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Bo Zarts

(25,774 posts)
26. I am numb for similar reasons ..
Thu Nov 7, 2024, 04:36 PM
Nov 7

On the Friday before the election my youngest brother died, unexpectedly. He was fourteen years younger than me, and leaves behind a partner who suffers from profound dementia .. possibly FTD .. and who has no one else in the world. My brother was a medical doctor, but the circumstances of his death include his refusal to seek medical treatment during a three week long illness. This is the first time I have brought this up on DU, because I am so totally devastated. I will post more after we get the results of the autopsy, which is required in the state where he died.

Then on election day night I called one of my best friends to tell him about my brother's death, and find out my friend has pancreatic cancer. It was almost too much to bear.

I am reminded of the first line of "The Good Soldier" by the English novelist Ford Madox Ford: "This is the saddest story I have ever heard."

Peace,
Bo

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Four Daze [View all] H2O Man Nov 7 OP
I'm so sorry for your losses. yardwork Nov 7 #1
Thanks! H2O Man Nov 7 #3
So sorry about your losses. Passages Nov 7 #2
Thanks. H2O Man Nov 7 #5
Thank you for this H2O Man Docreed2003 Nov 7 #4
Right! H2O Man Nov 7 #7
I think that's the best advice for all of us! Docreed2003 Nov 7 #17
So much grief Easterncedar Nov 7 #6
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 7 #9
I am not polite company (smiley winky emoji) Easterncedar Nov 7 #32
Deepest sympathy my friend malaise Nov 7 #8
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 7 #10
Must be even worse for you malaise Nov 7 #11
I had a H2O Man Nov 7 #16
These are difficult times, indeed. colorado_ufo Nov 7 #12
Thanks! H2O Man Nov 7 #13
The secret may be that the votes were hacked for Trump. Who knows, other than that Republicans always cheat. Lonestarblue Nov 7 #18
So sorry for all of your losses Faux pas Nov 7 #14
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 7 #23
Thanks for asking Faux pas Nov 7 #27
Be well, Water Man Wild blueberry Nov 7 #15
I'm so sorry to learn of your personal losses, so difficult on their own. Bumbles Nov 7 #19
A very tragic week for you. I am so sorry for you H2O Man. Fla Dem Nov 7 #20
Take care of yourself H20 Man and heal. iluvtennis Nov 7 #21
Well, Bud, they say the portal to enlightenment is guarded by Paradox and Illusion or something...... jaxexpat Nov 7 #22
I am so sorry about the losses you and yours have suffered. Kid Berwyn Nov 7 #24
Right there with you MustLoveBeagles Nov 7 #25
I am numb for similar reasons .. Bo Zarts Nov 7 #26
I am so sorry for your losses H2O Man. The tragedy livetohike Nov 7 #28
So sorry haele Nov 7 #29
The older I get the fewer people in my life. multigraincracker Nov 7 #30
Life can be so damn hard... stillcool Nov 7 #31
Four Daze indeed. Please accept my condolences on all of your personal niyad Nov 7 #33
First... 2naSalit Nov 7 #34
I am looking for volunteer opportunities Saoirse9 Nov 8 #35
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