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H2O Man

(78,388 posts)
10. Very good!
Fri Nov 7, 2025, 06:06 PM
Nov 7

In a healthy society, there can be a sense of shame for anti-social behaviors. There is shunning and banishment of dangerous people. Greedy individuals are viewed as having weak character. But as you note, both sides of human nature have long existed. In our unhealthy society, too many feel no shame, the defenseless people are marginalized, and greed rules.

The good news is this can be reversed. It requires a great effort, though likely less than survival in this society if that effort is not made. There are times when my family and friends question how I remain positive that "we shall overcome." Tuesday provided part of the answer!

My younger son reads the essays I post on other internet forums. He suggested that I focus more on exactly what Douglass recommended on building strong children. At least once a week, both sons and I discuss this for hours. It doesn't require being a "perfect parent," as they do not exist. But it does involve mastering the art of reaching one's positive potential -- for both the child and parent.

Economics are not my strong point, but I do question if the current service economy allows for the level of strong family systems a society requires to be healthy.

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4GW [View all] H2O Man Nov 7 OP
Never "tedious". Always thoughtful, in-depth, yorkster Nov 7 #1
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 7 #3
Deep and wise thinking and such good writing Easterncedar Nov 7 #2
Thanks! H2O Man Nov 7 #4
"the Universe has a sense of justice tinged with irony" Martin Eden Nov 7 #5
Very good! H2O Man Nov 7 #10
THIS malaise Nov 7 #6
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You are so good. MuseRider Nov 7 #7
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"The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice" CoopersDad Nov 7 #8
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Zero Squared Kid Berwyn Nov 7 #9
This is exactly H2O Man Nov 7 #14
At all times, I am at your service, Sir. Kid Berwyn Nov 8 #19
Kicked and recommended Uncle Joe Nov 7 #15
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As always -- thanks Hekate Nov 7 #17
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Thank you for another considered, and informative post... electric_blue68 Nov 8 #20
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