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Johnny2X2X

(24,067 posts)
7. Envy
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 04:29 PM
Yesterday

Rural America is envious of city America. They hold some falsehoods and some of it is just culture.

They have the impression that their taxes go to fund the cities, when the opposite is true. They have no clue the money that leaves the cities to support their roads, farms, schools, and lives.

But a lot of it is just the idea that people in the cities are more successful, smarter, and more worldly than they are. You spend any time in a rural community and the locals will spend a good portion of their conversations with you explaining common sense to you. They're obsessed with "common sense" and are convinced that small town local yokels are the only human beings anywhere that can grasp basic common sense. They'll explain to you common sense on groceries, common sense on schoolin, common sense on shoppin, and home ownin etc. etc. Stuff they say only small town folk really know. Then you look around at the train wrecks their lives are and you wonder where all their common sense is.

And they'll even treat people who got out of those small towns differently. Because they're envious of them, that they went away and were able to hack it and build a life in a place they don't think they'd be able to hack it. They feel left behind.

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I find this to be true in the rural farm communities I have lived in. SamKnause Yesterday #1
There are also lots of churches looking at people cachukis Yesterday #2
Yeah. If you move anywhere in the South, outside of the big cities (and even there, sometimes, maybe), the first thing Aristus Yesterday #6
When my parents moved to the small town they are currently in (and will die in)... progressoid Yesterday #13
Would need to see a lot more data before I would believe this assertion Raven123 Yesterday #3
Ya load sixteen tons, and whatya get? Permanut Yesterday #4
This is true, but only to a certain extent indusurb Yesterday #5
Correct Cosmocat Yesterday #9
Yea But modrepub Yesterday #10
Envy Johnny2X2X Yesterday #7
THIS is the heart of it Cosmocat Yesterday #11
Small town gossip Johnny2X2X Yesterday #14
Large majority of Trump supporters in Mi live in urban areas Kaleva Yesterday #22
I've seen this before. She's not quite right. progressoid Yesterday #8
There are other factors, too. wnylib Yesterday #12
The end of the fairness doctrine and Buzz cook Yesterday #15
The entire Texas side of my family is magat. ananda Yesterday #16
It won't load for me senseandsensibility Yesterday #17
Here ya go, senseandsensibility Niagara Yesterday #18
Thanks! senseandsensibility Yesterday #21
My pleasure Niagara Yesterday #23
Why have I never heard this before? It's Yellowstone TV series. lindysalsagal Yesterday #19
Interesting ProfessorGAC Yesterday #20
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