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Eugene

(65,115 posts)
23. Yes. Born in the early 1960s.
Thu Jan 30, 2025, 10:55 PM
Jan 2025

Working class family that couldn't make the "traditional" homemaker arrangement work.
My dad worked days and my mom worked overnight as nurse. That way, one parent
was at home with the kids at all times. Household duties were shared.

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When I was a kid, my father had a small photography studio. Walleye Jan 2025 #1
I was born in the early 80's JBTaurus83 Jan 2025 #2
Welcome to DU Marthe48 Jan 2025 #15
At first, no. Later, yes. surrealAmerican Jan 2025 #3
No, but I was born in 1963 crim son Jan 2025 #4
We were farmers so Mom worked on the farm. redstatebluegirl Jan 2025 #5
yes . school teaher and single parent of 3 kids . had to feed us somehow. AllaN01Bear Jan 2025 #6
Born 1970, Dad worked for Ma Bell / Western Electric FirstLight Jan 2025 #7
Yes, I was born in 59 and she went back to work when I was 9 or 10. ms liberty Jan 2025 #8
Mom had 5 kids within 8 years sdfernando Jan 2025 #9
Yes. In the 40s and after, Mom hung wet clothes on the clothes lines in the backyard. cornball 24 Jan 2025 #10
Similar story for my family. I think many of my childhood friends had a similar situation. Fla Dem Jan 2025 #18
I was born in 1952 Wicked Blue Jan 2025 #11
I was born in the mid-60's Deep State Witch Jan 2025 #12
We were born in 49, 50 and 54 (moi) Nittersing Jan 2025 #13
My parents owned a grocery store Marthe48 Jan 2025 #14
I grew up in the 1960s. My mom worked days in an office, my dad nights as a cop. catbyte Jan 2025 #16
My Mom had 4 kids to care for all born within a 5 year span. Fla Dem Jan 2025 #17
My mother went to work as a receptionist in a doctor's office in 1966. crosinski Jan 2025 #19
heh Skittles Jan 2025 #29
no Skittles Jan 2025 #20
I grew up in the '70s and '80s True Dough Jan 2025 #21
My mom had 3 different jobs while I was growing up. some_of_us_are_sane Jan 2025 #22
Yes. Born in the early 1960s. Eugene Jan 2025 #23
My wife and I did that. hunter Jan 2025 #32
My dad was in the military. My mom did not work, she had been a nurse previously but getting license in another LeftInTX Jan 2025 #24
My mom was working in Hollywood as a script secretary when she met my dad. hunter Jan 2025 #25
not really Kali Jan 2025 #26
From second grade on mom was the bread winner and single parent of multiple kids. Hope22 Jan 2025 #27
Yes. I was born in 1951. My mom was a nurse. 3catwoman3 Jan 2025 #28
Yes. mwmisses4289 Jan 2025 #30
My dad didn't want my mom to work... electric_blue68 Jan 2025 #31
My father was a drunk who spent more time between jobs than working. malthaussen Jan 2025 #33
I was born in 1952 - Mom worked in the office of my parochial K-8 school. Talitha Jan 2025 #34
My mother quit working as a lab technician after I was born, but then worked full time every 10 years on the census Rhiannon12866 Feb 2025 #35
Seven kids marigold20 Feb 2025 #36
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