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wordstroken

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34. I hear you about being nervous, about risking your one good eye, walkingman.
Sun Jan 12, 2025, 06:03 PM
Jan 12

I had cataract surgery on my good eye last year — and I was petrified!!

Maybe my experience can help.

I too had been near-sighted most of my life (saw good up close - glasses for distance). 


I lost my vision in one eye ten years ago as a competitive artistic dance and figures roller skater. The floor was wet, I went down. A few weeks later, driving behind the ambulance carrying my dying husband on our way to Bay Pines Veterans Hospital, partway there, I had a sudden full retinal detachment. Drove with that eye closed 120 miles. When we arrived, I refused emergency surgery until I knew my husband was stable. By then, the 5 1/2 hour surgery completely destroyed my macula.

So yes, it’s scary as hell, and we definitely need to protect our “good” eye.

Like you, I wanted to keep my close vision and wear glasses only for driving. And like you, my eye doc said most people opt for seeing far and wear glasses for reading and up close work.

As a retired medical professional, I write medical-legal thriller novels (which has been a sanity-saver for me to stay focused and block out the news!). Also, I read a lot, and on the computer and other devices.

Also, I’ve been sewing since I was nine, when my mother taught me to use a foot pedal machine to make a pair of navy blue bloomers (with tiny gold crowns scattered in a pattern — funny the things we remember). Sewed all four of my kids’ clothes, including complicated prom dresses.

But I digress (sort of).

The way I decided on whether to keep my near vision, or go for far vision, was to calculate what percentage of time I spent doing stuff.

For me, it was 85-90% of my time reading and computer work (much of which is reading the tiny print on my phone to keep up with DU), woodworking, sketching and painting, and of course, sewing.

Approximately 10-15% of my time driving. Or admiring the rural landscape details as I take my two pups for their walks. I tossed my TV decades ago, but YMMV.

Even though I saw seven cataract specialists to be absolutely sure I chose the right one, all seven said exactly was your doc said — that most people choose to see distance clearly and wear glasses for near vision.

Not me. There’s so much freedom in doing, and seeing, things up close and in the middle distance. Without any glasses at all.

**Side note, but very relevant: I also opted for the “Basic” Cataract Surgery, which is actually done by the surgeon’s skill — not by an AI laser machine, which can also compromise night vision. (It usually tells you in the fine print marketing info they give you, and turns out to be a big surprise to those who don’t read it and then try to drive at night afterwards.)

Plus, the entire Basic procedure is totally covered by insurance (in my case, Medicare and ChampVA). My only cost was for the eyedrops. While laser surgeries can cost upwards of $4,500.00, depending on where you live.

Kinda makes you wonder about recommendations and profit margins.

I thank my lucky stars every day that I didn’t let any of the the docs talk me into opting for far vision. Or for the expensive-and-(IMO)-not-so-great laser choices. I now can see the tiniest details — including minute directions on pill bottles.

Bottom line: You are unique, walkingman, and once you figure out what you spend most of your time doing, then the decision is easy. No matter what the docs say.

I hope this helps.

Warm wishes to you that all goes well. I’m sure you’ll make the best choice. Please keep us posted on how it goes.

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Had my eye surgery. [View all] Figarosmom Jan 12 OP
I'm so glad the surgery us behind you & that it wenr well! SheltieLover Jan 12 #1
Thank you Figarosmom Jan 12 #11
Congratulations! Here's to your far-sighted glasses!... electric_blue68 Jan 12 #2
Thank you Figarosmom Jan 12 #12
Use those drops frequently and be sure they are PF..preservative free and you'll be fine 🌺 Deuxcents Jan 12 #3
I will thanks Figarosmom Jan 12 #13
So did you have cataract surgery? If so do you consider it a success, does your Doctor? walkingman Jan 12 #4
Yes,yes,he said he was pleased Figarosmom Jan 12 #14
Thanks for the update; will you need prescription sun glasses in summer? irisblue Jan 12 #5
Only if i want to read in the sun. Figarosmom Jan 12 #15
Follow the orders Old Crank Jan 12 #6
I always Figarosmom Jan 12 #16
It took a little while for mine to actually level out. duncang Jan 12 #7
I finally saw what the characters on Ghosts Figarosmom Jan 12 #17
At least the stress of surgery is behind you True Dough Jan 12 #8
Yep Figarosmom Jan 12 #18
Keep those eyes True Dough Jan 12 #22
I know Figarosmom Jan 12 #23
Glad Things Went Well ProfessorGAC Jan 12 #9
Sorry about your eye Figarosmom Jan 12 #19
Glad the surgery is behind you. Bright days ahead!!! Fla Dem Jan 12 #10
Yep Figarosmom Jan 12 #20
I'm facing the same thing shortly - in fact I go for my measurements early March. walkingman Jan 12 #21
Ive always had reading glasses and i dont mind that. Figarosmom Jan 12 #24
Thank you - that is exactly what my Doctor said. I guess I'll cross my fingers and take the chance. walkingman Jan 12 #25
I hear you about being nervous, about risking your one good eye, walkingman. wordstroken Jan 12 #34
Thank you so much for your insight. I'm 74 retired and drive very little so that is indeed a factor. walkingman Jan 12 #35
The decision to get the "near vision" turned out to be the best choice. wordstroken Jan 12 #36
Thanks again!! Makes me feel better. walkingman Jan 12 #37
One of the big things I noticed after mine was the improvement of color acuity... Wounded Bear Jan 12 #26
Thank you Figarosmom Jan 12 #27
The eyedrops after are an inconvenience, and I'm sorry you have adverse reactions... Wounded Bear Jan 12 #29
Thanks Figarosmom Jan 12 #33
Best wishes for a speedy and healthy recovery! GreenWave Jan 12 #28
Thank you Figarosmom Jan 12 #32
Best wishes. Keep the music coming. surfered Jan 12 #30
You bet Figarosmom Jan 12 #31
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