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Hekate

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15. Go back 150+ years for a "tradwife"
Fri Mar 28, 2025, 02:54 PM
Mar 28

…when a man’s word was law to his wife, where domestic violence was a private matter, where the products of a woman’s labor (yes, women worked) belonged to her husband. When, as our feminist foremothers like Elizabeth Cady Stanton accurately noted, women had fewer rights than children, imbeciles, and convicted prisoners.

By comparison, “housewife” implies a more benign state of being, for all its manifest flaws. In the ordinary course of life women expected to have a say in the marriage and the raising of the kids. Contraceptives certainly existed.

Men who use the term “tradwife” always sound like wifebeaters to me. Or incels who want to be wifebeaters. There’s something about the term and the “men” who use it that just raises my hackles and sets off alarm bells. They want slavery, not housewifery.

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But they still don't want to give mothers time off or pay to feed children. AmericaUnderSiege Mar 28 #1
Let alone even think of "childcare" BumRushDaShow Mar 28 #3
They just enjoy wallowing in the symbols of what they hate and want to destroy. AmericaUnderSiege Mar 28 #5
I think of a tradwife as a Stepford wife--an automaton who has no greater purpose than serving and pleasing her husband. Lonestarblue Mar 28 #8
They see women as a means of production. Capital, in other words. AmericaUnderSiege Mar 28 #11
That was my thought as well BumRushDaShow Mar 28 #13
Go back 150+ years for a "tradwife" Hekate Mar 28 #15
You don't even have to go back that far BumRushDaShow Mar 28 #17
I know. Some of what I say is in reaction to the many people who said overturning Roe ... Hekate Mar 28 #18
"Traditional" wife NT SADAR Mar 28 #16
IOW, a "modern" version of the "housewife" or "homemaker" BumRushDaShow Mar 29 #22
After 1 day old bluestarone Mar 28 #2
I wonder just how many of those lawmakers have ever been pregnant? PoindexterOglethorpe Mar 28 #4
More of that glorious 'Freedom' MAGA is always shouting about. sinkingfeeling Mar 28 #6
With Republicans, there is never any good news. GoodRaisin Mar 28 #7
The simple solution to reducing unwanted abortions is to make castration mandatory. jls4561 Mar 28 #9
All that will happen MissKat Mar 28 #10
And pregnant women who will suffer and die without emergency medical intervention? Zambero Mar 28 #12
We need a 21st Century Underground Railroad to help pregnant women get abortions question everything Mar 28 #14
Two places to inquire about donations to existing programs: Planned Parenthood and the Brigid Alliance Hekate Mar 29 #20
Thank you. I will question everything Mar 29 #21
Are there any cutouts in the bill at all? sakabatou Mar 28 #19
Shades of Gilead. 😬 Someday All Women will be Treated as First-Class Citizens! Not yet. electric_blue68 Mar 29 #23
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