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haele

(13,184 posts)
23. I have been Mom to....
Tue Jul 23, 2024, 12:15 PM
Jul 23

Six cats, one dog, two cockatiels, one stepdaughter, two of her friends who didn't have moms, and Grandma to stepdaughters's two girls and one of stepdaughters's friend's daughter.

My parents only had two "born" kids and around three other kids that called them Mom and Dad while we were growing up.

Taking in Tweens/Teenagers from troubled (or no) homes who wander home with the kidlet looking for a family to feel safe with and help them grow up is harder than raising your own. Especially when it's unofficial and there's no safety net or legal protection should something go wrong.
About fifteen years ago, there was a six month period where our front room was a bedroom, there was a tent in the back yard, and we were feeding three or four youngsters on a daily basis, even though we were officially renting as a family of three. But - it's the Future for them.
And being invited to a Concert, Graduation, Wedding, or Christening as Family is pretty awesome.

Haele

i'm seeing in the xitter that the swifties r activating. mopinko Jul 23 #1
Maybe she will perform at DNC:))) ALBliberal Jul 23 #2
i hope so. mopinko Jul 23 #3
ALBliberal............. Upthevibe Jul 23 #11
It's hard to fathom! We have the best talent ALBliberal Jul 23 #13
Think she Rebl2 Jul 23 #18
Pretty sure if she could edisdead Jul 23 #32
J.D. just doesn't get it... GainesT1958 Jul 23 #4
Childless... 2naSalit Jul 23 #5
If they only picked a fight with... sanduca Jul 23 #6
I have two daughter in laws, both childless cat ladies, and they both say fuck off vance. Canoe52 Jul 23 #7
Falls flat kwolf68 Jul 23 #8
all pets are family. dont ya know . AllaN01Bear Jul 23 #9
As JD silently shrinks to the corner. oasis Jul 23 #10
VP Harris isn't childless. She has stepchildren that she loves. Ilsa Jul 23 #12
They call her "Mamala". rubbersole Jul 23 #22
Ha! I love this! Joinfortmill Jul 23 #14
Vance has such a loser. Just goes through the motions for his MAGA cultists. I don't think he really believes anything Martin68 Jul 23 #15
I have 3 Americanme Jul 23 #16
Lots of young folks are intentionally child-free. MontanaMama Jul 23 #26
I'll help solve the issues! Nimble_Idea Jul 23 #17
As I understand it, childless means someone wanted... 3catwoman3 Jul 23 #19
She IS a genuine cat-lady: Dave Bowman Jul 23 #20
Not to be catty about it, Disaffected Jul 23 #21
That's her thing. MontanaMama Jul 23 #27
That's her thing MaryMagdaline Jul 23 #29
Wasn't just referring to Taylor Swift but Disaffected Jul 23 #31
Yes to that! MaryMagdaline Jul 23 #33
Well Rebl2 Jul 23 #36
I have been Mom to.... haele Jul 23 #23
That's so great Haele! Conservatives don't understand a life well lived. MaryMagdaline Jul 23 #34
I am a PROUD cat Grandma! joanbarnes Jul 23 #24
Mika's cat trolls J.D. Vance on MSNBC after comments about 'childless women' LetMyPeopleVote Jul 23 #25
Why did J D claim that Pete is childless? Crunchy Frog Jul 23 #37
Gee, she looks pretty content to me. Raven123 Jul 23 #28
Man has serious issues MaryMagdaline Jul 23 #30
I predict a short political career for him FakeNoose Jul 23 #38
I think JD Vance is just jealous alarimer Jul 23 #35
Nailed it! MaryMagdaline Jul 23 #39
may I ask Skittles Jul 23 #40
Not that I'm a total fanboy (not that there would be anything wrong with that), but I looked it up for you Emrys Jul 23 #41
nice Skittles Jul 23 #42
Love these pics! Go Taylor! liberalla Jul 24 #43
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