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cab67

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Sat Oct 25, 2025, 04:02 PM Oct 2025

Know why I may never forgive the current president? [View all]

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Our daughter, who we adopted, is of Mexican ancestry. She's in 4th grade, and we're in an area with lots of ICE activity.

We've tried to shelter her from the worst of the news, but she's fully aware of what ICE is, what ICE is doing, and the fact that people who look kind of like her are frequent targets. ICE agents have been seen in parks near her school.

This morning, my phone went off. Amber Alert - missing child. My daughter was next to me when it arrived.

She looked at me with real panic. "Was it ICE?!" she asked. She then ran off crying, worried that ICE might come for her. She wasn't play-panicking, either - she was genuinely terrified.

My daughter shouldn't have to afraid to be herself in the neighborhood. She's afraid unknown adults will come and grab her. No child should experience that.

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As ever, the cruelty is the point...nt Wounded Bear Oct 2025 #1
I am right there with you and your daughter, my dear cab67! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2025 #2
cab67 my hearts breaks for you and your daughter bronxiteforever Oct 2025 #3
Heartbreaking. I hope that the child that caused the alert was found safe and sound question everything Oct 2025 #4
I'm so sorry. Mblaze Oct 2025 #5
❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 2025 #6
My suggestion is to get your daughter a US passport FakeNoose Oct 2025 #7
Go with a passport card fujiyamasan Oct 2025 #16
Good suggestion! FakeNoose Oct 2025 #20
She has one. cab67 Oct 2025 #25
Yes, but the other way around. Keep the passport in safe place but have her carry the hi-res copy. . . .nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2025 #31
This country is NOT a good country in which to raise a child, IMO. slightlv Oct 2025 #8
tRUMP's murdered many people already wolfie001 Oct 2025 #9
Someone gonna do a Luigi. BradBo Oct 2025 #10
If there's a better definition of terror, I haven't heard it JMCKUSICK Oct 2025 #11
May? Ferrets are Cool Oct 2025 #12
I hate all of them. Prof. Toru Tanaka Oct 2025 #14
This is so freaking wrong. That anxiety could follow her forever. 1WorldHope Oct 2025 #13
I understand. It's just wonderful to wake up and replay Germany in the fucking Dark-Ages. chouchou Oct 2025 #15
Fuck those fucking ICE fuckers. 😡😠🤬 ShazzieB Oct 2025 #17
He is evil beyond words Grim Chieftain Oct 2025 #18
Despise is a very good word and a suitable replacement for "hate". Loathe is also very applicable. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2025 #32
We don't have to make-up a Monster for Halloween..We have one in the Whitehouse. chouchou Oct 2025 #19
I can't find the words, cab67. democrank Oct 2025 #21
and the most evil part is DBoon Oct 2025 #22
People like him/that are So Evil! electric_blue68 Oct 2025 #26
Please tell her that all of Democratic Underground are happy she's here elleng Oct 2025 #23
That is horrific. This is sheer terror unleashed on AMERICANS. Please give your daughter an extra hug from DU friends. Evolve Dammit Oct 2025 #24
Hug your daughter from me. Duncanpup Oct 2025 #27
i never forgave : AllaN01Bear Oct 2025 #28
Gentle hugs to your daughter, and you. So hideous to feel terrorized by ICE. electric_blue68 Oct 2025 #29
The same terror as it was for B.See Oct 2025 #30
Hugs to you and your daughter. I'm babylonsister Oct 2025 #33
That's a damned shame. No child should be afraid to go to school, play outside, go to the store LoisB Oct 2025 #34
I am stage left Oct 2025 #35
Forgive? Never LittleGirl Oct 2025 #36
I completely understand. Sailingdiver Oct 2025 #37
Hug to you, and your bonus daughter.... electric_blue68 Oct 2025 #39
Made my day Sailingdiver Oct 2025 #43
That is a feature, not a bug, in Trump's immigration "policy". 11 Bravo Oct 2025 #38
I'm so sorry, cab67 mcar Oct 2025 #40
I will NEVER LilElf70 Oct 2025 #41
Just why the f**k are there even troops in our streets vapor2 Oct 2025 #42
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