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Beachnutt

(8,179 posts) Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:27 AM Nov 30

I skipped thanksgiving with my maga family [View all]

Now they are texting me with pictures and trying to coax me into corresponding with them, I wrote back that they looked nice and I was busy thanksgiving day.
They all shut me down back when the conman came down the escalator, they flat refused to hear truth and basically told me to shut up about it and now they voted the con back in and voted against all things good and voted for evil.
I have a big family and every single one of them are brainwashed "christians".
I still love them and have asked them to let's sit down and discuss the issues but they flat refuse to so I stay away and keep quiet.
I don't want to ignore them and would like to engage in family with them but I just cannot until we have a talk.
Their smiles disgust me at this point.
If they only knew the truth would they have voted differently ?
I guess I'll never know.
I miss my family.

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I skipped thanksgiving with my maga family [View all] Beachnutt Nov 30 OP

Free speech for themselves. And your free speech, if allowed, is boston bean Nov 30 #1

Thank you for the advice, Beachnutt Nov 30 #5

I get it. They are very rude and demanding and if you don't give into it, they feel attacked and aggrieved. boston bean Nov 30 #85

Talking with these people is impossible. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #2

The hate unifies them. Has worked for every authoritarian. Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #28

Yes fascist leaders go directly to the dark underbelly of human nature. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #32

4 decades of Limbaugh and his spawn, then Faux News have had their desired effect. Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #43

Yes the Newt Gingrich types harassing and stalking the Clintons. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #59

I think this is true. yardwork Dec 1 #90

sadly, yes. Started with Limbaugh in late 80's; copycats and Fox have amplified. Armed Services Radio too. Evolve Dammit Dec 1 #91

Hubby ani i did too. We did not join my sister, bro in law & 4 adult nephews and niece Trueblue1968 Nov 30 #79

I got rid of all my MAGA back in 2016. Best thing I've ever done. Meadowoak Nov 30 #3

Politics wasn't even mentioned at all the entire day. jimfields33 Nov 30 #4

Politics weren't mentioned with my maga family either, thankfully. Groundhawg Nov 30 #10

same here . AllaN01Bear Nov 30 #46

Same GPV Nov 30 #48

Same here but all dems with one question mark. Prairie_Seagull Nov 30 #57

My MAGA snowybirdie Nov 30 #6

Thank you, Beachnutt Nov 30 #8

Still fighting the civil war. Sorry to hear of your family loss. The division has been re-ignited. Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #30

Just think of the money you'll save by not buying and giving them gifts! After make sure you update your will. kimbutgar Nov 30 #76

My MAGA snowybirdie Nov 30 #7

That right there is what is going on. Blue Full Moon Nov 30 #11

I would... Mike Nelson Nov 30 #9

I'm sorry PennRalphie Nov 30 #12

It is not politics. It is an outlook of stomping down people. NoRethugFriends Nov 30 #14

It must be exhausting. PennRalphie Nov 30 #17

Why such a Ursus Arctos Nov 30 #38

I admit it might be a tad snarky. PennRalphie Nov 30 #50

Do you have any gay or trans people in your life that you know of? NoRethugFriends Nov 30 #53

+1. a fairly shallow construction of 'politics' stopdiggin Nov 30 #65

Sheltered? PennRalphie Nov 30 #68

and did I also mention doubling down? stopdiggin Nov 30 #73

Good luck with the echo chamber nt PennRalphie Nov 30 #74

That's the problem. Ligyron Nov 30 #71

Then maybe PennRalphie Nov 30 #87

What are you talking about? Ligyron Dec 1 #94

What are you talking about? Ligyron Dec 1 #96

"I KNOW I'll be attacked endlessly for this..." Ursus Arctos Nov 30 #67

Yes I do ibegurpard Nov 30 #58

Nah, fuck 'em. Iggo Nov 30 #54

Sorry. But 'family' is NOT more important than any other factor on the board stopdiggin Nov 30 #63

crossposting my reply in another thread: Just because I share a few genes with someone does not mean I share ... eppur_se_muova Nov 30 #84

Comparing Meowmee Nov 30 #86

Nonsense Cirsium Dec 1 #93

When I hear complaints in the coming months, I will know how one of my adult children voted. ProudMNDemocrat Nov 30 #13

RFK, Jr. has no scientific or medical background Beck23 Nov 30 #23

I hate this idiot RFK, Jr. who seems to have lived in a vacuum. A lot of us grew up when Polio was rampaging across SWBTATTReg Nov 30 #77

BIG people lift others up. Small people try to cut others down to their own lowly stature. usonian Nov 30 #15

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They voted against my gay daughters rights, Beachnutt Nov 30 #21

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In his budget proposals for the 4 years in office Beachnutt Nov 30 #27

Felon47 has lied every day of his life. Why do you think he's not lying now. GoneOffShore Nov 30 #33

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Guess what today is? GP6971 Nov 30 #39

The only women I've encountered who have difficulty with LBGTQ+ people are homophobic GoneOffShore Nov 30 #41

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Right.... Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #45

Jesus Christ on a trailer hitch, you really have not been paying attention to the orange man, have you? Hekate Nov 30 #51

Sounds reasonable to me. Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #34

Welcome to DU - Enjoy your stay. GoneOffShore Nov 30 #35

We're not having talks. I'm not going to make nice with people trying to kill us. onecaliberal Nov 30 #18

So did I. They don't live near me but no holiday Zoom call or texting. CousinIT Nov 30 #19

I have too many DeepWinter Nov 30 #20

I draw a line DFW Nov 30 #26

That sounds good Farmer-Rick Nov 30 #29

I wouldn't tolerate for 3 minutes. But that's me. No use for them. They are willfully ignorant and proud of of it. Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #40

Are they anti-vaxxers? Beck23 Nov 30 #22

That's another point, Beachnutt Nov 30 #24

That's very sad. sellitman Nov 30 #31

they flat refused to hear truth and basically told me to shut up magasnightmare Nov 30 #36

That's helpful..... Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #42

nah. I kind of came away with a little bit of that from the OP too ... stopdiggin Nov 30 #72

I have never been in their face at all Beachnutt Nov 30 #47

I see your little friend is gone, poof Hekate Nov 30 #64

Family is overrated Aviation Pro Nov 30 #44

+100. almost deified in some instances. it's a misguided and limiting stopdiggin Nov 30 #69

Family can be toxic. You have to find your OWN peace. 634-5789 Nov 30 #49

They want you to accept them as they are. Raven123 Nov 30 #52

There is a very useful post on DU titled "Found on Facebook: Never Say His Name" Trust_Reality Nov 30 #55

I'll never understand how people who call themselves Christians can support Trump. Vinca Nov 30 #56

Try to Stay in Communication with the Other Side Grumpy Old Woman Nov 30 #60

Time to cut them out sakabatou Nov 30 #61

I miss the IDEA of former friends and family ibegurpard Nov 30 #62

My Son and DIL have taken over. True Blue American Nov 30 #66

They are not going to change Kaleva Nov 30 #70

How did you turn out right? Dem4life1234 Nov 30 #78

If they are anything like my related Magas Hope22 Nov 30 #80

Haven't had Thanksgiving with family since 2015. Xolodno Nov 30 #81

Sorry that must be a hard place to be Meowmee Nov 30 #82

They are toxic and always will be. NameAlreadyTaken Nov 30 #83

Respectfully, why tiptoe for them. Mike Niendorff Dec 1 #88

Excellent advice for me Beachnutt Dec 1 #89

I skipped TG with my sister and her kids tonekat Dec 1 #92

I'm so sorry! redwitch Dec 1 #95