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In reply to the discussion: Some Friends, Eh. [View all]

PatSeg

(53,603 posts)
12. Whoa, that was brutal
Fri May 15, 2026, 05:24 PM
May 15

I was a long time smoker and I have COPD. Everyone has vices or addictions. What makes some total strangers on the Internet think they can pass judgment on people they don't know?

Of course, I was raised at a time when almost everyone I knew smoked and there was little or no concern about health risks aside from an occasional nagging cough. Some doctors even recommended smoking to calm nerves or to lose weight.

Social media has allowed me to keep in touch with old friends and family. We share photos, life events, and memories, but there are people who go online without a filter and cut down people they don't know. It is unsettling and can even be dangerous. The lack of sensitivity and accountability is stunning. It is hard to imagine what could cause such mindless cruelty.

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Some Friends, Eh. [View all] MineralMan May 15 OP
Jeez. underpants May 15 #1
I wish for your healing Keepthesoulalive May 15 #2
I am sorry. I will never understand the lack of empathy in so many people. LoisB May 15 #3
Not helpful, just mean... some_of_us_are_sane May 15 #4
Sorry that happened to you, MineralMan. HeartsCanHope May 15 #5
Feel better. mr715 May 15 #6
If you don't have personal FTF contact with them they could be bots. littlemissmartypants May 15 #7
those kind of people can seriously go fuck themselves Skittles May 15 #8
COPD . . . AverageOldGuy May 15 #9
may I say, AOG Skittles May 15 #23
Whatever filthy habit you have, or don't have, you are one of my favorite posters on D.U. I always save a 3Hotdogs May 15 #10
Breathe well. cachukis May 15 #11
Whoa, that was brutal PatSeg May 15 #12
Nextdoor? FHRRK1 May 15 #13
omg Skittles May 15 #24
And they really are neighbors FHRRK1 May 15 #30
Projection nuxvomica May 15 #14
Wow, I am so sorry EuterpeThelo May 15 #15
Could you imagine KT2000 May 15 #16
I was thinking that about the local "Karen" I am frequently mistaken for Skittles May 15 #25
Explains a lot of where this country is today BaronChocula May 15 #17
I really hope you unfriend those people. And I wish you health and healing. Maraya1969 May 15 #18
The cloak of anonymity gives people cover to be judgmental without TheProle May 15 #19
Glad to have you back with us, MM... Totally Tunsie May 15 #20
Oh, dear MineralMan Grim Chieftain May 15 #21
Sounds like some of trolls MIRT deals with daily. hunter May 15 #22
so sorry... markie May 15 #26
That is absolutely outrageous! I'd beat 'em up for you if I could. nt CozyMystery May 15 #27
Filthy Habits JoseBalow May 15 #28
Ignore them MustLoveBeagles May 15 #29
Who does that? peggysue2 May 15 #31
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