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Diamond_Dog

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12. It takes two incomes in many cases just to pay for rent, car, living expenses.

Reply to ancianita (Original post)

Mon May 25, 2026, 04:35 PM

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In the USA most moms don’t have paid leave, ideally both parents should have it.

Moms who don’t get paid leave fall behind in career and pay.

I suppose I’ll take some heat for this one, but men have to step up to the plate and be better partners too.

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Why So Few Babies? We Might Have Overlooked the Biggest Reason of All [View all] ancianita Monday OP

Even if I were inclined to have wanted kids, FoxNewsSucks Monday #1

Totally understandable. Yours is the same reason my youngest son refuses to ever have children. ancianita Monday #2

Yep. I felt that way 45 years ago. Auggie Monday #3

The reason for so few babies is that people can now plan their families and avoid unwanted pregnancies. Midnight Writer Monday #4

Maybe to some extent, but hope or no hope for the near future seems to matter greatly Attilatheblond Monday #6

We had our two sons when Bill Clinton was President. We wouldn't do so now, were we young enough to do so. NNadir Monday #5

Understood. Were I young I'd note the international numbers and seriously consider doing the same. ancianita Monday #11

I have always told right to lifers randr Monday #7

Amen, amen! ancianita Monday #8

George Carlin's description of pro-forced birthers, oops, right-to-lifers: niyad Monday #10

I was very fortunate to come of age when The Pill was becoming niyad Monday #9

It takes two incomes in many cases just to pay for rent, car, living expenses. Diamond_Dog Monday #12

I think AI is in the background, being used for jobs humans used to do, men included. Though AI will never surpass human ancianita Monday #13

My grandson decided at the age of twenty-two that he was never going to have kids. Aristus Monday #14

It is because women now have a choice to say "no" to men and their institutions. valleyrogue Monday #15

yup Skittles Monday #16