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Jilly_in_VA

(14,269 posts)
1. I used to have a very favorable opinion of him
Tue Sep 30, 2025, 02:51 PM
Sep 2025

However, that's changed...BUT I think I have to qualify my vote because I think his stroke has a great deal to do with the change in his behavior. A stroke should be, but is not generally, considered to be the same as a traumatic brain injury. The results are often the same. It's just that the mechanisms are different---one is an injury that comes from an external force, and the other comes from an internal force, either a clot or a bleed. In either case, depending on the area(s) of the brain involved, a person can have quite a noticeable behavior change, and I think to a great degree that's what's happened to Fetterman. He's spoken openly about his depression since the stroke, but aides have spoken about other troubling behaviors, and apparently those were not at all in evidence prior to the stroke. I personally think he should resign, but I don't think his ego will allow him to, so unless his wife can convince him to, we're stuck.

I do have some personal experience with TBIs, as my son returned from his second tour in Iraq with one. It was undiagnosed, but with my nursing experience, I could spot it. The VA was no help at all, and he kept insisting that he was "fine" although I could see he wasn't. I couldn't convince him to see a doctor, let alone a neurologist! We finally were making some progress when he died by suicide on Dec. 29, 2015. Sometimes I wish I'd insisted on an autopsy....

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I used to have a very favorable opinion of him Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #1
I'm so sorry. Nevilledog Sep 2025 #2
I'm sorry for your loss. NameAlreadyTaken Sep 2025 #15
I am so very sorry, Jilly Grim Chieftain Sep 2025 #17
This isn't about me or my son Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #20
I understand Grim Chieftain Sep 2025 #22
It breaks my heart DiverDave Sep 2025 #24
Deepest condolences, Jilly SheltieLover Sep 2025 #26
He has morphed into CivicGrief Sep 2025 #3
He has morphed into Joe Lieberman. DemocratSinceBirth Sep 2025 #4
More favorable than unfavorable JI7 Sep 2025 #5
Unfavorable is being nice. BlueTsunami2018 Sep 2025 #6
I do not live in Pennsylvania, I donated to his campaign. I regret that donation irisblue Sep 2025 #7
I Live In PA RobinA Sep 2025 #23
What the hell happened to him? NameAlreadyTaken Sep 2025 #8
Fetterman had a bad stroke. It might have changed him. Intractable Sep 2025 #10
See my post above Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #11
No, the stroke changed him. tblue37 Sep 2025 #29
A "mixed" option would probably receive a significant number of votes. 11 Bravo Sep 2025 #9
Agreed, that would be my vote. RandomNumbers Nov 2025 #37
I think he should resign for-health-reasons and to-spend-time-with-his-family... QueerDuck Sep 2025 #12
I feel like he meant well before the stroke. Maru Kitteh Sep 2025 #13
That's a bit cruel Jilly_in_VA Sep 2025 #21
I think he used the Democratic Party and Maru Kitteh Sep 2025 #31
I folllowed him before his stroke and before his election Jilly_in_VA Oct 2025 #34
I am sad. haele Sep 2025 #14
at one time I admired him Skittles Sep 2025 #16
He's a Republican trojan horse AStern Sep 2025 #18
Fetterman needs to be replaced, just as soon as possible. Paladin Sep 2025 #19
Favorable compared to what? WarGamer Sep 2025 #25
Used to be... Mike Nelson Sep 2025 #27
Favorable before the stroke, unfavorable now. A stroke can really change a person because it damages the brain. tblue37 Sep 2025 #28
I will never understand why this wasn't a huge negative for voters. sheshe2 Sep 2025 #30
1) Dr. Oz. 2) Conor Lamb RandomNumbers Nov 2025 #38
What has he done for us? C_U_L8R Sep 2025 #32
He's not right in the head; has poli-junkie Sep 2025 #33
As a PA voter I supported Fetterman and voted for him FakeNoose Oct 2025 #35
Regretfully, had to put unfavorable mvd Oct 2025 #36
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