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PeaceWave

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33. I have occasionally thought about the teachers I had whom I suspect were closeted.
Tue Nov 19, 2024, 05:40 PM
Nov 2024

In those days, no way in hell could a teacher be openly gay. Among the parents, there would have been pandemonium in the streets. As a kid, I knew something was a little different about three teachers in particular. All three were good teachers in whose classes I excelled. One was my male home room teacher in 6th grade down in Los Angeles. For some reason, he suggested that I read a Judy Blume book. I think he could tell that I was a really sheltered kid and was ripe to be made fun of since I didn't know squat about sex. In my 11 year old mind though, that book was the most scandalous incendiary smut imaginable. After finishing the book, I never really trusted that teacher. I knew there were mysteries yet to be discovered and I didn't appreciate someone else choosing which doors I opened and when I did so. Three years later, when I was 14 and living in Central Pennsylvania, in a little town called Bloomsburg, I'm fairly sure that my Spanish and General Science teachers were gay. At the time, I didn't think of it in those terms. I just knew that one seemed a little too meticulously put together and the other one seemed a little over the top in his praise of my test scores. Anyway, looking back, I feel sorry for those three guys (even the one who tried to corrupt me with Judy Blume prose). They should have been able to live their true selves. As kids, I don't think we'd have given a shit. All that mattered back then was whether we had a quarter in our pocket to hit the Galaga machine at the arcade after school. Sucker arcade operators. On a good day, we could make that quarter go a loooooong ways. So, in summation, I would say that (1) all teachers have the potential to rock, regardless of whether they are straight, gay or any shade in between, (2) kids know what's going on, and they see and feel things in a way we no longer can once we grow up and (3) Judy Blume is a temptress who probably owes me some money in therapy bills I've paid over the years.

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K&R. n/t FSogol Nov 2024 #1
Another K&R underpants Nov 2024 #2
Vote with your eyes. Quislings are dangerous. Don't support them. Don't watch them. Scrivener7 Nov 2024 #3
I had been watching them in the morning and listening on my trip to work dsc Nov 2024 #4
Yes. I'm looking for ways to keep my mind Scrivener7 Nov 2024 #5
Yea I have been consuming less news anyway dsc Nov 2024 #6
Michigan? Johnny2X2X Nov 2024 #7
North Carolina dsc Nov 2024 #8
I have a niece who has a similar story Johnny2X2X Nov 2024 #10
I haven't heard that in a few years dsc Nov 2024 #15
Relay this to her azureblue Nov 2024 #29
Ezekiel 16:49 markodochartaigh Nov 2024 #31
Sounds amazing... SidDithers Nov 2024 #16
I am really pissed at the way they are treating our new congresswoman Sarah McBride Walleye Nov 2024 #9
Nancy Mace is an utter disgrace dsc Nov 2024 #14
they are insulting every decent person in America Skittles Nov 2024 #20
And millions of Americans are supporting them in their hatred Walleye Nov 2024 #22
yes they have certainly outed themselves Skittles Nov 2024 #23
I think it is part of their hatred for women Walleye Nov 2024 #24
correct, homophobia and transphobia are rooted in misogyny Skittles Nov 2024 #25
Well said. Permanut Nov 2024 #35
DU Rec...nt SidDithers Nov 2024 #11
Damn, I thought you lived in Durham or CH for some reason obamanut2012 Nov 2024 #12
I used to live in Raleigh right by Knightdale dsc Nov 2024 #13
I'm in enigmania Nov 2024 #21
Yeah it is a very conservative county dsc Nov 2024 #26
Interact with your students' parents and as many people as you can. surfered Nov 2024 #17
That is true dsc Nov 2024 #18
FWIW if you are open to moving, there are opportunities in other countries. JT45242 Nov 2024 #19
I have a college friend mnhtnbb Nov 2024 #27
Brave are the people that does something about it..... The Grand Illuminist Nov 2024 #28
So well said. bronxiteforever Nov 2024 #30
My Sister was an openly gay teacher.. Permanut Nov 2024 #32
I have occasionally thought about the teachers I had whom I suspect were closeted. PeaceWave Nov 2024 #33
Beautiful post. Inspiring even. N/T Mike 03 Nov 2024 #34
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