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SpankMe

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24. With respect, it's not my own characterization
Mon Mar 30, 2026, 09:06 PM
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As evidenced by many comments in this thread, a number of people find single male adults "of a certain age" visiting Disney alone - without ever having had children that they took to Disneyland - to be somewhat odd. However, note the last paragraph in my post where I say "I agree that adults should be free to visit Disney without kids without stigma...". Apparently you didn't read that far.

My wife and I are Disney fans and had annual passes before the price went astronomical. We'd go the Disney Anaheim just to have dinner at Pirates of the Caribbean, watch a parade and some fireworks, and then leave. This was before kids. But, we were in our early to mid-20's and visited Disney many, many times as kids. We double dated there with other Disney fans and would occasionally point out Disneyland visitors who seemed out of place. Most of the time, this was lone males in their 40's or thereabouts wearing Disney attire that seemed inappropriate for adults, such as ill-fitting short Micky Mouse shorts, non-black mouse ears with their name glittered on it and other themed bling - like hand-held props that didn't match other elements of the costuming - that just struck us as strange at worst and tone-deaf at best. There was a creepy feel to it.

I don't deny that childless adults visit the Magic Kingdom, and I'm fine with that. But don't slam people who find that to be odd in certain particular cases.

All that said, I reacted to this story before I know all of the facts. Graham was visiting a high end restaurant in a resort location outside of the Magic Kingdom park itself. He was with other adults and was wearing a suit. TMZ's characterization of his visit and the pile--on by detractors is unfair. Frankly, I'm not eve sure I have a beef with him visiting there during the TSA shutdown. I'm sure congressional members of both parties still went out to nice dinners with their families or business associates during the budget impasse. We libs might be overplaying our hand on this one - as much as I HATE Lindsey Graham.

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Newsom is developing a pattern TommyT139 Monday #1
How is calling Graham a "diva" homophobic? Irish_Dem Monday #2
Say what you want, of course. TommyT139 Monday #5
It's a term meant for a woman, not a man Polybius Monday #25
It's misgendering. That's how. iemanja Tuesday #32
I have never encountered "diva" as a gay slur Miguelito Loveless Monday #9
There you go! "Goddess" ... it's mis-gendering him and using it to denigrate him. QueerDuck Monday #12
You went straight to the original meaning from the Italian Miguelito Loveless Monday #14
When such great care is taken to split hairs to justify misgendering ... QueerDuck Monday #16
IIRC - Mohammed Ali used the term "niggardly" on the Dick Cavett Show just to bring up a point. rubbersole Monday #18
Do you want everyone to be nice to Lindsay Graham. He has been the greatest advocate of this war. Let's not offend him Doodley Monday #28
One can oppose a war hawk without using bigoted language... QueerDuck Tuesday #31
If we look at some dictionary definitions of the word diva, we will see it is in use as a gender neutral Doodley Tuesday #35
It's not about Lindsay Graham iemanja Tuesday #33
Explain how using words in the way described in dictionaries is bigotry? Doodley Tuesday #37
It's misgendering iemanja Tuesday #39
No, it's not misgendering, based on the dictionary examples in the post you are replying too. It can be a gender-neutral Doodley Tuesday #40
Maybe he should have just posted a sternly worded message?!?! Bengus81 Monday #11
Sorry. I'm not buying the microaggession argument johnnyplankton Monday #17
isn't there a rule around about sit flinging? SalamanderSleeps Monday #26
Newsom is attacking a war mongering, Trump stooge. You seem to be attacking Newsom. Doodley Monday #27
Good for Governor Newsom, Graham is a bit of a Diva as far as I can tell. wcmagumba Monday #3
Collecting his payoff. twodogsbarking Monday #4
"Why is an old man with no kids going to Disney?" Ray Bruns Monday #6
searching poozwah Monday #7
There are many people who go to Disney World without kids LetMyPeopleVote Monday #13
There's some context others see here that you may be missing SpankMe Monday #15
There are many persons without children who enjoy Disney. LetMyPeopleVote Monday #22
With respect, it's not my own characterization SpankMe Monday #24
The difference is Graham is a creep. Would you trust him with your kids? Doodley Monday #29
Who cares? iemanja Tuesday #34
He eggs on Trump to go to war. American servicemen are killed. Schoolgirls are killed or maimed. We are on the brink of Doodley Tuesday #36
Which has nothing to do with his going to Disney. iemanja Tuesday #38
Graham's excuse sounds about as believeable as the one given by Cancun Cruz a few years back rpannier Monday #8
I would like to see him grilled, like a hamberder, well done. twodogsbarking Monday #10
Disney Ad Campaign Parody 2na fisherman Monday #19
He's eating at a restaurant called Chef Mickey's chernabogg Monday #20
He is a disgrace to mankind. Just like his hero. nt City Lights Monday #21
WTF! Buddyzbuddy Monday #23
When you're telling your constituents to send their sons & daughters to fight in Iran dflprincess Monday #30
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