed or wounded last night. If that was one of my daughters, I would be inconsolable forever. I know that.

How else can one put it: obviously, we haven't done enough. I don't feel very good about that.
I have been having similar feelings for the unarmed black kids getting shot in the back by police.
We're not making very good progress on these issues in terms of the results.

Am I giving up? NEVER! Is the wind out of my sails tonight? It sure is.

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that earned a heart. N/t gay texan Feb 2023 #1
It makes me nuts when people are all "Nothing will work". Maraya1969 Feb 2023 #2
In my red union shop the gun nuts are rampant hydrolastic Feb 2023 #7
I have never said "nothing will work" brooklynite Feb 2023 #8
In my lifetime, they said the same thing about gay marriage. old as dirt Feb 2023 #10
The Constitution doesn't say anything about marriage; it DOES say something about firearms... brooklynite Feb 2023 #16
Bowers v Hardwick (nt) old as dirt Feb 2023 #17
The Constitution means what somebody says it does. AndyS Feb 2023 #12
"we need to change who interprets it" brooklynite Feb 2023 #23
Yes. THIS. hlthe2b Feb 2023 #35
Your comments abiut SCOTUS are spot on! Grumpy Old Guy Feb 2023 #41
Exactly this. Glaisne Feb 2023 #52
Amen. MontanaMama Feb 2023 #3
I love your post, too, MM. JudyM Feb 2023 #63
Yes! MontanaMama Feb 2023 #71
Thank you. crickets Feb 2023 #4
Nice. Succinct. Compelling. Easterncedar Feb 2023 #5
You know where I am on this, Andy. Because of you . . . CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2023 #6
When MADD got started, it wasn't going to "work" gratuitous Feb 2023 #9
+1 betsuni Feb 2023 #18
Thanks, gratuitous. That's a great example. nt crickets Feb 2023 #19
You make an important point. CTyankee Feb 2023 #39
Drunk drivers didn't have a lobbying group News Junkie Feb 2023 #64
No, but there is a liquor lobby. Mr.Bill Feb 2023 #67
LOL DENVERPOPS Feb 2023 #69
It has to change The Blue Flower Feb 2023 #11
I'm so old I remember when there was an assault weapon ban in this country. Pobeka Feb 2023 #13
+1 llmart Feb 2023 #15
Yep. Same here. Sad to say. calimary Feb 2023 #47
I'm so old I remember when an assault rifle was one that could go from semi to fully automatic. Ligyron Feb 2023 #73
I stand with you on that. llmart Feb 2023 #14
Time was.. Permanut Feb 2023 #20
Thank you for this reminder, AndyS Hekate Feb 2023 #21
Right there with you, Andy. Had a glock pointed 3 inches from my chest 10 yrs ago. ancianita Feb 2023 #22
I hope this doesn't sound negative... rubbersole Feb 2023 #24
"take the advice of your mother. If you can't say something nice and supportive just STFU." LudwigPastorius Feb 2023 #25
I'm largely on side but I have mixed feelings Jarqui Feb 2023 #26
I am with you... Trueblue Texan Feb 2023 #27
All I know, beyond all the horrific events, is that Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2023 #28
My grandson is alive, walking & talking, miraculously duhneece Feb 2023 #29
I can say nothing more important than what you just conveyed. hlthe2b Feb 2023 #34
And my story, without the miracles, is far too common duhneece Feb 2023 #38
I expect you get and deserve a good bit of support. BootinUp Feb 2023 #30
Never give up. summer_in_TX Feb 2023 #31
K&R betsuni Feb 2023 #32
I would never tell you that. My perspective dates to 24/7 coverage of Columbine, a few miles away hlthe2b Feb 2023 #33
Preach, brother HAB911 Feb 2023 #36
Huge K&R. n/t OneGrassRoot Feb 2023 #37
K&R pandr32 Feb 2023 #40
K&R - Good post AndyS. c-rational Feb 2023 #42
I agree. Good post. nt jrthin Feb 2023 #43
Thank you Wild blueberry Feb 2023 #44
So In Other Words, RobinA Feb 2023 #45
Total capitulation is not discussion and I assure there is not a fucking thing AndyS Feb 2023 #46
Happy talk? Evidently I am missing something. Butterflylady Feb 2023 #48
SCOTUS has made America exponentially much more dangerous due to Bruen. NJ uses to have very strict Pepsidog Feb 2023 #49
some people have opinions you won't like treestar Feb 2023 #50
Irritating know it all posts are the norm Tumbulu Feb 2023 #51
maybe but whaddya do when someone treestar Feb 2023 #58
The author can deal with them Tumbulu Feb 2023 #74
why would the motive be hassling for fun? treestar Feb 2023 #76
I can tell them what I think of their obstruction and collaboration AndyS Feb 2023 #55
that's right treestar Feb 2023 #59
Surely you recognize that we're playing defense on this issue, maxsolomon Feb 2023 #53
Money yes, momentum no. AndyS Feb 2023 #54
What you call 'support' is more likely despair. maxsolomon Feb 2023 #56
We agree on the difficulty. AndyS Feb 2023 #60
maybe they do really feel that way treestar Feb 2023 #61
Given that not a single mass shooting seems to dampen the enthusiasm for guns, PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2023 #57
Yep. Some people have so little imagination treestar Feb 2023 #62
Exactly DENVERPOPS Feb 2023 #70
So even just the car helped them see treestar Feb 2023 #77
Thank you for your post DENVERPOPS Feb 2023 #80
I agree, but not without Mr.Bill Feb 2023 #68
Of course. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2023 #72
Of course, though at this point, they treestar Feb 2023 #78
Thank you for your post DENVERPOPS Feb 2023 #81
I can see where this would feel crazy. I don't have that going on but still feel despondent JudyM Feb 2023 #65
The future has one thing going for it genxlib Feb 2023 #66
I agree Tumbulu Feb 2023 #75
Yes. The fire drills and civil defense drills treestar Feb 2023 #79
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