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In reply to the discussion: The results are trickling in: Why people voted Trump, in their own words. [View all]ShazzieB
(18,925 posts)Neither of us is required to agree with the other. Every individual has the right to feel however they feel, 100%! I am sorry if it sounded like I was telling you or anyone else how to feel, because I hate it when people do that!
I was reacting to the phrase "shame on all of us," because I took it to imply that all of us are somehow to blame for this mess. To me, being ashamed of something implies I am taking accountability for it. As much as I deplore Trump winning the election, I don't feel ashsmed, because the outcome was not under my personal control.
I now realize that is probably just my own idiosyncratic understanding of the word "ashamed," and not necessary the definition everyone uses. I'm sorry that didn't occur to me when I was writing that post.
You go ahead and feel however you feel! Sorry for any misunderstanding.