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Attilatheblond

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64. If the evidence was on SnapChat and thus gets deleated once viewed, how do lawyers prove her case?

Tue Dec 23, 2025, 09:53 AM

Dec 2025

I recall 15 years ago, when a lot of kids first got cell phones, there was a problem with boys in school 'flashing' girls with pictures of their own 'junk'. It was hell for schools to stop because parents didn't want their precious babies to be without those phones during the day. It was even a problem where I was living then, a VERY rural, VERY red county.

Yeah, 'Christian values' and the parents were more appalled at the possibility there sons would have to check their phones at the school house door than they were about their sons taking dick selfies to flash around the school halls. School administrators lost the fight, the boys kept their phones, and the girls kept getting 'flashed' in the halls.

Oh, and there were 3 known rapists in town who never got punished for their well known crimes.

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Boys at her school shared AI-generated, nude images of her. After a fight, she was the one expelled [View all] Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Dec 2025 OP

They have already become assholes which bodes very badly for the girls and women they'll encounter later in life n/t Stargleamer Dec 2025 #1

Punish the victim sarisataka Dec 2025 #2

True.... but especially if the victim is female. slightlv Dec 2025 #11

they need the files of one dead man because they don't believe 1000 women rampartd Dec 2025 #61

Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2025 #48

Welcome to DU sarisataka Dec 2025 #52

Somehow hopefully she'll get justice somehow electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #3

I hope so. mdbl Dec 2025 #4

Not in Louisiana she won't. Scalded Nun Dec 2025 #47

The odds are unfortunately higher. electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #50

The Sheriff's office arrested rwo of the boys rpannier Dec 2025 #53

She needs to sue. !! SHE Needs. to. sue! Hey girl, please sue the evil people!!!! Sue them now ! ! ! ! !! Trueblue1968 Dec 2025 #55

Yeah, I just saw as a suggestion...tempting... electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #56

If the evidence was on SnapChat and thus gets deleated once viewed, how do lawyers prove her case? Attilatheblond Dec 2025 #64

Ugh, from nasty to horrific! electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #71

Yep Attilatheblond Dec 2025 #73

Geeeebz, sigh electric_blue68 Dec 2025 #76

"The girls begged for help, first from a school guidance counselor and then from a sheriff's deputy assigned to their WhiskeyGrinder Dec 2025 #5

Get some AI shots flying around of the Principal and a sheep. Bet he'll believe her then Bengus81 Dec 2025 #9

A pic of the jerk and a boy. niyad Dec 2025 #14

An eye for an eye. Zackzzzz Dec 2025 #35

She... sarisataka Dec 2025 #20

The sheep idea still applies, imho. Volaris Dec 2025 #25

Nope, Dogs, big ones. Trust me on that! Linda ladeewolf Dec 2025 #28

Geez Louise, that makes this even more offensive! ShazzieB Dec 2025 #44

Thank you! That principal is an example of the fact that not all women niyad Dec 2025 #62

Sadly, that female principal probably knew her own job/financial security depends on going along to get along Attilatheblond Dec 2025 #65

Yeah, I can see that she was in a tight spot. ShazzieB Dec 2025 #72

Yeah, I saw red too. And I doubt any one of us females hasn't dealt with that sort of crap if we dared complain Attilatheblond Dec 2025 #74

Social media may have to be banned for minors gulliver Dec 2025 #6

AI makes it much worse, though. highplainsdem Dec 2025 #16

I agree with you, gulliver! slightlv Dec 2025 #17

"And I have to wonder if... maybe things should be denied until they're at least 30." Jedi Guy Dec 2025 #79

I was thinking the other day we should ban smartphones for anyone under 21. Volaris Dec 2025 #26

This Roy Rolling Dec 2025 #7

It's the difference betwen proof and accusation Fullduplexxx Dec 2025 #8

JFC. niyad Dec 2025 #12

Thank you for reposting this one. I was just about to go look for it. niyad Dec 2025 #10

Women apparently are not allowed a voice... NotHardly Dec 2025 #13

This doesn't surprise me 😔 MustLoveBeagles Dec 2025 #15

Honest question - cab67 Dec 2025 #18

I'm sorry you went through that MustLoveBeagles Dec 2025 #29

To this day - cab67 Dec 2025 #42

How Starbeach Dec 2025 #34

If AI was really I... lame54 Dec 2025 #19

This is happening everywhere, at some level. Oneironaut Dec 2025 #21

Elaquently put & sadly true MustLoveBeagles Dec 2025 #31

yup Skittles Dec 2025 #80

... Solly Mack Dec 2025 #22

I suppose girls could also play this game MagickMuffin Dec 2025 #23

Must admit I like this idea. calimary Dec 2025 #45

Yes, and bullies will continue to be bullies until the tables are turned MagickMuffin Dec 2025 #46

This can easily backfire on the girl Farmer-Rick Dec 2025 #68

The excerpt in the OP lacks some important context. Ms. Toad Dec 2025 #24

"The excerpt in the OP lacks some important context." Disaffected Dec 2025 #30

Thanks 👍 MustLoveBeagles Dec 2025 #32

The point of the article is not the ultimate punishment sarisataka Dec 2025 #38

The selective excerpt gave the impression the boys got off scott free, and the girl was punished. Ms. Toad Dec 2025 #40

Question popsdenver Dec 2025 #58

That's legally complex. Ms. Toad Dec 2025 #60

Holy crap MT popsdenver Dec 2025 #69

The school reacted to the fight, not the underlying cause of the fight. Aussie105 Dec 2025 #27

sue the school and the boys who shared the video moonshinegnomie Dec 2025 #33

Wouldn't such images qualify as child pornography? cab67 Dec 2025 #36

If AI can do this kind of harm in the hands of a child Martin Eden Dec 2025 #37

There are not enough numbers in the universe to count all the ways punishing the victim is wrong. Hoosier_Progressiv Dec 2025 #39

My daughter is a high school guidance counseler. Joinfortmill Dec 2025 #41

Inciting violence is never a good way to solve problems. Initech Dec 2025 #43

Kinda the reason we're where we are now. BurnDoubt Dec 2025 #49

Oh, yeah, ... BurnDoubt Dec 2025 #51

So he got beat up by a girl??? Hope somebody caught THAT on video Jack Valentino Dec 2025 #54

This just happened in my city, Calgary in Alberta Canada Bev54 Dec 2025 #57

Is this the case? RockCreek Dec 2025 #66

Yes, that is the case. We still have a long way to go to keep up with changes in Bev54 Dec 2025 #67

I'd like to hear someone make the argument that the first amendment rightly permits this kind of thing. Morbius Dec 2025 #59

Where are the parents? blue-wave Dec 2025 #63

Kids are generally more tech savvy than their parents are. Jedi Guy Dec 2025 #77

I agree with your point blue-wave Dec 2025 #78

Go to the local DA markbark Dec 2025 #70

We need laws and this includes holding the tech companies themselves responsible JI7 Dec 2025 #75