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highplainsdem

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23. Did you ask him how he felt about her driving off after damaging other people's cars? The fact

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Wed Dec 24, 2025, 05:29 PM

Dec 24

that he told you about it at all indicates her behavior made him uncomfortable.

Her doing anything so unethical needs to be stressed. It's unlikely she'll change, especially since she's old enough to have a law degree. And she'll be setting a bad example for their children.

Which unfortunately we saw when a spoiled princess married into our family.

It's also a very bad sign that she's so domineering, insisting he change his religion, and already warning of rules for you.

But that's a sign of what could go wrong in the future.

Her damaging those cars without caring shows she's already unethical as hell, and she expects him to tolerate it and might be just as unethical toward him.

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Any recommendations on dealing with a future daughter in law (possible) narcissist [View all] DUU Dec 24 OP

He doesn't see a problem with her behavior? SheltieLover Dec 24 #1

No he doesn't seem to see any issues. A friend suggested he's thinking with his other head. DUU Dec 24 #2

Sounds like it, sadly. SheltieLover Dec 24 #5

Well, i would NOT want her in my house bluestarone Dec 24 #3

Same here. SheltieLover Dec 24 #6

This message was self-deleted by its author dalton99a Dec 24 #4

I'm not sure this is the right place for your post. MineralMan Dec 24 #7

You don't need "professionals" to figure out how to lead your life. Renew Deal Dec 24 #17

Perhaps not, but sometimes, advice from professionals MineralMan Dec 24 #19

What are the conditions about visiting grandkids? WhiskeyGrinder Dec 24 #8

Firm boundaries. There are good videos on how to GPV Dec 24 #9

Stepdaughter is historonic, her +1 is anti-social and depends on her for direction.... haele Dec 24 #24

Our daughter's former boyfriend, father of our 1 yr old grandson, NewHendoLib Dec 24 #10

Hoo boy. Ocelot II Dec 24 #11

Get help. MuseRider Dec 24 #12

(assuming) your description is accurate, she's likely a narcissist and most definitely unethical. harumph Dec 24 #13

Run Forest Run!!!! Traildogbob Dec 24 #14

Leaving the scene of an accident is a crime. QED Dec 24 #15

Seriously, she's a lawyer. DUU Dec 24 #20

If both of her hit and runs were caught on camera Arazi Dec 24 #22

Some people only learn the hard way Renew Deal Dec 24 #16

Focus on him, ask him questions in a neutral way. Irish_Dem Dec 24 #18

Do they live together now ? kimbutgar Dec 24 #21

Did you ask him how he felt about her driving off after damaging other people's cars? The fact highplainsdem Dec 24 #23