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NNadir

(38,259 posts)
23. I can accept being flamed if it's done with wit.
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 09:02 AM
Mar 12

As an oldtimer here, I have more than once pulled out a torch and have been met with responses involving flame throwers.

There's that old maxim, "If you're not angry, you're not paying attention."

There are several features of DU that make it superior to other leftist political websites. One of these is the jury system, accessed by the alert button. DU peers will be called to decide if you have violated the terms of service with respect to personal attacks. The post will be hidden, and the poster will receive in their inbox a notification.

The other is the "ignore list."

If you decide that another DUer is too obnoxious, or disagrees on a point of passion that is important to you implacabably, you can put them on your ignore list accessed at "My Du."

I have a lovely extensive "ignore list" that helps me stay within the terms of service despite my passions, in particular with respect to environmental issues.

In any public space, there are people with whom interaction is simply not worth it.

Best wishes to your gentle soul.

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I love DU. [View all] MIButterfly Mar 11 OP
That alert button is your friend Brother Buzz Mar 11 #1
I had no idea what the Alert button was for jmbar2 Mar 12 #22
I, too, enjoy expressing my thoughts and reading thoughts of others vapor2 Mar 11 #2
LOL malaise Mar 11 #3
I thought I'd close with a little levity. MIButterfly Mar 11 #4
Made me laugh malaise Mar 11 #5
Yah it made me smile. Thanks. ancianita Mar 11 #10
We haven't lived until *flamed* to pieces! UTUSN Mar 11 #6
Unfortunately there are to many posters out there that dehumanize & infantilize other posters for having a different SunImp Mar 11 #7
Nice tantrum! leftstreet Mar 11 #8
I get ya... Not all is probably intentional. Stress seems to impact members in cycles... hlthe2b Mar 11 #9
All forums get flame wars. usonian Mar 11 #11
That's a good one! calimary Mar 11 #13
It's unfortunate that we have members here that talk down to others Niagara Mar 11 #12
❤️ 💐 🪄💫 🦋 littlemissmartypants Mar 11 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Mar 11 #15
There is a contingent pretending that ridiculing fellow DUers is the path to electoral victory Orrex Mar 11 #16
It's like seeing an inconsiderate driver on the road BaronChocula Mar 11 #17
I'll sign on to Loving DU, too! ☮️🌺🌻🕯️🕊️💜 Cha Mar 11 #18
I'm impressed by the level of civility on DU. markodochartaigh Mar 11 #19
While not perfect, it's so much better here than Facebook TBF Mar 12 #20
Sorry for your unpleasant experience in a place you love, MIButterly. summer_in_TX Mar 12 #21
I can accept being flamed if it's done with wit. NNadir Mar 12 #23
Love your poss MIB 🩵 Clouds Passing Mar 12 #24
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