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True Dough

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27. We're familiar with the effects of dementia, unfortunately

Reply to Niagara (Reply #22)

Sat Jan 11, 2025, 12:21 PM

Jan 11

It hasn't affected many relatives, but my wife's step-father (her mom remarried almost 25 years ago) has been in steady decline for close to a decade. He's been unable to communicate for about a year and a half. Recently, he stopped eating and the doctor said his liver is shutting down. He's not expected to have much time left.

My wife's mom and step-father are both in the same facility but in different sections (he's in the dementia wing, of course). Despite being so close, they only get to see each other for less than an hour a few days a week, but Covid outbreaks or the spreading of the flu or other illnesses can limit that.

It's been a rough time for them.

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We're familiar with the effects of dementia, unfortunately True Dough Jan 11 #27

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