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slightlv

(7,438 posts)
26. Men are definitely the preferred sex, especially since it's not expected they'll accommodate women's names.
Mon Mar 17, 2025, 09:15 PM
Mar 2025
Pro tip for women: If you should be divorced, I recommend changing your married name back to your maiden name to avoid difficulties.


My advice is keep your own name, period! I not only had to produce the damned marriage certificate, but the same AND the divorce papers from my first marriage. That's what I mean, women have to account for their every legal encounter with men if they do as generations have done and changed their name. If and when something happens to my hubby (whom I love with all my heart), I will never again have anything to do with men. I'm done with that whole species. AFAIC, you can't top sisterhood. I've been back and forth all my life, but I've had it with men in today's world. There's just too much danger and peril for women these days. I'm headed back to my Dianic days.

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"required to visit a field office". The ones they're SHUTTING DOWN? Pfft. nt CousinIT Mar 2025 #1
And try getting an appointment Ritabert Mar 2025 #2
The idea is that the person dies before they can get to one, it seems. nt CousinIT Mar 2025 #3
47 Social Security Administration (SSA) offices have been closed, are being consolidated, or moved ancianita Mar 2025 #4
Ironic that all states that voted for the orange hitler are getting affected! kimbutgar Mar 2025 #5
Racially targeted IbogaProject Mar 2025 #9
Undoubtedly. Under some pretext of "DEI" E.O., as if state voting laws are subject to executive orders. ancianita Mar 2025 #10
Yep Cosmocat Mar 2025 #15
In NC the cities are Elizabeth City, Roanoke Rapids, Greenville, and Franklin dsc Mar 2025 #13
One thing no one has mentioned... slightlv Mar 2025 #14
I got a Real ID in Pennsylvania even though I had no drivers license FakeNoose Mar 2025 #21
Men are definitely the preferred sex, especially since it's not expected they'll accommodate women's names. slightlv Mar 2025 #26
That's their plan Ritabert Mar 2025 #7
How many of those recipient's voted for the convicted felon ? republianmushroom Mar 2025 #6
"We didn't think he'd do it to us"MAGA Ritabert Mar 2025 #8
I turned 65 in October LittleGirl Mar 2025 #11
You don't have to have an appointment to start SS. Ms. Toad Mar 2025 #17
Do you know if it's the year you turn 70 flamingdem Mar 2025 #20
You will receive maximum benefits if you start taking them in the month you turn 70. Ms. Toad Mar 2025 #25
Good for you. What about those who are not tech savy? Gimpyknee Mar 2025 #24
It's awful. I've paid into SS since 1976 LittleGirl Mar 2025 #27
Today I Have A Need For Data From The Railroad Retirement Board DallasNE Mar 2025 #12
Social Security over paying some people is not FRAUD no matter what Eloon says..... Bengus81 Mar 2025 #16
I suspect there are a fair number of cases like my spouses - Ms. Toad Mar 2025 #18
May his children receive their inheritance soon. mwb970 Mar 2025 #19
K&R UTUSN Mar 2025 #22
My low informed MAGA sister-in-law never thought Republicans would overturn Row v Wade either. Gimpyknee Mar 2025 #23
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