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planetc

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7. My suggestion is for all men who think they're not sexist ...
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 11:49 AM
Nov 2024

to read a book by a feminist. I'm sorry that my reading list is out of date, but try Betty Friedan, Germaine Greer, and Susan Brownmiller. My observation is that there are a lot of fair minded guys out there who think of themselves as sympathetic to feminism, but who have actually never done the reading that would alert them to the insidious ways patriarchal attitudes invade everything. By everything, I mean all the great institutions of civilized society: religion, the law, government, science, higher education, and cultural norms. Not only are these institutions still mostly in patriarchal hands, but they have been for centuries. I think women could use some male help in untangling underlying attitudes from present and future practice in a number of areas. What I'm saying is that we have been letting women take the lead in de-patriarchizing everything, and men would be very welcome in helping women leaders.

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I second that motion. -nt CrispyQ Nov 2024 #1
Notice the lack of recs here. Even after it gave us that murderous bastard, onecaliberal Nov 2024 #2
nothing here to garner any stopdiggin Nov 2024 #4
While sympathetic to the sentiment I can't rec the OP because it offers no analysis, insight, or inspiration Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2024 #6
Disagree AltairIV Nov 2024 #13
Exactly - Nigrum Cattus Nov 2024 #30
It's self explanatory oldtime dfl_er Nov 2024 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2024 #9
Everyone knows what the patriarchy is. If not they should find out. Women better get a fucking clue, fast. onecaliberal Nov 2024 #11
This woman has more "than a clue" whathehell Nov 2024 #18
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2024 #44
I need the world to stop acting like women are possessions, prizes or objects to abuse, onecaliberal Nov 2024 #47
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Nov 2024 #48
2:45 AM, 11/20/24 - I just saw this & rec'd #135 electric_blue68 Nov 2024 #45
DURec leftstreet Nov 2024 #3
Hear hear MustLoveBeagles Nov 2024 #5
My suggestion is for all men who think they're not sexist ... planetc Nov 2024 #7
Susan Faludi's JustAnotherGen Nov 2024 #15
It's a truly great book. I wish she would update it and publish it again. Nt spooky3 Nov 2024 #16
I'm having my husband read it JustAnotherGen Nov 2024 #22
I gave the book to my sexist boss in the 90s. Of course, spooky3 Nov 2024 #23
Didn't Germaine Greer get canceled in the UK because she's anti trans? BannonsLiver Nov 2024 #28
She may have been cancelled; she may have made anti-trans comments ... planetc Nov 2024 #35
On the left as well endless summer Nov 2024 #38
Amen to that! LoisB Nov 2024 #8
Ok jalan48 Nov 2024 #10
Yup ismnotwasm Nov 2024 #12
I went to a Kamala Harris rally barbtries Nov 2024 #14
That's okay! You look good in that crowd! calimary Nov 2024 #20
that wasn't me! barbtries Nov 2024 #32
Meaningless barking at the moon. Loten70747 Nov 2024 #17
Welcome to DU. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2024 #19
I can say 'fuck the patriarchy' markie Nov 2024 #21
Fuck the patriarchy. Quiet Em Nov 2024 #24
Not only his voters, clearly. onecaliberal Nov 2024 #29
Hmm, I don't know. We could try it and see. SharonAnn Nov 2024 #25
Protecting Human Rights (Yes, women are human!) whathehell Nov 2024 #26
I see history isn't your strong suit necessarily ismnotwasm Nov 2024 #27
Did you just come here to attack women TBF Nov 2024 #34
Useful is prone to subjective translation I guess. Loten70747 Nov 2024 #39
Meaningless? Lulu KC Nov 2024 #36
Okay, Fuck capitalism too. It is the preferred economic system of patriarchy, after all. eom planetc Nov 2024 #37
Nice try.... Aunt Lydia mercuryblues Nov 2024 #41
Uh huh... onecaliberal Nov 2024 #43
Fuck The Patriarchy gab13by13 Nov 2024 #33
Fuck the patriarchy SilasSouleII Nov 2024 #40
Fuck the patriarchy. love_katz Nov 2024 #42
Agreed DemonGoddess Nov 2024 #46
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