General Discussion

I've been where you are.
Religion is misused by humans to do what atheists also do. Between atheists and believers there's no difference in doing evil. The difference is after that:
a) that Christians are called to repent first to their earthly neighbor, then to their God, of doing evil;
b) atheists are indifferent about making amends.

Your misunderstanding of any misuses of biblical law are not in any way the fault of the Bible or its God inspired authors.

Oppenheimer claimed to be a secular humanist.