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no_hypocrisy

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11. That's downright galling and disgusting.

Tue Jul 7, 2026, 05:38 PM

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For decades, I've heard about guys advising other guys not to accept a condom from girls/women b/c there might be holes from pins in them.

And here's this guy who's chill with impregnating his partner, perhaps leave her with a venereal disease AFTER she believed he was using protection.

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Ex-girlfriend of Graham Platner says he removed condoms without consent during sex [View all] demmiblue Yesterday OP

I don't need to know more about this guy... lame54 Yesterday #1

I believe her. QueerDuck Yesterday #2

Also a crime in many states. RandySF Yesterday #3

Only if it is a clear violation of a consensual agreement--and then almost always ONLY if repercussions hlthe2b Yesterday #6

It is illegal in my state because it negates a woman's consent and it is treated as sexual assualt. 50 Shades Of Blue Yesterday #9

It is hard to prove. I have a close relative who lives in such a state-- and has tried to prosecute... hlthe2b Yesterday #13

Regardless, it's a crime. Plenty of crimes are hard to prove. 50 Shades Of Blue Yesterday #15

And given courts, juries, judges believe the defendent's claim of accident--sans a lot of other hlthe2b Yesterday #16

How many shitty behaviors does a guy get to get a pass on? EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #28

EdmondDantes. You tell me we exactly where I have ever given him benefit-of-the-doubt? hlthe2b Yesterday #31

Here's the exact quote: EdmondDantes_ 22 hrs ago #53

The intent (as you WELL know is to put emphasis on the rape allegations already made) hlthe2b 20 hrs ago #54

Nothing would surprise me about him now. WinningAgain Yesterday #4

This is becoming gratuitous.. We get it.. He needs to go... hlthe2b Yesterday #5

This woman already talked about this months ago with the NYT obamanut2012 Yesterday #20

I have addressed this repeatedly in this and other posts... hlthe2b Yesterday #27

Platner is done MerryBlooms Yesterday #38

I fear the party powers-that-be are going to make everything even worse (if that is possible).. hlthe2b Yesterday #40

Mills was right of centrist MerryBlooms 23 hrs ago #49

I take your opinion on Mills and the reasons for her rejection... hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #51

TMI (too much information). Spare us the details Katinfl Yesterday #7

She is talking about him sexually assaulting her obamanut2012 Yesterday #22

This message was self-deleted by its author WhiskeyGrinder Yesterday #8

Oh who cares about this? Are people really interested in these kinds of details? Nanjeanne Yesterday #10

Same here. Why do I need to hear about this. Polly Hennessey Yesterday #12

it's sexual assault, so it's okay if it happens all the time? obamanut2012 Yesterday #24

Even those few states that have developed (mostly civil statutes) fail to consider it rape hlthe2b Yesterday #36

Yes, it's sexual assault obamanut2012 Yesterday #23

In only a few states, no matter how you or I may feel about it. Please stop calling out DUers hlthe2b Yesterday #37

Ok I'm jumping out of semi retirement to address this JefilteFish 22 hrs ago #52

I am downplaying nothing. Only that the emphasis on the rapes is enough to remove him hlthe2b 20 hrs ago #55

You're carrying water for anyone who wants to dismiss JefilteFish 18 hrs ago #56

You are being ridiculous and your accusations show you don't bother to read or hlthe2b 13 hrs ago #57

That's downright galling and disgusting. no_hypocrisy Yesterday #11

I assume bathroom habits and personal grooming are next? NoMoreRepugs Yesterday #14

Why are you excusing rape??? THIS IS RAPE obamanut2012 Yesterday #25

I think it should be But those states with or considering stealthing statutes largely have not... hlthe2b Yesterday #35

What. The. Fuck? mcar Yesterday #33

He wanted 18 years of child support payments. milestogo Yesterday #17

I suspect it had more to do with MorbidButterflyTat 23 hrs ago #50

Thanks for this post. The subject line is clear about its content TommyT139 Yesterday #18

Thank you for the link. demmiblue Yesterday #21

Seriously, this is literally a form of rape obamanut2012 Yesterday #26

It's been eye-opening. demmiblue Yesterday #30

Maybe, just maybe others are either less informed or actually MORE INFORMED on the issue hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #44

I'm not reading that again -- I am educated on this obamanut2012 4 hrs ago #60

Honestly, I thought (like others) it was more universally outlawed. TommyT139 Yesterday #29

Especially with the downfall of Roe, and the attack on women's reproductive healthcare.n/t demmiblue Yesterday #32

Yeah, it's a way to control and baby trap women obamanut2012 Yesterday #41

I think many do. But there is a lot of misinformation and conflation on this issue and hlthe2b Yesterday #39

Except this is more proof of rape obamanut2012 Yesterday #42

It can be. As I posted earlier... hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #46

No, stealthing is a form of rape obamanut2012 4 hrs ago #61

You and I believe so-- along with most women. The law has NOT caught up and we need to hlthe2b 3 hrs ago #62

Stealthing is rape obamanut2012 Yesterday #19

It is no wonder women feel there's no point in reporting sexual assaults sarisataka Yesterday #34

Thank you obamanut2012 Yesterday #43

So he sexually assaulted her. Jirel 23 hrs ago #45

Yes, when consensual sex turns into rape, it's rape. Iggo 23 hrs ago #48

I've already heard enough about this guy. Iggo 23 hrs ago #47

This woman was previously discredited as a right-wing partisan Shrek 12 hrs ago #58

No, she wasn't obamanut2012 4 hrs ago #59