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cab67

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42. To this day -

Mon Dec 22, 2025, 05:11 PM

Dec 22

I cannot tolerate anyone looking over my shoulder.

I also feel attacked if anyone publishes a paper that draws conclusions different from those I’ve published. In fact, they’re not attacking me - they just interpret some of the observations differently - but I have to give myself a few days before I contact the authors. (I’ve made the mistake of not doing so, leading to big apologies from me.)

I take great exception to anyone who dismisses bullying as ‘teasing.’ Everyone gets teased, but bullying is different. It’s every day. Eventually, you agree with the bullies’ assessment of you - that you’re weak, worthless, and as one one who deserves to be beaten and ridiculed.

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Boys at her school shared AI-generated, nude images of her. After a fight, she was the one expelled [View all] Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 22 OP

They have already become assholes which bodes very badly for the girls and women they'll encounter later in life n/t Stargleamer Dec 22 #1

Punish the victim sarisataka Dec 22 #2

True.... but especially if the victim is female. slightlv Dec 22 #11

they need the files of one dead man because they don't believe 1000 women rampartd Dec 23 #61

Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 22 #48

Welcome to DU sarisataka Dec 22 #52

Somehow hopefully she'll get justice somehow electric_blue68 Dec 22 #3

I hope so. mdbl Dec 22 #4

Not in Louisiana she won't. Scalded Nun Dec 22 #47

The odds are unfortunately higher. electric_blue68 Dec 22 #50

The Sheriff's office arrested rwo of the boys rpannier Dec 22 #53

She needs to sue. !! SHE Needs. to. sue! Hey girl, please sue the evil people!!!! Sue them now ! ! ! ! !! Trueblue1968 Dec 22 #55

Yeah, I just saw as a suggestion...tempting... electric_blue68 Dec 22 #56

If the evidence was on SnapChat and thus gets deleated once viewed, how do lawyers prove her case? Attilatheblond Dec 23 #64

Ugh, from nasty to horrific! electric_blue68 Dec 23 #71

Yep Attilatheblond Dec 23 #73

Geeeebz, sigh electric_blue68 Dec 23 #76

"The girls begged for help, first from a school guidance counselor and then from a sheriff's deputy assigned to their WhiskeyGrinder Dec 22 #5

Get some AI shots flying around of the Principal and a sheep. Bet he'll believe her then Bengus81 Dec 22 #9

A pic of the jerk and a boy. niyad Dec 22 #14

An eye for an eye. Zackzzzz Dec 22 #35

She... sarisataka Dec 22 #20

The sheep idea still applies, imho. Volaris Dec 22 #25

Nope, Dogs, big ones. Trust me on that! Linda ladeewolf Dec 22 #28

Geez Louise, that makes this even more offensive! ShazzieB Dec 22 #44

Thank you! That principal is an example of the fact that not all women niyad Dec 23 #62

Sadly, that female principal probably knew her own job/financial security depends on going along to get along Attilatheblond Dec 23 #65

Yeah, I can see that she was in a tight spot. ShazzieB Dec 23 #72

Yeah, I saw red too. And I doubt any one of us females hasn't dealt with that sort of crap if we dared complain Attilatheblond Dec 23 #74

Social media may have to be banned for minors gulliver Dec 22 #6

AI makes it much worse, though. highplainsdem Dec 22 #16

I agree with you, gulliver! slightlv Dec 22 #17

"And I have to wonder if... maybe things should be denied until they're at least 30." Jedi Guy Dec 24 #79

I was thinking the other day we should ban smartphones for anyone under 21. Volaris Dec 22 #26

This Roy Rolling Dec 22 #7

It's the difference betwen proof and accusation Fullduplexxx Dec 22 #8

JFC. niyad Dec 22 #12

Thank you for reposting this one. I was just about to go look for it. niyad Dec 22 #10

Women apparently are not allowed a voice... NotHardly Dec 22 #13

This doesn't surprise me 😔 MustLoveBeagles Dec 22 #15

Honest question - cab67 Dec 22 #18

I'm sorry you went through that MustLoveBeagles Dec 22 #29

To this day - cab67 Dec 22 #42

How Starbeach Dec 22 #34

If AI was really I... lame54 Dec 22 #19

This is happening everywhere, at some level. Oneironaut Dec 22 #21

Elaquently put & sadly true MustLoveBeagles Dec 22 #31

yup Skittles Dec 24 #80

... Solly Mack Dec 22 #22

I suppose girls could also play this game MagickMuffin Dec 22 #23

Must admit I like this idea. calimary Dec 22 #45

Yes, and bullies will continue to be bullies until the tables are turned MagickMuffin Dec 22 #46

This can easily backfire on the girl Farmer-Rick Dec 23 #68

The excerpt in the OP lacks some important context. Ms. Toad Dec 22 #24

"The excerpt in the OP lacks some important context." Disaffected Dec 22 #30

Thanks 👍 MustLoveBeagles Dec 22 #32

The point of the article is not the ultimate punishment sarisataka Dec 22 #38

The selective excerpt gave the impression the boys got off scott free, and the girl was punished. Ms. Toad Dec 22 #40

Question popsdenver Dec 22 #58

That's legally complex. Ms. Toad Dec 22 #60

Holy crap MT popsdenver Dec 23 #69

The school reacted to the fight, not the underlying cause of the fight. Aussie105 Dec 22 #27

sue the school and the boys who shared the video moonshinegnomie Dec 22 #33

Wouldn't such images qualify as child pornography? cab67 Dec 22 #36

If AI can do this kind of harm in the hands of a child Martin Eden Dec 22 #37

There are not enough numbers in the universe to count all the ways punishing the victim is wrong. Hoosier_Progressiv Dec 22 #39

My daughter is a high school guidance counseler. Joinfortmill Dec 22 #41

Inciting violence is never a good way to solve problems. Initech Dec 22 #43

Kinda the reason we're where we are now. BurnDoubt Dec 22 #49

Oh, yeah, ... BurnDoubt Dec 22 #51

So he got beat up by a girl??? Hope somebody caught THAT on video Jack Valentino Dec 22 #54

This just happened in my city, Calgary in Alberta Canada Bev54 Dec 22 #57

Is this the case? RockCreek Dec 23 #66

Yes, that is the case. We still have a long way to go to keep up with changes in Bev54 Dec 23 #67

I'd like to hear someone make the argument that the first amendment rightly permits this kind of thing. Morbius Dec 22 #59

Where are the parents? blue-wave Dec 23 #63

Kids are generally more tech savvy than their parents are. Jedi Guy Dec 23 #77

I agree with your point blue-wave Dec 24 #78

Go to the local DA markbark Dec 23 #70

We need laws and this includes holding the tech companies themselves responsible JI7 Dec 23 #75