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5. I agree that reaching out, in a respectful way, is the right thing to do. Like saying you recognize the

Reply to Pacifist Patriot (Original post)

Thu Nov 13, 2025, 09:01 AM

Nov 13

person is stressed and if they need help, just ask me and I'll do what I can. It does not impose on them because they can politely decline and it allows them to make the choice without pressure. It also allows you to say that what they need is beyond you but you are willing to help find the right support.

It's like the salesperson who doesn't say "Can I help you?" when you are just looking around (imposing themselves on you) but who, instead, says "If you need help, just ask. I am available." (letting you call the shots)

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Public distress is uncomfortable. I'm so thankful for the people who ignored the awkwardness. [View all] Pacifist Patriot Nov 13 OP

Hope you continue to heal. mwmisses4289 Nov 13 #1

Sounds like a journey. mountain grammy Nov 13 #2

I am so happy you MuseRider Nov 13 #3

What a good reminder deRien Nov 13 #4

I agree that reaching out, in a respectful way, is the right thing to do. Like saying you recognize the Wonder Why Nov 13 #5

Nice post malaise Nov 13 #6

I would like to think most people are kind and caring. Fla Dem Nov 13 #7

What a beautiful and uplifting post! NNadir Nov 13 #8

A friend calls helpful strangers earth angels. I've needed them and found them a time or two and thankfully done MLAA Nov 13 #9

This is such a good message. Oneironaut Nov 13 #10

Hope all is well.Yes, kindness & gratitude are highly underrated. Joinfortmill Nov 13 #11

Firstly, I am glad you are okay obamanut2012 Nov 13 #12

I hope you are healing well now 💚 Clouds Passing Nov 13 #13

Thank you for your insightful outlook, even in your distress. My son just saved a person's FailureToCommunicate Nov 13 #14

Retired medic Roy Rolling Nov 13 #15

Vibes to you for continued recovery and healing, and to all who helped you. niyad Nov 13 #16

there are good people out there . AllaN01Bear Nov 13 #17

I'm sorry for your pain and discomfort, and I hope things are getting better soon FakeNoose Nov 13 #18

My first read of the day. A wonderful reminder to pay it forward. At your worst, be a human being among humans being. mjvpi Nov 13 #19