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12. Defend, delay, defer and deny.

Sun May 24, 2026, 02:18 PM

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Rinse and repeat. Fist thing and only thing MBAs learn.
I had an argument with a home insurance company. Told me why it’d be so expensive to insure the house I was moving out. It’d sit vacant forever, might not sell and wasn’t worth what I said it was. Told her houses in that area averaged 32 days on the market. I was asking way under the quoted market price. Said I’ve been in sales for 50 years and had a Realtor license years ago. I had an inspection done and be glad to show it to her. Sales depend on price, condition and location.
Then I told her she was trained to defend, defer, delay and deny.
I paid one month of insurance and had an offer the next day and close a month later.

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