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orleans

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30. sometimes the signs are there for us but we don't make the connection to our loved ones.
Sun May 17, 2026, 02:58 AM
May 17

could be a birthdate, birth year, address (on gas station signs, license plates), their name or relationship to us (bro, mom)

some people believe seeing a cardinal, butterfly, dragonfly is a sign from a loved one.

a reference to a connection you had with them, finding or running into an item that the two of you talked about or connected over or had an inside joke about

hearing a song the two of you sang together, danced together, or a song they liked.

not to mention when a light flashes or goes on or off, or you smell something related to them.

sometimes talking to them out loud might get their attention, telling them to give you a sign.

keep looking, keep paying attention.

btw--i wondered about paul's du user name and googled towelie. i see it was a character on south park (that i didn't watch very often) with the catchphrase "don't forget to bring a towel" (looked on youtube and saw towelie for the first time. this made me laugh:




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Don't sell yourself short Bettie May 16 #1
Hugs to you Ilsa sdfernando May 16 #2
Exactly understated, the same way a superhero would put it. Doing all you could was a lot. That's what a superhero... marble falls May 16 #3
Thank you for bringing us along on this journey, Ilsa. calimary May 16 #4
Not all superhero folks wear capes! ZDU May 16 #5
Emotional support is what keeps all of us sane, Ilsa UpInArms May 16 #6
It's okay. A steady presence has as much positive effect as a superhero. haele May 16 #7
Just to share FullySupportDems May 16 #8
indeed NJCher May 16 #9
Crying is cathartic. Sharing helps release the tears wnylib May 16 #10
You provided emotional support to your family Niagara May 16 #11
Again, thank you for any support to Paul LetMyPeopleVote May 16 #12
Thank you for sharing. CaptainTruth May 16 #13
You carried an incredible burden, with grace Ilsa. JMCKUSICK May 16 #14
Thank You for sharing. I was unaware of his passing. I often liked and commented on his posts. My condolences. ChicagoTeamster May 16 #15
We can't even be everything for our own selves. IbogaProject May 16 #16
Ilsa, you did everything you could. That makes you a hero. Superheroes are fictional and are only highplainsdem May 16 #17
I've been looking for signs for 3 years. No joy, yet. Ilsa May 16 #18
It's possible you missed some when you were griefstricken. But there are some things that can help highplainsdem May 16 #21
Thanks for this share blue_jay May 16 #23
sometimes the signs are there for us but we don't make the connection to our loved ones. orleans May 17 #30
That was so funny. Ilsa May 17 #32
Just want to say that, Through the power of your own words, we know exactly how good a person you are! bluestarone May 16 #19
Wishing you comfort and peace from here on out. You've been through a lot. 10 Turtle Day May 16 #20
You were there for emotional support BeneteauBum May 16 #22
you're a good sister Skittles May 16 #24
You're a wonderful sister. Even given your shock and heartbreak, you came here to let us know. lapucelle May 16 #25
You did what you could MustLoveBeagles May 16 #26
My philosophy... oldsoldierfadingfast May 16 #27
Oh! Missed this. My condolences. electric_blue68 May 16 #28
Oh JustAnotherGen May 16 #29
I am sorry about Texas Towelie.nt jfz9580m May 17 #31
I am sorry Ilsa jfz9580m May 18 #33
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