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In reply to the discussion: Some of here sometimes feel Unwelcome. Even many of us who were here back..Way Back [View all]LostOne4Ever
(9,732 posts)Sorry for the delay in replying. I keep on trying to make a well thought out reply to your post and either feel like its a repeat of my previous post, comes off as either preaching, or just sounds condescending when all I want to do is try and show that I do hear what you have been saying.
With that in mind, please allow me to say this, I believe I understand where you are coming from. You feel like you busted your ass for the democratic party for a long time and not only has there been very little progress, but it feels like the party goes out of its way to appease the opposition rather than to fight on behalf of its supporters. They do this to the point you feel that the democratic party doesn't care for or even like your opinions. You feel like that one relative at the family reunion everyone wished would just leave.
Am I close to the mark? I want to make sure I understand where you are coming from as I really do believe listening to each other is important.
If I am correct, let me say that I believe it is your party as much as its mine, or Obama's, or Kucinich's, or anyone's and I do believe you have a right to speak up. In fact, I believe that listening to each other is the best way to create positive change. However, I also believe we have a right to RESPECTFULLY disagree, and if we believe such criticism goes to far or if it becomes harmful to our ultimate goals we also have the right to make that clear as well. I don't think one should take such disagreement to mean one is not welcome in the democratic party.
Yes, we differ drastically in approach, as can be seen from your OP and my previous reply; but, I don't believe we differ that much in our ultimate goals. I think we should try out best realize that and make sure we all feel welcome
In closing, let me apologize for being so very long winded, and allow me to thank you for the thoughtful reply and thread. We might not come to an ultimate agreement but we can always be accepting of one another.