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applegrove

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17. Went to visit my grandmother's family in the old villages
Sat Dec 28, 2024, 10:08 PM
Dec 2024

Last edited Sun Dec 29, 2024, 01:26 AM - Edit history (2)

in Pictou County, Nova Scotia. My grandmother was in her late 80s. She had been a farmer, a country doctor's wife and a nurse. People put on at 'At Home' for her where everyone in the community came to say hi. It was like a tea we thought. So my sister and I put on our best cocktail/tea dresses with flowers on them. We had on fancy "flats" shoes. There was some time before the event so my sister and I decided to go for a walk along the rural highway..... like a couple of urban idiots from a yuppie family. One of my grandmother's nieces recognized it must be us on the highway and got us to come into their house to meet 2nd cousins. They were lovely. Interested if we were in university. We tried to figure out the four generations in their family. Then we went to the 'At Home'. We were so overdressed. People were lovely and adored my grandmother. Most of them were delivered by my grandfather, a country doctor. Basically fashion and formal dress is a con meant to sell new clothes every year. There is something called the colour lobby that changes the colour of cars and household appliances every year, just like the designers in fashion. It is a way to make money. The people we met that day looked great without any of the high tea fashion my sister and I indulged in. They were better than all our nonsense.

That being said I love fashion. I loved watching Sex and The City and fashion runway shows. Some fashion truly is art.

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Carlsen used that as an excuse. drray23 Dec 2024 #1
You have an axe to grind with the greatest chess player to ever walk the planet? PeaceWave Dec 2024 #15
Ambivalent ProfessorGAC Dec 2024 #2
ludicrous dsc Dec 2024 #3
They make the rules. Doesn't matter how great they look. jimfields33 Dec 2024 #43
and it took them not one, or two, or three, but eight rounds to figure that out dsc Dec 2024 #48
I agree. They should have disqualified him upon arrival. jimfields33 Dec 2024 #49
They look horrible Mosby Jan 2025 #71
There was a female chess master who refused to play in Saudi Arabia Arazi Dec 2024 #4
She did the right thing by dropping out. jimfields33 Dec 2024 #44
Or they could drop the outdated dress code Arazi Dec 2024 #52
Just follow the Golden Rule. He who has the gold, rules. Wonder Why Dec 2024 #5
They're not reasonable all across the board. But I wish more high-end restaurants Aristus Dec 2024 #6
I'm with you there . . . Journeyman Dec 2024 #7
In all of the years of my childhood, back when smoking was permitted in restaurants Aristus Dec 2024 #8
Why do you care what other people wear? wackadoo wabbit Dec 2024 #20
I'm not sure I agree 100%. Atmosphere counts for a lot on a night out. Aristus Dec 2024 #23
Making Intrusive sounds is very different than Ms. Toad Dec 2024 #46
Breasts, butt cracks, genitals, and underwear are your bridges too far. Aristus Dec 2024 #51
Backwards baseball caps Lulu KC Dec 2024 #32
I hate the fact that I'm becoming the kind of cranky old guy I never wanted to be. Aristus Dec 2024 #60
There are times & places where it's just respectful to take a bit of care with your dress & appearance CrispyQ Dec 2024 #57
going to court Skittles Jan 2025 #63
We recently went to Les Grands Buffets, in Narbonne. A restaurant dedicated to Escoffier's recipes GoneOffShore Jan 2025 #72
You cannot fail, tastefully, by overdressing. cachukis Dec 2024 #9
or by misspelling the word. PeaceWave Dec 2024 #10
Thanks. I stand corrected. cachukis Dec 2024 #13
"Beware of any enterprise the requires new clothes." - Henry David Thoreau N/T lapucelle Dec 2024 #11
Said the guy who demonstrated his embrace of the simple life Aristus Dec 2024 #24
Is the part about the laundry true? lapucelle Dec 2024 #25
Laundry AND brought meals! Lulu KC Dec 2024 #33
Thoreau seems to have a lot in common with modern RW keyboard warriors. lapucelle Dec 2024 #37
I had a similar conversation just yesterday. SharonClark Dec 2024 #12
Every retail worker gets a lot of leeway from me right now Arazi Dec 2024 #14
Minimum wage begets minimum effort. Mariana Dec 2024 #16
Actually, I think Target pays decently Lulu KC Dec 2024 #34
"Nickel and Dimed" by Barbara Ehrenreich CrispyQ Dec 2024 #58
She may be one of the homeless working poor. Lars39 Dec 2024 #29
Went to visit my grandmother's family in the old villages applegrove Dec 2024 #17
... Kelen Dec 2024 #18
What I find really stupid is that Men and Women compete separately in major Chess tournaments MichMan Dec 2024 #19
It's because men's egos can't handle... WestMichRad Dec 2024 #53
Man, I remember getting whupped by a 12 year old girl (best friend's little sister) The Mouth Jan 2025 #62
Opportunities Johnny2X2X Jan 2025 #73
Sorry, if they aren't skilled enough to compete then they need to try harder. MichMan Jan 2025 #74
This message was self-deleted by its author Iggo Dec 2024 #21
That is "dressed up" for a 34 year old. yardwork Dec 2024 #22
Men in tight clothes Freddie Dec 2024 #30
Agreed! Lulu KC Dec 2024 #35
It's been like that for almost ten years. yardwork Dec 2024 #38
Yes! Lulu KC Dec 2024 #40
Kids these days! yardwork Dec 2024 #45
Our Board of Elections finally decided poll workers can wear jeans Maeve Dec 2024 #26
Accept it - MAGA has driven us back to the 1950s - it is more obvious every day. walkingman Dec 2024 #27
Gender ZDU Dec 2024 #28
Casual Friday bucolic_frolic Dec 2024 #31
And piercings all over the face! IL Dem Dec 2024 #39
This does seem ridiculous BUT Lulu KC Dec 2024 #36
It's not just the jacket, Abolishinist Jan 2025 #64
Yes--and while we're on it-- Lulu KC Jan 2025 #67
I played a *lot* of competitive Chess as a high school kid lapfog_1 Dec 2024 #41
Dress codes are stupid Jilly_in_VA Dec 2024 #42
Color coding all the staff reminds me of Brave New World. yardwork Dec 2024 #47
"No Blue Jeans in the Rainbow Room!" - How I broke the dress code. MineralMan Dec 2024 #50
Seems counter-productive..... getagrip_already Dec 2024 #54
Someone should make dress pants with blue denim. WestMichRad Dec 2024 #55
Next year he should wear a skirt and top, pantsuit, or bridal gown. CoopersDad Dec 2024 #56
Irish fighter Conor McGregor's pinstripe suit MichMan Dec 2024 #59
Yep, same problem as mentioned earlier. It looks like it shrunk in the dryer. JustABozoOnThisBus Dec 2024 #61
You mean rapist and abuser obamanut2012 Jan 2025 #69
I want a pair of the shoes that can be seen at :33 Abolishinist Jan 2025 #65
Mostly they're snobby. alarimer Jan 2025 #66
How did he not know the rules? Patton French Jan 2025 #68
Americans are the most sloppily dressed people in the world. BannonsLiver Jan 2025 #70
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