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MaryMagdaline

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80. My fear is that if I don't keep my weight down I won't get proper care in a nursing home

Reply to EX500rider (Reply #51)

Tue Dec 31, 2024, 07:42 AM

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No one likes to take care of heavy people. I believe they are more likely to be neglected.

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In Some Doctors' Offices, the Weigh-In Is No Longer Required - routine weight measurements drive away some patients [View all] BlueWaveNeverEnd Monday OP

I'm sure people will criticize this new approach Johnny2X2X Monday #1

I'm an Insurance Underwriter DeepWinter Monday #2

Bingo! PJMcK Monday #4

It's not that simplistic crimycarny Monday #67

Weight is really about sugar bucolic_frolic Monday #3

huh? Skittles Monday #32

Weight is about carbs which is what the SAD (Standard American Diet) is all about. elocs Monday #35

That's great! I can relate to that weight loss. There are a lot of names for metabolic syndrome bucolic_frolic Monday #36

Metabolic syndrome is measured by a blood test iemanja Tuesday #73

Same with me Mossfern Monday #48

I just eat anything I want, just not ALL that I want Skittles Monday #58

This is the way. Unladen Swallow Monday #62

I've always dreaded the weigh in Mossfern Monday #5

I had to weigh in to get my damn finger stitched up. GoCubsGo Monday #9

It does help to calculate drug doses though, pain meds, anesthetics, etc. travelingthrulife Monday #18

No, in my situation, it was irrelevant. GoCubsGo Monday #19

In limited circumstances. Ms. Toad Monday #44

How ironic to see this thread now. I just got finished with 4 straight days of GoodRaisin Tuesday #79

I gained a bunch of weight Mossfern Tuesday #93

I think Lyrica must change your DNA somehow to cause the weight gain. GoodRaisin Tuesday #94

I understand... PCIntern Monday #6

Since weight is not a health indicator, this makes sense WhiskeyGrinder Monday #7

Science disagrees.. albacore Monday #14

BMI is not weight; it's an outdated and biased formula. Weight can be a correlated indicator, but it is not a reliable WhiskeyGrinder Monday #20

Recent studies suggest that being slightly "overweight" has lower mortality spooky3 Monday #30

BMI is a useless indicator iemanja Tuesday #74

Yup, like Simone Biles and most women rugby players obamanut2012 Tuesday #96

Nope, wrong obamanut2012 Tuesday #95

And yet... EX500rider Monday #51

yeah age isn't an indicator of health either WhiskeyGrinder Monday #52

I'd saying dying earlier isn't either EX500rider Monday #54

My fear is that if I don't keep my weight down I won't get proper care in a nursing home MaryMagdaline Tuesday #80

Weight wildflowergardener Monday #8

Good. It's not like most of them do anything to remedy the situation. GoCubsGo Monday #10

Doc I see does the weight thing, mwmisses4289 Monday #11

Get them in the door, develop some trust, identify based on P&E&Labs issues of concern... hlthe2b Monday #12

If a person can't deal with reality, maybe seeing the Doc isn't a good idea. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Monday #13

Ridiculous Avalon Sparks Monday #15

Classy BannonsLiver Monday #22

Really? Elessar Zappa Monday #41

I actually think if a person can't cope with being weighed on a scale, RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Monday #47

What is "tonque"? niyad Tuesday #76

Simple typo. Need to see my 'eye' doctor, where no scales/weighing are involved in the exam! RedWhiteBlueIsRacist Tuesday #81

Your contempt is duly noted. niyad Tuesday #86

Jesus Christ obamanut2012 Tuesday #98

The battery ran down on my home scale. usonian Monday #16

Pants don't lie airplaneman Monday #31

Too many office docs are clueless what to do with that number anyway. flvegan Monday #17

I Rebl2 Monday #21

I used to care, but not any more. What really upsets me is having my b.p. taken. I see the cuff and start getting CTyankee Monday #23

Its actually a common issue that was studied. They called it the "white coat effect". drray23 Monday #61

Apart from "white coat syndrome" there is another possible factor that my FNP niyad Tuesday #77

Same here, so I take my BP every day and it's almost multigraincracker Monday #68

My Primary Care doc's staff takes my weight. maxsolomon Monday #24

Considering all they do is criticize you for it, this is good. alarimer Monday #25

Yeah because refusing to face reality drray23 Monday #26

This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Monday #34

Trying to micromanage other people's relations with their doctors Crunchy Frog Monday #37

Yeah I feel like this is a Ostrich head in the sand approach EX500rider Monday #50

I think it may be getting a little better nowadays Diamond_Dog Monday #27

Yeah, they can be more sensitive about it. However, sometimes weight is an issue (diabetes) LeftInTX Monday #45

Maybe it's a stretch but I would be willing to bet, Prairie_Seagull Monday #28

I noticed this just as I was finally having success losing weight and was Scrivener7 Monday #29

I get weighed in every three weeks Skittles Monday #33

I don't think anyone's arguing that it shouldn't be done Crunchy Frog Monday #38

seems strange for your own doctor to have to guess your weight Skittles Monday #39

The doctor is IN JoseBalow Monday #40

right? Skittles Monday #42

But apparently some people are surviving medical encounters without getting on the scale. Crunchy Frog Tuesday #71

try it with your vet Skittles Tuesday #75

Animals aren't self concious about those things, and they don't have a choice about seeing the vet. Crunchy Frog Tuesday #90

Exactly. And there are operations where morbidly obese people have more risk. LisaM Monday #55

Mixed feelings about this. I discovered that I packed on 20 pounds in a year when I saw my doctor! LeftInTX Monday #43

Hate the Weigh In DET Monday #46

I think there are a lot of good reasons to get weighed milestogo Monday #49

A couple years ago I was hospitalized and had emergency surgery questionseverything Monday #53

YMMV but it's a good habit to weigh oneself daily and it takes 5 seconds. CoopersDad Monday #56

I weight myself everyday, clothes off, when i go to the Dr's i tell them the weigh. dem4decades Monday #64

I am surprised at the amount of fat shaming in this thread. LisaM Monday #57

is thinking weigh-ins are OK "fat shaming" Skittles Monday #59

Doesn't surprise me. DU has always been like this. Crunchy Frog Tuesday #82

Ageism and sexism both (and isn't that a lovely combination!). niyad Tuesday #87

How do they calculate medication dosages Unladen Swallow Monday #60

Antibiotics generally don't need a weight...Z-pack for instance: Everyone gets the same dose. LeftInTX Monday #69

Massive changes in weight Unladen Swallow Tuesday #99

I did acute care transcription for over 15 years buzzycrumbhunger Monday #63

And people wonder why Bettie Monday #66

How about if each of us Bettie Monday #65

This is the place where bodily autonomy and medical choice are sacrosanct. Except when they're not. Crunchy Frog Tuesday #84

Well this is a helluvan unpleasant thread. I thought we here had outgrown the judgmentalism... Hekate Monday #70

Thank you for expressing so well what I suspect many are feeling. niyad Tuesday #89

Yes. You said it well. I'm hiding this thread now because it's been at the top for what feels like days Iris Tuesday #97

Whut 🤨 Blue_Tires Tuesday #72

My sister died too young because of doctor bias against obese patients. KentuckyWoman Tuesday #78

I'm sorry about your sister Bettie Tuesday #83

Exactly. LisaM Tuesday #85

You've seen what people are saying on here. Crunchy Frog Tuesday #88

I am so very sorry to hear about your sister. The horror stories about our niyad Tuesday #91

Diabetic retinopathy Bet nobody here knows GusBob Tuesday #92